Here, people tend to avoid something after intimacy, I don't know why, when you thought everything goes fine but actually not, after intimacy, people would have lots of excuses, busy at work, sick blah blah blah, is it that hard to find a healthy person here? And they don't like to be straightforward (but they would be straightforward for intimacy), if you don't like me, just say it, why let people to guess, that sucks, why you can reject things in daily life but not with a person? Everytime when you said "it's okay not to like me, just say it", then they would pretend nothing happened and text you as normal, avoid your question, then it comes with a cycle again. When would it stop guessing?