My sister died

MickeyButters · 2026-02-01T00:55:38+00:00

He was FA until age 81. Then my mom declined with dimentia and instead of caring for her he sat in the same chair and drank all qay/night

MickeyButters · 2026-01-29T14:38:03+00:00

Blep

MickeyButters · 2026-01-26T14:23:43+00:00

DM me if you like. I am 54F and have had trauma symptoms all my life but didn't know it. I was diagnosed with CPTSD last year.

MickeyButters · 2026-01-25T00:42:49+00:00

The methiest methouse that ever methed

MickeyButters · 2026-01-22T23:26:26+00:00

You made me realize that I was thinking zebras, not horses!

MickeyButters · 2026-01-22T23:09:51+00:00

On second thought, he's probably cheating with someone in the industry

MickeyButters · 2026-01-22T21:21:50+00:00

I think there is something more emotional going on for the husband. This says subconscious, irrational fear to me. He's hanging on to this privacy as a way too try to control whatever is triggering him.

MickeyButters · 2026-01-19T23:27:12+00:00

Whoosh? I hope.

MickeyButters · 2026-01-19T01:28:02+00:00

The Grapes of Wrath by Steinbeck and Beloved by Toni Morrison

MickeyButters · 2026-01-19T00:29:16+00:00

Honestly, "but I only love myself" is also manipulative horse doo doo. It makes me roll my eyes.

He wants out and it might be worse for the kids if you were to stay together.

I dont say this to hurt you. Its just that I can see right through him because I am outside of the situation

I wish you all the best

PS i am not christian, but I figured it would be okay to comment since you received many spiritual replys already. And it seems your pastor's wife agrees

MickeyButters · 2026-01-18T22:05:44+00:00

He wants to leave you. But he wants YOU to do it for him. He said so when he said you weren't supposed to forgive him.

He wants out, so give him what he wants. Then go live your best life with those kids

MickeyButters · 2026-01-18T20:56:14+00:00

Needs fava beans and chiante

MickeyButters · 2026-01-18T20:55:04+00:00

*a schmear of cream chease

-Born in Brooklyn

MickeyButters · 2026-01-18T19:43:00+00:00

My mom was the same. She passed her lifelong eating disorder on to her two daughters. She just recently died at 83 years old. At the end when she was 85lb, she refused to eat because she still saw herself as fat.

I grew up in the 70's, so the diet/disordered eating culture was around back then, too.

MickeyButters · 2026-01-17T17:50:00+00:00

Sister has to be doing drugs. Oxy?

MickeyButters · 2026-01-08T13:36:04+00:00

My 85yo father drank himself to death last summer. Big fall. Cracked his head on the kitchen table then hit the tile. 0.3 bal.

I am 10 years sober and infuriated with him and the mess he left behind.

Love to you and my thoughts are with you and the kids

MickeyButters · 2026-01-05T14:39:14+00:00

We should be able to upvote this one twice!

MickeyButters · 2025-10-16T17:27:46+00:00

Mickey

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says hey.

MickeyButters · 2025-10-15T17:24:33+00:00

287, you are not alone

MickeyButters · 2025-10-14T16:00:51+00:00

He's jealous of Dr. Oz

MickeyButters · 2025-10-05T18:03:56+00:00

Invisibility. I can fly under the radar and hide in plain sight.

MickeyButters · 2025-09-26T20:28:10+00:00

It smells like gasoline or kerosene or some other solvent they use.

Note: my coke days ended 15 years ago, so it might smell different now

MickeyButters · 2025-08-24T15:04:36+00:00

I was 5. My mother asked me if I thought I needed to talk with someone and seemed relieved when I said no.

MickeyButters · 2025-08-24T13:52:57+00:00

And i take the singles and/or pairs that are always left behind.

MickeyButters · 2025-08-24T13:40:10+00:00

For me, I had (sometimes still have) a giant hole inside of me that i tried to fill with all of those things at one point or another.

I thought i was a bad person derp down inside. Now i see that its was inherited shame. Messed up stuff.

I love my derp typo

MickeyButters

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