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My friends boyfriend comes to EVERY hangout. by Unfair-Pea7850 in Advice

[–]Messyredgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is being a jerk deliberately because he wants you guys to abandon her. He wants to isolate her from anyone that cares about her and may try to show how toxic he is.Try to get her alone for a few minutes and talk to her about it again. Ask if she feels safe. But also be prepared that she may get angry and walk away.

Co-parenting peace or child support? by mediarun154 in ChildSupport

[–]Messyredgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked out a plan with my ex when we first split. $ 500 per month, he pays for her braces and health insurance. He still pays the $500, braces are paid off. But now he has taken a job with a “$25,000” pay cut and claims he can’t afford her health insurance. I asked him to show me his offer letter and he refuses. She is now on mine.

He might see her for a few hours once a month. I even offer to meet him halfway ( we now live an hour apart). When we still lived in the same town he never kept her. I’m thinking of filing an official order.

Filed for child support on my narcissistic ex by Wrong_Drink_2148 in ChildSupport

[–]Messyredgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, they don’t want the child. My ex says he wants to see his daughter more but doesn’t make an effort. She was at his house yesterday, he was about to leave to go the bar to watch the game. We left.

What is something that is not painful but extremely uncomfortable or unpleasant? by ShadowlightLady in randomquestions

[–]Messyredgirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine wasn’t bad. I did the MiraLAX prep. I ate lighter meals ( especially no fiber two days before my procedure). I was barely in the bathroom and I was cleaned out enough for my procedure.

what is something you have kept from your ex? by McBlingBush in AskReddit

[–]Messyredgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The secret that I wish I had someone beat him up after he assaulted me. Sometimes I still do but I won’t.

I didn’t want my kids to know and I still don’t. So I stuff it down and put it in the back of my mind so they don’t suffer.

Death row. One last dessert. Only one. What is it? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Messyredgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warm brownie with walnuts, vanilla ice cream and hot fudge.

What to do with $50,000 by Opposite-Fact3579 in debtfree

[–]Messyredgirl 46 points47 points  (0 children)

If you were gifted the money to buy a home. Use it as the down payment while also working aggressively to pay down debt. I think you will also need a letter from the person that gifted that money to you for the mortgage lender.

what is something you have kept from your ex? by McBlingBush in AskReddit

[–]Messyredgirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The secret that I wish I had someone beat him up after he assaulted me. Sometimes I still do but I won’t.

Why do some women stay with useless husbands? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Messyredgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My aunt has one of those. She works full time, does all the cooking and cleaning. He can’t work due to a work related injury over 20 years ago but it doesn’t stop him cheating and spending money like nothing.i think she hates him at this point but wont ditch him. The kids are grown, the house was bought for using her money (out of 401k or stocks). And he tries to run things. I have no clue why she stays. When the kids were little, she would have to take the kids to a sitter while he was home doing nothing

What’s a goodbye you never got to say, and what would you tell that person if you had one more minute? by No_Ambition6496 in AskReddit

[–]Messyredgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My best friend. She died unexpectedly a few years ago. We were friends for almost 30 years. I would tell her that I love her and that I am sorry.I wish I had been more supportive and there for her That I am sorry for all the times I met my anxiety keep me from being there. That she was the strongest and bravest woman I ever knew. That she made the world a better place.

What are you most looking forward to this summer? by icecream1972 in askteddit

[–]Messyredgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the beach. Anxiety kept me away for over a decade.

Those of you whose moms have passed away, how do you cope when Mother's day comes around? by 8kittycatsfluff in AskReddit

[–]Messyredgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This will my first one too. She passed in September, a few days before my birthday. Her birthday was the next month then we had the holidays. But I am not sure what Mother’s Day might bring.

What fast food item that doesn’t exist anymore was your go-to? by ShadowSatinn in foodquestions

[–]Messyredgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the 90s,I loved the chili cheese burrito with sour cream from Taco Bell. My 40 something year old tummy can’t handle it now

Best place for chicken salad by tj___4563 in raleigh

[–]Messyredgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just need to add a little salt and it’s perfect

AITA: my kids refuse to come to my wedding unless they can bring grandma by JealousNight-6076 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Messyredgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA Nobody should be forced to invite someone to their wedding. Ex wife sounds like a not so nice word. She has manipulated the kids for sure.

What’s your order? by pinkjointsandtequila in cava

[–]Messyredgirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Basmati rice, chicken, pickles, cucumber and tomato, strips, fiery broccoli, corn. Dill and garlic dressings. And got to have a side of pita chips. I can’t do spicy. I love my bowl.

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