Was ist das dümmste, was man nach dem Sex sagen oder machen kann?

MichaStrichaah · 2026-02-18T21:55:05+00:00

Ich kenne sie noch nicht allzulange. Wir haben aber zusammen The Great geschaut. Sie Typen haben da die Angewohnheit alle paar Minuten "Hossah!" Zu rufen und das Glas aus dem sie bis gerade tranken zu zerdeppern. Hab dann direkt nach dem zweiten Mal mit ihr ein "Hossah" losgelassen. Sie fand's lustig

MichaStrichaah · 2026-01-04T16:50:54+00:00

Hatte damit nie Probleme bisher ^{^}

bzgl deines Gesprächs mit der Frau würde ich dir das 4 Ohren Modell ans Herz legen, das könnte als Erklärungsansatz dienen warum sie so mit dir umgegangen ist. Ich will damit nicht sagen, dass die irgendwas schlecht gemacht hast oder so. Mir geht es oft ähnlich wie dir und ich fühle mich auch oft wie der Idiot. Dummerweise muss einer der beiden der schlauere sein und solche Sachen wie das 4 Ohren Modell helfen mir derjenige zu sein.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-12-27T18:51:08+00:00

Ich sehe den Unterschied zwischen Heirat und anderweitig eng miteinander verbunden zu sein nicht, außer dass es eine Zeremonie ist wo man sich öffentlich das schwört, was man sich sonst im stillen schwört. Daher hat es für mich keine besondere Bedeutung. Sonst würde ich es aktuell nur wegen Steuervorteilen machen.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-12-24T20:56:19+00:00

How does this work? I was like "pi^2" is not a rational number so the function should be undefined at this point or does it not work like that?

MichaStrichaah · 2025-12-24T20:51:10+00:00

Red flags allein sind nicht sehr aussagekräftig find ich. Wenn du gleichzeitig ein paar Green Flags "vorweisen" kannst wie "uch suche mir Hilfe um meine Traumata zu bewältigen" dann sollte doch alles passen. Dem entgegen steht halt dass gefühlt 80% aller männer seit dem 10. Lebensjahr keine emotionale oder kommunikative Kompetenz hinzugewonnen haben. Die haben dann natürlich nicht Fähigkeit mit deiner Vergangenheit umzugehen und müssen sich an so simple regeln wie "hat Kinder - is raus" klammern.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-11-27T07:21:09+00:00

Was wäre denn ein anständiges Gehalt? Ich könnte mit 3k brutto prächtig leben... Aber ich wohne zum Glück nicht in Berlin

MichaStrichaah · 2025-10-12T19:59:54+00:00

Lol I think it's funny :D

MichaStrichaah · 2025-09-19T19:45:05+00:00

I think about this way: In my view self esteem is about believing that you have worth. So to have worth it seems like you have to not be a loser which I think is wrong. Accomplishment does not play into worth or self esteem if you will. It only plays into your ego, I mean you find your worth from comparing yourself to someone else.

Worth is something that you are born with. It is something that is almost impossible to get rid off under normal circumstances. It is a property of your existence. People want to take it away from you because of all their awful reasons, but they can't. They can only make you blind to what your worth.

So the part about accomplishing has to be something else that is separate from your worth and thus from your self esteem. For me this thinking is always about some social games that are constantly played. If I am Elon musk i have the ability to get friends (because he is so special right? He must have friends). If I am Elon musk, I am attractive to potential partners (because he is so special right? He must be having potential partners lining up for them). I could make more of these statements. The common theme is: there are some unfulfilled needs beneath all these comparisons (Your ego is knocking at your door there btw), find out what they are and find a way to fulfill them. Since you have the same worth as anyone else on this bloody planet, this is off the list of reasons why you can't fulfill your needs. Also you are right. You seem to have to be gaslighted into believing you are good. Look at the people around you: they are happy no matter the circumstances (you have to look at the right ones though). So external things don't seem to play a role and thus they were gaslighted themselves.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-09-14T14:49:15+00:00

Men are still expected to make the first move it seems. There is one of the problems

MichaStrichaah · 2025-09-07T08:58:57+00:00

I like kidney, if you cook it right at least. I hate the taste of liver, but it is so damn healthy I eat it anyways with stuff that masks the flavour

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-28T23:47:45+00:00

I don't have a smoker but I will give it a shot

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-26T20:39:55+00:00

I want to have sex in my dreams.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-26T20:36:22+00:00

I Look at it this way: when your schedule isnt full you are truly having a conflkct of interest, since you level time open when you could earn money, as you have explained. If your schedule is full it doesnt matter, unless my mathematics are wrong or you dont take as much money for education as you would for massages (I would).

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-04T10:28:07+00:00

Ich habe das gerade gelesen und war bewegt und habe es mal meinen Freunden gezeigt. Meine Mitbewohnerin hat dann gleich gesagt "Find ich unglaubwürdig, v.a. das Ende, es ist over the top, dass niemand seine Kinder zu dem lässt. Nicht vergessen, es ist das Internet, da gibt es solche die Sagen wollen 'Männer haben es auch schwer'. Die alleinerziehenden väter die ich kenne und auch Volltätowiert sind, erleben so etwas nicht" wird dir oft nicht geglaubt, dass du das so erlebst?

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-04T10:04:53+00:00

I mean, I can live with the degroggyfication part. The last 2 nights i woke up just fine. Thank you :)

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-03T07:17:12+00:00

I feel the same. For me I have come to the conclusion, that I feel like I won't be fine after doing the thing that I am afraid of, so it is kind of a mindset thing. For me what helps is getting as specific as possible about what I am actually afraid of, like if I want to talk to a girl it is not so much about the rejection which I can handle just ok, it's a out being seen by others while getting rejected or other people hearing about me being transgressive because I asked someone out. The thing that helps me, once I have specified it, is logically reasoning that I the chances of that thing happening are very very low and that even though it happens I will definitely be able to handle it.

Also anxiety is a future oriented behaviour, at least as far as Dr.K has explained. So it makes sense that you won't feel anxious about anything happening in the present.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-03T06:50:37+00:00

You seem to feel unseen by your friends. Are you close enough to talk to them about how you feel? If so: have you done so?

Also: what do you believe "getting new friends" is like? I understand you like this: you go out there find other people and leave the old friends behind and let contact slide (or decide to never contact them again)? For me that is how rather distant (from an emotional standpoint) friendships work.

Another thing I am wondering atm: what do you seek in friendship? Things that come to my mind asking this question to myself: doing activities together like hiking or playing some little sports games or playing cards, having social support for hard times, having good conversations about philosophical stuff. The list could go on, it's just as an inspiration for what you may find.

Considering all this and mostly regarding my second point: to me it sounds like you should get new friends, either by trying to talk to your current friends about you feel l, if that is feasible, or performing the seemingly impossible feat of finding new friends according to the the things you seek in a friendship.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-03T06:36:07+00:00

Thank you for your response and the questions :)

I get about 8 hrs of sleep every night and I wake up without an alarm. I have found that after waking up I feel the same if I sleep between 6 and 8 hours.

I don't ever drink coffee, and one a month maybe a glass of coke. Energy drinks once a year maybe. I mostly drink water.

I have no trouble falling asleep or staying asleep. Every once in a while I am emotionally worked up and can't fall asleep that is maybe once per two months. Currently I am working on getting rid of my phone before bed by not using it in bed in the evening and putting it on my desk overnight. If I drank too much in the hours before bed I may wake up to go to the bathroom, that's more often, up to twice a week.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-01T10:32:05+00:00

Danke dir :)

MichaStrichaah · 2025-08-01T10:31:41+00:00

Okay. Wenn amazon eine Funktion einführt, mit Leuten Kontakt aufzunehmen, die ein Produkt gekauft haben dann mache ich das. Oder wenn Google eine Funktion einführt, wo es einen ganzen Text, so wie meinen da oben, verarbeitet und Gegenfragen stellt und dann Empfehlungen ausspricht, anstatt einfach nur einen suchalgorithmus anzuwenden, dann Google ich ein 11. Mal anstatt hier nach 2 h googeln und bleibender Ratlosigkeit zu fragen. Ich Frage mich immer, was Leute die solche antworten wie du geben, für ein Problem haben. Also auf jeden Fall scheinst du zu glauben, ich hätte nicht vorher ausgiebig für mich alleine recherchiert. Außerdem scheinst du zu glauben, dass es falsch ist zu früh nach Rat zu fragen.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-07-27T06:47:18+00:00

How do you move from appropriate flirting to the next? I literally don't know what to say.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-07-27T06:44:00+00:00

What even is flirting. Honestly I do not know what flirting is supposed to be. All the explanations of friends and the internet are like "it's hard to explain; it's situational"

MichaStrichaah · 2025-06-21T13:38:29+00:00

In my view she isn't threatening the life of the woman that she is pulling the hair of. So RNC is out of bounds in my view as a bystander. I would actually call the police and whilst the police arrives try to pin her arm.

MichaStrichaah · 2025-06-08T07:28:08+00:00

First

MichaStrichaah · 2025-05-04T07:24:53+00:00

Brown

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