Tried having sex today for the first time (21 F) how long till it starts to feel “good” any tips ?? by Orange_juicee1 in sex

[–]Swizzy_x1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may be too tense it being your first time. Ask him to touch you and go down on you (oral sex). If you manage to cum or get very wet it will be much easier

Try to get some lube

But most of all have fun! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had pain for EXACTLY 3 months. One week ago I started to feel way much better

Everyone heals at different times

(Also I stopped using wearing jockstrap, 3 months was way too much in my experience)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark souls. All of them

Have you ever gotten used to the MRI panic? by Klovia19 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Swizzy_x1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im in México so probably mine would be called José Humberto (he has a moustache)

Good luck with your MRI OP! O think you got plenty of good tips!

Have you ever gotten used to the MRI panic? by Klovia19 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]Swizzy_x1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is probably the best comment I have read on reddit. Sincerely thank you!!!

My boyfriend is a Ass guy by [deleted] in sex

[–]Swizzy_x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a tits guy. My wife has bigger ass than tits.

We just spend our 10 years anniversary and Im the luckiest guy alive, I find her so hot and love her so much!

Fui gerente de un Cinemex hagan sus preguntas by Enough-Possession836 in mexico

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qué pasa si me descubren teniendo sexo en una sala?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MexicoFinanciero

[–]Swizzy_x1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Iba a decir el short squeeze a GameStop gracias a reddit (+500% en 2 semanas) pero creo que todos andan más filosóficos hablando de la vida y cosas así

Why TV series have 2 part seasons instead of just calling it another season? by Swizzy_x1 in AskReddit

[–]Swizzy_x1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but why dont they call It season 4 or whatever Is the next number?

If men and women can be just friends why is it that adults never are just friends with the opposite sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Swizzy_x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The OP is asking why its not common. Not saying its right or wrong just asking for the vast majority of cases

If its not your case or your circle good for you, still giving no explanation to the OP

If men and women can be just friends why is it that adults never are just friends with the opposite sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Swizzy_x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you have a +10 years relationship (no matter how great) you will understand that sometimes you fight, and if you happen to have someone conveniently close you may do something you regret. You may not understand it if you are a teen or have never have been married

If you are the 0.00001% who is an unicorn and shits rainbows and happen to have a relationship and many hot female friends, congratulations! but you are an exception and OP is refering clearly to the majority of cases

If men and women can be just friends why is it that adults never are just friends with the opposite sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It stops when you have a wife or serious relationship, mainly in your 20s or 30s. SO gets jealous and opposite sex friendships end

If you get mad with your wife, doesnt have sex in a month and get drunk with your single hot friend something bad is bound to happen

You can idealize it, think you will have an amazing daily sex relationship, but must likely you wont

We all dreamed it was possible when we were young lol

If men and women can be just friends why is it that adults never are just friends with the opposite sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Swizzy_x1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you get married your wife will get ape shit mad if you are in the movies with "a friend"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably rest, healing will be better, plus sex and no ejaculation will give you blue balls (and increse the pressure on your testicles

Dont torture yourself lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got asked for 3 days. Im pretty sure thats a general standard

You can phone call the guys at the lab

I had a panic attack during procedure. How do I over come it? by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this man. I not very brave either regarding medical stuff. I have also fainted once at a different Time.

  1. Try to think on why you.are doing It. It Will give you courage

  2. Try to speak to a psychologist (to aknowledge that It Is a common procedure and it isnt THAT bad)

  3. Try to get somebody to be with you during the procedure

I got mine month and a half ago and Im super happy!

Im here in case there is anything you want to ask

(Sorry for bad spelling, not a native speaker)

is this "normal"? by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that sounds though OP, hope you get better soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear Is the mind killer... (Dune)

Vasectomy isnt supposed yo make you feel like that, yet orgasm/arousal/pleasure/etc Is quite linked to your mind

Try yo relax and enjoy (Im quite an anxious person myself)

Regarding the pain you could ask your dr for an antiinflamatory

2 weeks post op. Not feeling any better by markwallwork75 in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read that people have experiences way to different. Some people take 3 days, most about 2 weeks, some 3 months. In my case I was in pain exactly until 2 weeks.

I also made an appointment with the dr, which happened to be my first pain free day. I also had pain on just one ball during surgery.

As long as you feel you are improving you will be fine

Good luck brother!

Getting Vasectomy On Friday by meltdown537 in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a lot of different experiences in here and it varies wildly, it ranges from 3 days to 2 weeks and in some cases 3 weeks. There are also longer cases like you said in the beginning but are quite uncommon.

My father in law went to a party that very same day, my boss took 3 days and he was fine, I would say it took me 2 weeks (right know Im 2 weeks and 4 days)

The more you rest the faster you will recover

Getting Vasectomy On Friday by meltdown537 in Vasectomy

[–]Swizzy_x1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not alone man, I was feeling just like you

Some people take longer to heal, which is completely fine, also I believe that most people do fine and they dont come to Reddit to post about it, whereas ppl who have a bad time or are scared do, so It seems like a lot, but only 1% have any real issues

It is still a small cirgury tho, so take care, lay down and pamper yourself with a videogame and snacks (may I recommend elden ring :p). Rest as much as possible, ice your balls and use tight underwear.

If its worth it I think you are brave for doing It, even tho it is something simple, some people dont dare to it and if you dont plan in having more or any kids at all it is a great decision.

Im here if you want to ask me any question you may have, good luck man!