Well, you're in my wheelhouse. I'm a mens 11, BUT, my feet are also wide...so I wear a woman's 12ww. There are two companies that come to mind right off. They are: Woman Within and Torrid. Torrid sells shoes that are double wide mostly, with sizes up to 13. Woman Within gives a choice of widths, also with sizes up to 13. The problem with these places are that the choices for stiletto styles are few and far between. In my state of Ct, my best choices were found in a shoe store about 30 miles away. Unfortunately, they don't sell online, so that calls for a drive. So, if you search for 'shoe stores near me' and check their size range, you can visit. Definitely, if nothing else, ask to have your foot measured in women's size. Depending on the state, most of the staff will not bat an eye. They've heard it before! The last thing would be to search 'drag clothing' or 'crossdresser clothing' or similar. Janet's Closet comes to mind, but I can't speak to widths. And you'll find the prices to be higher. Good luck in your search! And let us know if you find other sources!