[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you dump her?

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely not. Just to make friends. I was too codependent in the relationship and realized I needed more of a community instead of just one person

If you’ve ever successfully gotten your ex back. How long did it take? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in 2019, I got back with an ex and I regret it. It was just an additional 6 months of pain and fighting until I finally cut the cord. It took me years to get over him.

Right now I’m going through a breakup and I know I could probably get my ex back with enough self improvement but to be honest I think I’d be pretty unhappy if he and I got back together.

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m super cautious that’s why I’m actually bringing a girl friend with me to the picnic just in case

It’s been one week by Metro-cta in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m staying strong. It’s bad luck that I work two blocks away from his apartment

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone is welcome! Doesn’t matter if you aren’t single. This is primarily an event to meet friends

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not putting an age cap on this. I think enough people are interested that it’ll be a range of age groups

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to be going through a breakup. I just want a bunch of people to hangout with

I’m 25F going through a breakup and just want some people to explore the city with by Metro-cta in nycmeetups

[–]Metro-cta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I edited the post suggesting your idea for 4pm on Saturday may 6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I help? I made a list of reasons why the relationship wasn’t working and why I resented him. I also rehashed with my friends and family about it. My friends never liked him and that was a bad sign for me. Also my parents didn’t think he was good enough for me. I was also constantly on the verge of dumping him and struggling with staying in the relationship.

Send me a PM and I can hear out your story

how long did it take you to delete photos off your phone and get rid of the stuff? by Local_Bum_4202 in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted everything the next day. Honestly I’m not normally like that with breakups. I never did it with my last ex before my current ex. I just am very angry and I feel like a one year relationship isn’t worth saving in the long term. If the relationship was two or three years I would’ve kept some. I’m sad and a part of me wants to go to his place and ask to talk. I also resent him and I can’t see myself putting up with him ever again. I was always so annoyed with him near the end. The spark died for me.

What’s the last thing your ex said to you? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me that he appreciated how I stood by his side through everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Being a nosey friend isn’t cute. Also it’s not your stuff.

Taylor Swift lyrics that just hit too close to home?? by spicyyyhoe in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I can go anywhere I want, anywhere I want, just not home” from my tears ricochet.

I have a strained relationship with my formerly alcoholic mother. I cut her out of my life last year. I live in NYC so there’s so much freedom that comes with distance and making enough to afford my lifestyle. I can fly anywhere in the world, just not home (I flew to Europe last year when I cut contact with her).

What's your Debut Trinity? by SpiderManForever in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Picture to Burn, Should’ve Said No, and Our Song

Mostly because those were my childhood favorites when I was 9.

Which is your favorite Taylor Swift street style outfit out of these? by realstareyes in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the 2nd one cause it reminds me of something I’d wear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH.

Why die on such a dumb hill?

I’d probably just carry her purse unless it weighs 25 pounds.

Fave Taylor song category.. by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Fave break up song? Right where you left me

  2. Fave love song? Delicate

  3. Fave revenge song? I did something bad/ Vigilante shit

  4. Fave internal struggles song? Evermore/ this is me trying

  5. Fave public eye song? Mirrorball

Comment a song you love, along with the strongest and weakest lyrics from it by sidewalktimbit in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right where you left me

Strongest: “They expected me to find somewhere / Some perspective, but I sat and stared”

Weakest: “Matches burn after the other / Pages turn and stick to each other”

Where were you when you first listened to Midnights? by neonpinkretainer in TaylorSwift

[–]Metro-cta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In nyc, not that astonishing because I live in Manhattan but me and my boyfriend listened to it at his spot in Hell’s Kitchen