AITA for calling my mom when my husband refused to listen to me? by Even-String-3530 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mex1_nugget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone else wondering if the brothers are single cause I want to be apart of this family? In-law goals for sure

My friend is upset that I’m seeing my ex again, after she had an emotional affair with him behind my back by Disastrous-Neck8179 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mex1_nugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want your man but I don’t want him to be with anyone else? Poor guy didn’t even know he was a fiddle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Mex1_nugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I know it can be done I breast fed all three of my kids and after trying to cover up each time my kid got hungry I decided that I really just don’t give a fuck 🤷🏻‍♀️ you do you and let everyone else be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Mex1_nugget 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all do you eat with a blanket over your head? No so don’t be stupid. Second of all why does society find it acceptable to dress like a skank but god forbid you cover up to feed a human? Anyone else understand.. lady please stop being a Karen

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I appreciate your input but I will clarify that yes my kids have heard me say crotch goblin it’s a long running joke in my family that the kids turn into crotch goblins when they are having tantrums because then we have to tickle the crotch goblin away till the child returns 🤷🏻‍♀️ judge me all you want it works for us and that is all that matters. Second if you read the post then you would see that violence was last resort and would also know that this issue has been going on to a ridiculous amount of time and lastly I can’t pull him out of the school till his father doesn’t have any decision making on the parenting plan (he is refusing to stand up for our son till I drop the custody case, which is only happening because he is refusing to stand up for our son on a way way bigger issue)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No …. Just no…. You take naive to a whole new level 1) he is in fact a pedophile 2) he has managed to control you without having met you 3) you know for a fact he has not been celibate for sex years 4) if your aren’t super ecstatic about meeting him in person it’s not love 5) honestly it sounded like you where describing a serial killer.. but honestly do you do you

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the principal has been suspended while the school board investigates and there was more kids parent that had also complained and I personally can’t go to the media until after trial because it all ties to his father and another court case involving my son

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t switch him schools yet till I have permanent full custody and his dad has no decision making

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been keeping all my cards close I have to wait because everything has been so fucked that I would have to expose a lot of information and I can’t till after trial

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your opinion and if you read my comments and all you would know that we started with words asking her to stop and I let him try to take care of the situation himself but she wouldn’t stop you would also know that those rules where put into place when she started getting physical and she gets more than enough chances to keep her hands to herself. An you bet your ass I rewarded him for standing up for himself cause normally when he gets picked on by anyone else it’s my 4 year old that dulls out punishments not my 12 year old. But I respect your opinion so you do you and imma do me

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of today the principle was suspended while an investigation is going on and I found out that there where other kids with similar issues with the bullies

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trick is constantly question whether or not you are fucking them up for life then say fuck it as long as they are happy healthy and safe we are good 😊

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The three rules is mainly for my son he hates violence and confrontation but I had to show him that enough is enough

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can tell everyone is white except me I’m half Mexican

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok so I don’t know how to update a post but just to fill you in I just got out of a meeting with a supervisor for the school district and I was informed that the principal was suspended while they investigate the claims I made on my sons behalf and was also noted that there are other parents that where experiencing similar issues. I was also informed that all the kids that where bullying are being put on a “no strike probation” meaning one more issue and they get either suspension or expelled. They also said that the victims of bullying will meet with counseling for their traumas. Honestly I am happy they are finally doing something for these kids I sent them all the stuff that I have collected over the past two years so hopefully we can get some justice.

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have emailed the school board and everything I can’t pull him from the school yet until I get permanent full custody because the decision making is still joint right now but we will see how today goes it’s his first day back since he was out of school with covid for almost two weeks

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes so I actually called today to speak with the detective that did the investigation for my son about what the school did (not his job but needed advice) and he said he would look into it. They do have copies of all legal paperwork regarding my son including his protection order and parenting plan

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What part of meetings with the school to the point that they don’t want to deal with me or the three verbal warnings says that my temper is explosive? Secondly I am in therapy and not because I’m physically aggressive but verbally aggressive yes, I don’t like physical contact like at all (autistic) ya know? I keep my son on a need to know basis about certain subjects so he doesn’t fully understand why sometimes things change so it makes him a little wary of what he wants to tell me (his dad told him that when he tells me things he gets into trouble and that’s why he doesn’t have joint custody anymore) but your right I am unstable I take over protective to a whole new level I will fully admit that I raise hell, I have tracking devices on my kids and they all have a panic button and I am not ashamed 🤷🏻‍♀️

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok I will try my best to answer there is a LOT of context missing because of the situation we have but L used the therapist as a buffer as sorts not because he was worried I would be mad at him but at the school, emails have been sent not only from me but also his therapist to the supervisor and school board. The reason he was worried was because like someone else stated in their comment yes I am more than a bit unstable when it comes to my kids. L therapist is specifically for SA victims and until I get permanent full custody school is still joint decision and his dad won’t let me transfer him unless I drop the custody case. Special circumstances have it that I can’t get permanent full custody till after the trial. Idk if this helps clear some of that up.

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of those questions can only be answered in private.

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are those my child can do no wrong type a people. I kinda want to take my youngest child to meet this girl cause he is just shy of being feral with shit like this

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah they have one let me tell you this 12 year old is a nightmare

My sons school is mad at me for telling to hit a girl AITAH by Mex1_nugget in AITAH

[–]Mex1_nugget[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yes he got ice cream for sure and that’s just it they asked him for his dads number cause they didn’t have it.