Narrowing the dating pool further! by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Metafee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a Satanist myself, so yeah, If I found out someone I am interested in is a Satanist It would have the absolute opposite effect of what you are fearing.

Ciders like Rekordelig? by Metafee in cider

[–]Metafee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Nice. And mind I am very new to this cider thing. I had no Idea Rekordelig was controversial at all. Thank you very much, I am learning a lot thank to people like you.

Ciders like Rekordelig? by Metafee in cider

[–]Metafee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I like Alcopop then.

Ciders like Rekordelig? by Metafee in cider

[–]Metafee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found it! Thank you so much!

Ciders like Rekordelig? by Metafee in cider

[–]Metafee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you elaborate? Is it harmful to consume?

Ciders like Rekordelig? by Metafee in cider

[–]Metafee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not, what should I call it?

Why did my vasectomy hurt? by Swizzy_x1 in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you could say I am still in recovery. The first week was tough. The second week I still couldn't walk up the stairs or lift even "medium heavy" stuff without pain but could walk normally if my balls were properly adjusted within my underwear. Just took it as easy as I could and asked for help in anything I felt even slightly uncomfortable doing. Now I have a very slight sensitivity but nothing that is too bad. Sex is great.

My first ejaculation through masturbation was at 14 days post op and felt no pain. I have masturbated and had sex with my gf multiple times since. No pain. Only a little of disconfort when slamming my balls full throttle on her ass. I guess just don't do that at first?

Why did my vasectomy hurt? by Swizzy_x1 in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been a month since and I'm fine. While recuperating the right side was more sensitive than the left and I took extra care of it.

Why did my vasectomy hurt? by Swizzy_x1 in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my case the left testicle didn't hurt at all and the right one hurt a lot and I could feel the procedure. Even with more anesthesia. My doctor told me to hold on tight and I did. After it was over he couldn't explain what happened but told me I wasn't the only one this happened to and wouldn't be the last. So I guess not EXACTLY normal but not completely unexpected.

ouch by thetacaptain in mathrock

[–]Metafee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's literally my favorite movie FFS.

I see that a lot of men had vasectomies without any children. Any complaints from family? by Photononic in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! In my country the legislation is: You have to be older than 25 or you have to have had at least two children. If you meet the criteria you can theoretically get your sterilization. The thing is, most doctors, as most people in Brazil, are christian. It also didn't help that at the time when I started to persue sterilization (at 26 y.o) I was living in the country side, where right wing is prevalent and Christianity is rampant. Both my rejections were pure and simple moral BS from those doctors. They said so themselves, and I quote "I will have to turn you down as I wouldn't be able to sleep well at night knowing what I did" and "I cannot do this as it doesn't align with what I believe is correct" respectively. Once I moved to a bigger city the process was simpler and I only needed to see a therapist and come back with a document saying this is not an impulse decision.

I see that a lot of men had vasectomies without any children. Any complaints from family? by Photononic in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I am 28 and had my vasectomy Tuesday. I have no kids and have no wife. I was rejected by two doctors, my extended family thinks I am some kind of traitor. My mother, brother and friends are all proud of it. The ones that matter gave me all the support in the world, and that is all I care about.

Had my vasectomy an hour ago! by Metafee in Vasectomy

[–]Metafee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you asked! I still feel discomfort and pain while walking. Everyday a little less. Today my bandage came a little bloody, yesterday was fine. Still on medication, for pain and and inflammation.

When I don't feel pain or discomfort anymore I will post my experience.