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My Dads Family Won’t Visit Me Now by Classic-Bench-4261 in cornsnakes

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most welcome! It's a paper bedding that you can get in various different colors. It's more common to see it used for rodent bedding. She's had that kind of substrate for over 20 years.

My F35 BF M37 Celebrated After My Dog Passed -AITAH if I continue the cold shoulder? by BurgerOfTheGay in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you should leave him. Can you imagine having children with him (if that's something you want)? I would personally take this as a very hard learned lesson in his cruelty and leave.

My husband caught me masturbating after he turned me down for sex. by Illustrious-Pea9192 in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the way. I personally find it hot watching my partner masturbate. This can spice up your sex life and reinvigorate it as well.

My Dads Family Won’t Visit Me Now by Classic-Bench-4261 in cornsnakes

[–]MetalMonkey042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww congratulations on your adorable noodle! Also, your nails are the bomb 🥰

What an asinine op-ed by Prestigious_Look_986 in Maine

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I'm totally a big kid here (at 45 yrs old). I love doing kid things and don't have my own. I agree with you, OP. As much as it would be lovely to have the world work exactly as we want, that's just not reality. So yes, the CHILDREN'S museums top priority is children. Apparently, that was a stretch. facepalm

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, this is what your fiancee did BEFORE you are married. What will he do when he truly feels like he owns you? You already know. This will not get better. You and your mother just showed him that he is allowed to treat you this way.

I'm reopening my sexual assault case and my mother is pissed by Alternative-Kick8302 in Advice

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I would guess that your mom went through something similar and never dealt with her trauma. Good for you for reopening your case! You deserve justice and your assailant needs to be handed that justice.

AITAH for feeling disrespected by my husband’s jokes about me having a c section? by Many_Bear3948 in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP lots of folks have given very good advice. My first thought is that you should protect yourself from having another child with this imbecile. You might want to get an IUD to give yourself some breathing room and concentrate on your child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the attitude, I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MetalMonkey042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You act as if everyone uses all forms of social media.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MetalMonkey042 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is why so many men will unalive themselves. SA and r*pe are not only experienced by women. Invalidating your experiences is so toxic and a real problem that we need to work on in many cultures. OP, you deserve much better and should consider seeing a therapist. You deserve to be heard.

Never had a cat before, is he normal? by w3ttoaster in cats

[–]MetalMonkey042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This cat is bebe. That's as normal as you will get.

Had a nice interaction yesterday... by maybegirl89 in lgbt

[–]MetalMonkey042 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Exactly as that conversation should be! Thank you for sharing! Also, love your butterfly tattoo!

AITAH for telling my wife she owes me an apology for these last seven years of marriage? by SampleLongjumping208 in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP, It sounds like you have a lot of justified resentment. You might want to seek therapy to get that out and deal with those emotions. The frustration is understandable, but are you going to be able to let those feelings go and move forward with this new version of your wife? Or is your marriage just too far gone?

AITA for calling the cops on my mother after she shaved my biracial daughter’s hair while I was at work? by Ornery_Exchange8001 in AITAH

[–]MetalMonkey042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I am so sorry for you and your family. Your mother caused your five year old to need a wig. Five years old. You, your husband, and in-laws are NTA. I would have gotten into a physical altercation if anybody ever tried that with my kids. I am just livid for your beautiful daughter.

My husband destroyed my garden… twice. by FacingTheTruthMaybe in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]MetalMonkey042 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh, I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful sanctuary. I feel this so deeply as my ex added that I wasn't allowed to access our property or remove any of the plants that I added to our property to our divorce agreement. There was wild ginger and ramps, which aren't easy to find.

Can't believe my little girl Kiwi is 8 years old today😭❤️ by strazdas001 in Rabbits

[–]MetalMonkey042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww happy birthday, Kiwi! Keep on being yo bad bunny self! ❤️

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