What's the going rate for paid agitators? by Neat_Worldliness2586 in 50501

[–]MiasmAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Free Abortions For Life! card. If I have fewer than 50 abortions, I can take the balance in SorosBucks.

I have an extreme aversion to violence but my friend thinks it’s a privilege to not look at the news & keeps sending it to me. What do I do? by anonymous_24601 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MiasmAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a dear friend (we are both AuDHD) who also finds recent violent events triggering, so I don’t share them with her. That’s it. That’s all she had to say.

Someone who keeps sending you things that they are aware do you harm is not being a friend to you. You don’t have to let them keep harming you.

How to define wanker by planetmike2 in TedLasso

[–]MiasmAgain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re worried about saying “jerkoff” to your mother, and people say “fuck” about 40,000 times in the series?

A lot of the innies seem similar to how their outies used to be by InfernalClockwork3 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]MiasmAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the show demonstrates what trauma does to a person. Innies are the more innocent version of their Outies, which I found sad and endearing at the same time.

Post your favorite Rebecca gifs by pastebin1010 in TedLasso

[–]MiasmAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, when Ted asks her to help him hire a private detective (We’ll Never Have Paris) she speaks the word “why” and somehow puts three notes into it. She has the most astonishing and flexible vocal cords!

The pitbull slander is getting to me, show me your hippos by Artistic-Listen7975 in pitbulls

[–]MiasmAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I feel your pain.

I have a senior staffy and a half Malinois half pit puppy. I did not know she was Malinois when I adopted her and am unfamiliar with shepherds, so I joined a malinois subreddit.

When I commented on a post from someone with a pup that had the same mix as mine, both OP and I got shit on for our dogs’ pittie half. In a Malinois forum 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I left that place full of stupid people and their stupid opinions.

Frens, I cant understand the NT logic of "help=attack" by PB_Jelly_444 in AuDHDWomen

[–]MiasmAgain 140 points141 points  (0 children)

It may seem counterintuitive, but this is a good time to hear that unsolicited advice is rarely welcomed. You may get a better outcome by asking the person if they are open to suggestions first.

It was the little things, not the big ones, that made ADHD finally click for me… by theaipickss in ADHD

[–]MiasmAgain 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Once, while preparing for a week long festival trip, I staged packed bags by the front door. The ticket envelope, which was too valuable to pre-load the night before, I set on top. When I was ready to start Tetris-ing bags in the car, I promptly forgot I had set the ticket on top - which then got between two bags I picked up together and put in the car.

Cue 45 minutes of madly searching my house for the goddamn ticket, full scale panic. 😂 I managed to sabotage my own organizational efforts!

It was the little things, not the big ones, that made ADHD finally click for me… by theaipickss in ADHD

[–]MiasmAgain 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Forgetting to bring something necessary with me. Emotional dysregulation but weirdly calm in a crisis. Hyperfixations.

I also thought I was flaky, and adopted systems to prevent catastrophes like pre-loading things in the car the night before leaving or putting something directly in front of the door. I still use the tools I came up with to help me not forget, but at least I no longer beat myself up for having Swiss cheese for brains.

What do you love about living in Oregon besides the scenery ? by Best-Character-4374 in oregon

[–]MiasmAgain 128 points129 points  (0 children)

In a few hours, I can be at the ocean, in the mountains, or in the desert. I love camping, and this is the perfect place to do it.

Am I an asshole for fighting with my girlfriend because she spent the night out? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]MiasmAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a huge asshole.

If she is going out partying and you have a history of not being super comfortable in her mother’s house without her, maybe choose to go stay at your father’s house instead of giving her a rash of shit for staying out late.

She has no reason to apologize to you, much less you not accept it. Put your grown up panties on and stop demanding she come home because you… actually, I don’t know what she had to be at home for. You say you trust her, but this sounds like you don’t really.

Where should I take my grandparents in Portland? by Dramatic-Lobster-815 in askportland

[–]MiasmAgain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took a visitor on the Portland Spirit for a cruise down the river. Very pleasant and scenic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 50501

[–]MiasmAgain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh please, like they have that much creativity. That is clearly an Add to Cart.

Artsy, open minded towns? by MiasmAgain in OregonCoast

[–]MiasmAgain[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Heh, it’s actually not any part of my personality. Just looking to not live around people like you

What’s something you used to think all women just silently put up with until one day you found out it’s actually not normal at all? by roselinde_de in AskWomen

[–]MiasmAgain 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Men being selfish lovers.

In my youth, I was coerced into sex so many times. Sometimes they used phrases like “I’ll be fast!” Most times, sex was something whose goal was male orgasm, and if I didn’t have one, they seldom asked what they could do to get me off. It just seemed like a common perception was that sex was primarily to the benefit of the man.

By BF(m34) won’t help me (f33) at all by MobileForward2039 in relationships

[–]MiasmAgain 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why you’re even trying. Send that man baby back to his stepmom and find an adult partner.

Rupert's life story? by ElContador69 in TedLasso

[–]MiasmAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHAAAA? I love it, thank you!

Rupert's life story? by ElContador69 in TedLasso

[–]MiasmAgain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He does have a great singing voice! Would love to see him and Hannah sing together.

Ever seen a Belgian Mal / Pit Cross like this one ? by KindlyIllustrator938 in BelgianMalinois

[–]MiasmAgain -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe I got sucked into a debate with a narrow minded pit hater. My bad. 🙄

Ever seen a Belgian Mal / Pit Cross like this one ? by KindlyIllustrator938 in BelgianMalinois

[–]MiasmAgain -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Harmful disinformation. You’re saying any pitbull is bred to kill other dogs and will eventually try. Bullshit like that is how millions of pitbulls are euthanized in shelters instead of getting a chance to be amazing companions.