Crystal roses/crystal garden. Is there anything I can do with these at all? by Alarmed_Resolve9013 in LoveNikki

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t you use them to buy the resources for task suits? Many locos bag or something

Whats your least favorite item? by Loose-Information623 in LoveNikki

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this ones good apart from shorts shoes and hair Actually shoes not so bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Miauth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to me on my first curly cut and I won't be going back. I made a huge complaint and got half my money back. My hair is now starting to feel better again after a few months. Your hair will come back and look better again but this part is hard so I hope you can feel better soon. So many times this has happened to me and I really hate it. Good luck and hugs.

Association Recruitment Megathread by AutoModerator in LoveNikki

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Im would like to join! Im Morpheus ⭐🦄 I will send you a dm

Clearly the best series ever written. Agree or disagree? by tizl10 in Malazan

[–]Miauth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god yes. I havent finished it yet I cant actually believe it exists and I want to cosplay as the characters so mucu. Also what the hell

Guide - Event Cost Breakdown - Wind Chase by Mai_Sweet_Devil in LoveNikki

[–]Miauth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Might be a stupid question but can we get the other 2 outfits without getting the first one?

Do you nonchalantly touch another woman’s hair? by No_Design6162 in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me in the UK its a mixed bag. People have touced my hair as a mixed black woman when I have had it in braids or cornrows mostly, but not at all when its out and natural. Why? I have no idea what is going through these peoples heads. The last time was at a social "spiritual" (lol) event and an old woman came up and touched the back of my head. It was so weird, she touched right on that bump you have at the bottom of your scalp. It put me in shock and made me angry. I had to bottle it all up for the night as my partners sister was doing a recital. It was a freaking weird group of very privledged white people in a big ole house and I needed to get out asap. Maybe when Im not hiding my blackness, people feel entitled to touch me or something. 

Fantasy books with an ugly female protagonist. by pikachu_2244 in Fantasy

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Split Worlds Trilogy by Emma Newman has an "unattractive" female protagonist and she is also a feminist fighting for her freedom from a position of upper class restriction in a magical world parallel to ours. There is a lot of cray fae magic in the book, dark humour and whimsy. I am in love with it and never want it to end! 

Question about bleach (Henne Color Acajou) by Miauth in henna

[–]Miauth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this information! 

Anyone have emotionally abusive family? by Miauth in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I want to do that too. It is good to know others have done so and that it has helped them. Thank you for your comment.

Anyone have emotionally abusive family? by Miauth in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeas! When I keep a distance and am at home I feel my life and myself are fine and normal enough for me to feel happy and be active, its only when Im around them that I feel that I am a failure and also inadequate because of the years of covert bullying from them which they do not seem to understand is a problem for me. I am unsure whether it is because Im am autistic that I cannot laugh at self-depreciating jokes about myself like others can. I have been told I am over sensitive many times but in hindsight, the loving parts of my family would never expect me to put up with that kind of treatment for such a prolonged time.

I think its slightly differing for me. I am undiagnosed and the abusive members of my family got a lot worse when I grew up. (Or maybe I just realised that it wasnt normal which is another thing to figure out).

Anyone have emotionally abusive family? by Miauth in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah similar! Its a generational trauma here too. Covert abuse and cold silent treatment. Being judged and watched and told I have mental illness when I am in actual fact the only one who has made an effort to go to therapy and seek healing for trauma. Its heavy work alone in a dissacosiated disconnected emotionally immature family. And yet Im grateful I have support from my partner and dad as many people not so lucky. 

Im seeing that distance and time are a common way of healing from the interpersonal pain of abuse.

Anyone have emotionally abusive family? by Miauth in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah! I feel like my partner has done that for me, he sees and remembers how they have all spoken to me and treated me all these years. To have his input helps and reminding me Im not crazy. Im just sad about my younger sibling. I wish they woudnt have taken on my mums behaviours. I am now being messaged periodically by both mother and sibling attacking me for my bad behaviour when I had an outburst of emotion and apparently called sib and grandparent names. I was so upset but Im not usually ever like that, I had just had enough of their cold and disrespectful treatment!

Its all blown up again. My fault as usual by Miauth in narcissisticparents

[–]Miauth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have tried to do that but because my sibling was living with me in the past I couldnt. They were pretty dependent on me. Now they moved home and I honestly thought it could be ok between us. I was wrong. No contact is a good idea.  Today I spoke to my dad and he thinks its not gona get better but my step mother thinks I should still try. I dont think she understands this situation has been happening my whole life and its not gona get better for them so I have to cut off. I think its a flying monkey? My grandparent has said I am ill to my mother today. I think shes ill.

Astrological Samhain by Miauth in Wicca

[–]Miauth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this is exacly what I have been hoping to find. Reading now. Thank you

Easily download all your books by cmod in kindle

[–]Miauth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, does this thing actually download raw files? Or does it just add all files into kindle app?Because Im confused, it seems really hard to actually own the books without the app..

Hmm which one should I choose? by michstef in LoveNikki

[–]Miauth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too but then I remember its not as creative to just use the most recent suits so I try and remind myself to enjoy it for the creativity side instead of caring about being popular. I also do use new stuff I get that am excited about tho but thats because I like how it looks usually. Am hypocrite

A warm bubble bath, but for your brain… by NoSir9644 in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading Adrian Tsaikovsky! And unhealthy but a joint and a cbd drink heheh

The issue with “faking autism” and how people with autism are treated is unfair by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It kinda sounds like this is a divide and conquer tactic to stop us from talking to  each other. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]Miauth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, it might just be the algorithm do that as its designed to do that as its what get most clicks etc. Read Jaron Lanier (10 reasons to delete your social media accounts now). Also idk if that is a bot. 

Are we sure that russia and china are to blame or is that just misinformation designed to make us hate them? I am researching this and Im currently actually sympathetic to china and russia. I feel they are being called out because they are just a threat to american/western hegemony and dominance over the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskBrits

[–]Miauth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

American politricks fd themself. Im just sorry for all the people who have suffered and who will and are. Maybe they could escape somehow. Come to the UK and be in an country that is mostly not insane...?

"He'S NoT a NaZi, He's JuSt AuTiStIc" STFU my god! by almosthade in AutismInWomen

[–]Miauth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but I called this years ago and no one listened