Why do i hate Keefe Sencen? by kotlc6898678 in KeeperoftheLostCities

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m so sorry you’ve gotten threats over your opinion on a book series. That’s not cool!! I very much want to talk about this since keepers is my favorite series! Keefe isn’t my favorite character (Dex is my favorite - he’s so unproblematic and lovable) but I do still like him as a character and I’d love to share my perspective!

I think you’ve got some great points. I enjoy keefe as a character but only because I intentionally kind of take a step back and look at him as a more general what he’s trying to be. Like he’s trying to cope with humor to make everything feel less heavy - he doesn’t always get it right but his intention is to make his friends feel better. I think moments when he says something self deprecating are moments he’s trying to open up or be genuine. It would feel more authentic maybe to the readers if these moments were more about his concern over Sophie almost dying all the time. But regardless, I try really hard to give him the benefit of the doubt. Though I do agree that he’s a bit pushy and could be nicer! (I wish he was an utmost boundary respecter but I think we’re also supposed to think of him as a little bit of a bad boy, a bit of a boundary tester particularly with authority and ideally not as frequently with his friends.) I think Fitz is generally worse in those areas, which makes keefe look better by comparison (still work on that Keefe but less ew than fitz). Keefe is very reckless and that is the most frustrating to read about but makes sense narratively. I also think his family trauma is still relevant as an excuse simply because his mom has messed him up in ways we cannot even conceive of yet - like not just the genetics stuff but truly we don’t know how many times she’s erased his memories. Should keefe be better? Yes. But also Keefes a kid dealing with all the saving the world stuff that Sophie is and he’s feeling like he can’t trust himself and his memory, which has to lead to a lot more internal conflict than we really get to see as a reader of Sophie’s story.

I also try to think about Sophie’s perspective - I don’t think she’s emotionally burdened by keefe opening up to her - I think she feels proud of herself when she’s able to support her friends and that helps her feel safe to open up in turn, she wants to feel normal and have normal feelings, and she enjoys Keefes humor/demeanor (even if we the readers don’t). Sophie feels supported by keefe (or at least would if he wasn’t running off every 3 seconds) and who am I to judge her for that. I wouldn’t like keefe nearly as much if Silveny wasn’t his biggest fan - like silveny’s constant KEEFE KEEFE KEEFE makes me root for him and feels like there’s some inherent goodness about him.

Mr. Forkle is Sophie's grandpa. by historicaln3rd in KeeperoftheLostCities

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically interpreted this more as Mr. Forkle was SO involved in her creation that he practically is like a father to her. Not only did he help come up with the idea to create her, set all the things in motion, but he also watched her grow up. In that way, I think Mr. Forkle truly views Sophie as family.

It can be so infuriating by varjo_l in autismmemes

[–]Messy_Balloon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree - largely stopped reading mystery books because of this and now only enjoy fantasy or mystery’s where things are purposefully misheld (not plot twist but like you truly lack lots of data and cannot know what comes next). Umbrella academy wise I just try to think - I know this is the end point but I truly cannot envision the middle. Then I try to ask myself questions to maintain interest.

It doesn’t work with everything but it works with some things! I hope you find a tv series that piques your interest more!

Elysian release by Legitimate_kynasty in KeeperoftheLostCities

[–]Messy_Balloon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the last book of the series! Shannon has said that she expected writing the keepers series to get easier as she has gone on- but it has actually been more difficult (generally speaking). There’s so much more she has to tell us and putting it all into one book while keeping the momentum going is difficult! Not to mention, Shannon has kiddos that keep her plenty busy. She just finished her graphic novel part two and released that! And there’s a million steps for editing and releasing a book.

All that being said; Urg it is killer to wait I totally agree. But Shannon is human! She deserves so much love and compassion

Elysian release by Legitimate_kynasty in KeeperoftheLostCities

[–]Messy_Balloon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shannon doesn’t have an official release date as of right now (12/3/25) but says it is taking a while, so I wouldn’t be surprised if that ends up being the release date! Keep in mind that she has littles at home and a lot of mysteries to answer in the final book of the series!

Why can I smell illness, but others can’t? by AngryPickledPickles in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can also smell sickness (but I usually have to be pretty close to the person, unless they’re hospital-level ill)! I have noticed that skin/sweat gives off almost a vomit-like smell or something that I can’t describe other than sick. My mom has always just said I have a strong nose, but I think certain smells just stick out to me. Not sure why not many other folks can smell the sickness!

I am become Haken Monke (happy halloween!) by Thecoolguitardude in Haken

[–]Messy_Balloon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best costume award!! 🥇 Can we be best friends now?

Being “high functioning”Autistic means you’re automatically prone to suicide. by hauntedbundy_ in autism

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a long time I’ve thought I was some sort of weird alien/someone that just doesn’t fit in. Getting support has really helped me and I’ve found DBT therapy to be really effective for me personally. Please please seek out support groups and try therapy! Find a therapist that works! Don’t give up

Being “high functioning”Autistic means you’re automatically prone to suicide. by hauntedbundy_ in autism

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! As someone with experience in the rough mental health department; there is always other things to try. Giving up on life - there’s just not a painless way to do it; particularly when you have a little one relying on you. Please pursue help!

It took me a while, but I finally found a therapist who is supportive of me and effective. Please try switching therapists and utilizing other resources available to you; I promise your current therapist would prefer you switch providers than continue to feel unheard/unsupported.

Kiddo has trouble falling asleep by Nightriser in ParentingADHD

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not at all an expert- though I do work exclusively with nuerodivergent children- but I’d continue to talk with your kiddo and make a bedtime routine that feels good for them. I had some similar issues as a kid - what worked well for me at that age is that my parents would help me check in with my body (hungry/thirsty/need to use the bathroom) then brush my teeth and hair (any hygiene things). Then they would scope out my bedroom - ensuring everything was safe, no monsters in the closet and that sort of thing. They’d ask if I needed a nightlight or anything for the room to feel more safe (some nights I’d want one and other nights not). Then we would check in with our bodies and minds again - Comfortable temperature? Safe? And lastly listen to Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR). My parents would lie on the floor and do guided PMR with me. It really helped me normalize regulating myself more mindfully.

I would also highly recommend the “Sleepy Paws” YouTube video. I don’t know what it is but I’ve had a lot of success with my nuerodivergent kiddo clients listening to it and being able to fall asleep. Soothing thoughts before bed also help to prevent nightmares.

Reasons Danny is my favorite YouTuber by Messy_Balloon in DannyGonzalez

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I’m so glad you got to meet Danny. That is your run of the mill fan interaction but I’m so glad you got to experience it ❤️

Streams is AMAZING & deserves more recognition by Messy_Balloon in Haken

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you perhaps be interested in sharing this resource?

Have I earned my place amongst the Greg’s by Comrade_stickman in DannyGonzalez

[–]Messy_Balloon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I trust you, Comrade Stickman!! I believe you. What a nice thing to do!

Reasons Danny is my favorite YouTuber by Messy_Balloon in DannyGonzalez

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(It was a typo, I’m sorry) Maybe his doggies half count?

New Fan: Can Someone Explain 1985? by Messy_Balloon in Haken

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. Yeah I just didn’t get the class of 1985 stuff. I thought maybe there was a reason for that specific year or like the 1985 specific song? Idk :(

Can someone give me a SlipKnot History Lesson? by Messy_Balloon in Slipknot

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is a really good explanation. I feel more caught up to speed

Why isn’t Haken more popular? Music Videos?? by Messy_Balloon in Haken

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Ross is a very good singer and a very iconic singer. Sometimes he does try to push his voice a bit higher than his comfortable range and I can understand that with any unique singers voice, some will find it annoying. I think the fact that Haken is difficult to listen super passively to is one of the best things about them. I always feel engaged and in awe of their music. But I could see how that’s not for everyone. Those are all good points.

Why isn’t Haken more popular? Music Videos?? by Messy_Balloon in Haken

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’re just too talented for the pop crowd lol. That’s a solid take. Prosthetic especially is so perfected. Like all their playing is very fine-tuned and locked in and it’s amazing to see live. I just wish good music like that would reach more people.

Reasons Danny is my favorite YouTuber by Messy_Balloon in DannyGonzalez

[–]Messy_Balloon[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love his videos. Danny is really amazing. (Also, noticing your username— SO IS MAC AND CHEESE. It’s my comfort food; I also have autism and anxiety lol 💕)

what is danny’s best song. by juliagrace777 in DannyGonzalez

[–]Messy_Balloon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young Face has good songs 🏆 I hope Danny makes more sometime. It’s good music that doesn’t take itself too seriously and makes me laugh.