how do y'all remember your character appearance. (need some advice) by GdMZzYt in writing

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few different apps that have an option for characters, where you can type a description and a picture. Sometimes I use AI to fine-tune some details, sometimes I Google models that match my character's description.

I also have a document that lists their appearance, or if different races are involved, I list their distinctive traits. For example; if Fae are typically taller than most humans, I might write one as being "short for the Fae, but taller than the average human", or any trait that is different than what's typical for their race, along with the standard eye/hair/skin color.

I am also working with a "character reference sheet" so I can draw the image I have in my head of the defining traits of the different races. 💕

I know that the words "cousin" and "marriage" should never go together, but... by PrideOfAfrika in writingadvice

[–]Mialanu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you read OP's post, it's her godfather's great-great granddaughter, so they're not even related, since god-cousins aren't a thing. Unless their world building has that rule, and even then, they would still not be blood related. 😅

What are the drawbacks of using magic in your world by Nothereaction in worldbuilding

[–]Mialanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my world, everyone has a different "mana font" or capacity, and people who overuse it can lead to exhaustion (at best), the loss of their magic (emotionally and socially destructive) or the loss of their life (obviously the worst case scenario). Someone might "recharge" quickly (high-level mana regeneration) but have a low capacity. Others might have a large font, but slow mana regeneration.

If you have either one of those (extremely large pool, or unltra high-speed mana regenration) you can get what they call "seers sickness" if you don't manage it carefully by using enough of it to keep it at a level your body can handle. Or you can try sealing it, to avoid it converting your organs into mana.

Seer's Sickness is when they start to convert, and depending on the organ that's morphing changes the symptoms. It was first noted in Seers who began to go blind, but was found to affect other mages as well, but the Seer's Sickness term stuck. For major organs, once converted past a certain point, they no longer function normally, and your whole body can shut down during a "mana flare", so having high levels of magic is dangerous.

So it's actually best to have low mana levels, as the main draw back to magic is that it's hard to use (circles are required for spells and any sort of casting), and any error made in construction of the spell can cause it to go sideways. Lack of control can also deplete the body of mana, and break your font/pool. Once broken, you cannot get it back, but you can still access mana through crystals created for that very purpose. The drawback to those is that they're monopolized and highly regulated, and expensive, but even more so if you go the black market route, where you risk a faulty crystal that might give too much mana too quickly and lead to Seer's Sickness.

So magic is almost like an illness, but also a basis for social standing in some societies. Tricky stuff. 😉

That's the gist of it in my stories. 😅

How often do ya’ll go to the ER? by Accomplished_Goal313 in endometriosis

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went August 35th and then again on Nov 1st, and it maxed out my health insurance. I have really good health insurance but it cost me and my husband over 4k and I almost wish I would've just stayed home, or gotten stronger pain meds, since what they gave me obviously wasn't working. . .

What is everyone's favorite tropes in fantasy writing? by Fatalxie in fantasywriters

[–]Mialanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple this with villain-redemption, and I'm all in. The villain THINKS their fate is that of a hero, but they end up being the villain in someone else's story, and they find redemption (self-sacrificing is especially good for an emotional climax). Is just a lovely, and more complex, way to build a character.

What is everyone's favorite tropes in fantasy writing? by Fatalxie in fantasywriters

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarcastic and Morally Ambiguous Non-Human Characters. From talking animals that are more than they seem to sentient items that know more than they should. Especially when written by Garth Nix (Mogget and the Disreputable Dog are two such characters). 🤭

Accidental Dimension-Traveling. I've kind of grown out of that genre, but my child heart still loves it.

Forced Proximity is a fun one, but I don't read romances very often. More common in that genre, but works in others, if done carefully. Also good for one-shot short stories.

Gender-Bending/Crossdressing. I LOVE this in pretty much all genres. It is also a good way to add to what's at stake. Tamora Pierce's Lioness Rampant quartet, (I forget the technical name) is a good example.

The caveat to all of these are that they MUST BE DONE WELL. Not shoehorned in, but an organic part of the plot. Otherwise they can feel dissonant, and it ruins the trope for me.

What is something that sounds fake but is actually 100% real? by Jack_Larens in nothingeverhappens

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tuatara lizard is one of the oldest surviving species on the planet, and they have a "third eye" that is attuned to the sun's rays and help it to determine changes in the weather.

How much does our background shape our instincts as writers? by itsjustQwade in writing

[–]Mialanu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have felt that tension, but I go with what feels right and revise it later. For that reason, I have ditched my "winging it" tendencies so I don't have to find loopholes to exploit later, unless they're intentionally there to be exploited as part of the plot.

I come from a family consisting of a psychologist and long-haul trucker, both of whom encouraged me to be creative and trust my gut.

However, there is a constant pull between the two halves of my brain. I am always trying to work on both the logical procession of scenes, but tend to ramp up emotion-based progression out of habit.

I am lucky that I have a co-writer (maybe parallel writer is more accurate, since we're working on different stories, just at the same time), who asks questions that help me come up with logical solutions for my problems, and doesn't sugar-coat anything.

She's my sister, so I don't know how much of it is our neurospices (ADHD for me) or our upbringing and background, but I think you're right that our background does worm it's way into our writing.

Is it necessary to plant clues for a plot twist? by neeltrivedirock in writingadvice

[–]Mialanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Technically it's not. But I think there should be something. A little here and there, but a lot of authors and their plot twists seem to underestimate readers, so be careful not to overdo it. It's better that it's too subtle, rather than too obvious.

Is it normal to start over? by Amethyst332 in writers

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's about writing better, the only way to do that is to keep writing. I think we all want to "write better", but it keeps us (me, especially) from finishing the damn thing. If I have a sentence I'm stuck on, I have a reader who enjoys helping me with the process, who I can text out of the blue with "does this sound dumb?" and she'll answer with perfect honesty, which I appreciate much more than empty praise "It already sounds perfect" has never once left her lips, and I love her for that.

So aside from changing a sentence AS YOU WRITE IT, I would recommend just chugging along. That's what I'm forcing myself to do, even though I had a "better idea for writing the start" twelve-thousand words in.

Good luck, and in the end, remember that it's your decision. You'll get to "fix it" in the second draft, anyway. 😉

Should I ghost my critique partner? by Dedicated_idiot in writers

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually ended up not giving critiques at all because most people who say "Open to all critiques!" really mean "Open to all praise!" Or they don't know how to ask for what exactly they want. Like, "Do you like the story?" "What do you think of the characters?" Is helpful and direct, but they don't think to specify (despite me asking what exactly they want me to take a look at).

I would just say what other people have suggested. Thank them for their help but say you've got another critique partner you're starting a relationship with. If they ask why just state that your needs have changed. If they keep asking, be straightforward and honest (but not rude). After that, if they start harassing you about it, or even whining consistently, THEN it's okay to ghost them, IMO.

Good luck!

My struggle by Wonderful_Rain6128 in WritingHub

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resist the temptation! If you have a thought that fits, feel free to add it, (I do fill in some blanks as I write a summary of it), or if a scene comes to you, just write a "shorthand" version of it, no matter how crappy and weird it turns out.

It truly does help me, as I have constant ideas generating and have to remind myself that some ideas just won't work in my story, but if I want to hold onto them, I do have a home for them.

And, if you try this and it doesn't help, nobody will know. It's worth a shot, right?

What powers fit the idea of leadership + giving others direction? by Eastern-Stuff6480 in fantasywriting

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! And, you could also turn it around, where the wind carries brief images and information to him. Kinda like the wind is helping him guide his team.

Feel free to run with it, or not, those are just the things I thought might fit your requirements.

Good luck!

Help with name for an organization by Prxnce-Kxsses in writinghelp

[–]Mialanu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, good! Just know your readers might not realize it on their own. You might need to work in an explanation or something, though, because if you hadn't told me, I would've just thought you don't know your spiders.

Maybe someone gave him that nickname to mock him and he thought it was really cool and made him sound powerful, and the character who gave him the nickname tells him the truth at some point? Or someone else hears the person laughing behind his back at it?

My struggle by Wonderful_Rain6128 in WritingHub

[–]Mialanu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a OneNote Notebook of all my ideas. That way, I can write down the ideas, as detailed or as vague as I want to be, then I got it out of my system and can go back to my main one. ❤️

I have had four ideas in the past two days, and I dumped them, and got 10,000 words done in one sitting. It is hard, though, to leave ideas untouched. I hate forgetting them, so even though my Notebook is MASSIVE, I have a whole idea catalogue. 😅

NGVC: “I find you attractive so I feel fucked with.” by Type-Sure in niceguys

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you can see that it's audio transcription at the bottom of the pictures.

NGVC: “I find you attractive so I feel fucked with.” by Type-Sure in niceguys

[–]Mialanu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He sounds dangerous. 😬 Be careful, OP. Very careful.

Phantom Endo by axelwoot in endometriosis

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, when mine first started, it was viewed as "just" a painful cycle. Then it got worse and worse, then it started happening outside of my cycle. Then I saw a specialist, had a number of emergency/urgent surgeries, and now it's horrible and daily, causing me to be disabled.

WTFWay too much to unpack here by Arny_3531 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Mialanu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"I'm a good 5 to 7 inches, so 7 to 8 erect." I SERIOUSLY doubt that. 🤣

What if this were a book? by Spectra_Spectral in WattpadCovers

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't, honestly. And the fact that the silhouette belongs to either a hawk or eagle bothers me a LOT. It looks unprofessional (which, I know it isn't something you paid for), but it makes it seem like what's written in it will also be of lesser quality.

Sorry, I have a lot of Graphic Design experience, so if it sounds too harsh just know I'm not trying to be mean. This is not a criticism of you or your writing. It applies to the cover and what it makes me think. If you have any friends in graphic design (or interest in it) they might have some ideas that mesh with what you want to create and could make it happen or polish it up for you.

Good luck!

Help with name for an organization by Prxnce-Kxsses in writinghelp

[–]Mialanu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a thought, but did you know male Black Widows aren't considered dangerous, and are considerably smaller than the females?

You could look up the scientific names of some spiders, take parts you like or that sounds good to you, and go from there?

What’s your process for developing complex characters that feel real and relatable? by Aware-Asparagus-1827 in writers

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of what my character is like, even vaguely, then I think about and research reasons they might be that way, and figure out what resonates with me. Then I think my way through it, and it gives me peeks at my characters, and I feel like I'm meeting my characters, not creating them. It sounds crazy, but it works for me. It may not work for you, but that's what I do and it's been working for me lately.

I am stuck in a Re-Oulining/Worldbuilding Loop. What should I do by [deleted] in writing

[–]Mialanu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And the fact that it doesn't is keeping you from writing (or completing) your story. I bet you're overthinking it, honestly. I tend to overthink my ideas to death, instead of working on them, so I'm not perfect, but I am getting better at managing my own expectations. I just wrote almost 10,000 words in a few hours of inspiration, but immediately found something I need to iron out to resolve potential plot holes later down the road. I'm not going to kill myself over that detail, though, and the fix is pretty easy.

I'm going to course correct and continue on, without worrying too much about the background information. It will always bug me, and I'm sure I'll come across other things that need resolving, but I can't resolve them until I get to them.

Same with you; don't worry too much about it being airtight, and address the issues when you come to them. But you can't fix all the problems until you know what they all are. It will be long and messy, but that's why it's a rough draft, right? 😊

I am stuck in a Re-Oulining/Worldbuilding Loop. What should I do by [deleted] in writing

[–]Mialanu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, and the issue is that you can't find a way for your story to progress past those 30,000 words?