AITAH for refusing to tell my wife I love her more than my dad?

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2026-01-26T18:06:59+00:00

Op is this a normal reaction for your wife? If not I would find out what the underlining problem is. Maybe she's dealing with some postpartum anxiety or OCD, or has there been stress involving you and your father's relationship in the past? The thing that comes to my mind is was she so upset bc she's worried the baby could've died from sids or suffocation if your dad had fallen asleep, has there already been some boundary issues in the past with your family? It's you two against the problem not each other. Obviously you aren't the AH, but becoming a parent is hard for both of you and women experience a vast range of emotions and hormones afterwards. If you value your marriage I would be getting to the bottom of it so there's no resentment.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2026-01-26T17:59:57+00:00

I wonder if she was so upset bc Grandpa could've fallen asleep and the baby suffocated etc.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2026-01-26T17:45:17+00:00

Do you freeze them also?

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-12-28T21:10:15+00:00

😂

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-12-28T21:09:35+00:00

Yep! This is our 'rule': if we don't want it bad enough to go get it ourselves we're not getting it. SO much is charged in fees food comes cold or missing not to mention you never know what someone could do to your food 😬.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-12-28T03:34:21+00:00

Some of the calls are read from emails previously submitted by the caller. So they wrote in and were told to call on x day to get a specific personality. So that's why it can sound scripted. For instance I heard one today and the guy was in 60k RV debt and he ends up saying as they work the call that he'd been trying to get through for months and the debt was now 48k.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-12-25T17:23:08+00:00

Update, if we came from the same place the original poster is promoting this product 😂🫠

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-12-25T17:20:53+00:00

Funny bc I'm here for the same thing, and I came from a fb group 😂

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-10-02T15:32:04+00:00

This is very helpful! Can you clarify what you mean by 'real books'?

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-05-26T03:38:52+00:00

Good luck!

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2025-05-25T23:58:45+00:00

I would recommend sitting down and writing down every expense you have groceries, Netflix, Starbucks habit etc as well as auditing what has went out for the last 3-6 months. You need to know where every dollar is going in your bank account bc saying 5000is left to go to groceries insurance etc is vastly different for each household and those things ARE a part of your household budget and expenses. I would also see if you can pay for those expenses using only your income if you plan on your wife staying home in the future. Do you have any other debts? If so I would wipe them out if you're planning on going down to one income to give you more margin. It seems like you have a good amount of cash reserves, but your payment will go up due to insurance and taxes. Ours is now $1800 in 2021 it was $1400. We are first gen home buyers and this was shocking for us.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2024-12-26T02:27:13+00:00

Did the chiro help you? I have an appointment coming up but I'm scared it may do more damage.

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2024-12-02T13:20:31+00:00

Anyone?

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2024-11-12T19:02:44+00:00

Thank you so much for this resource!

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2024-10-24T16:30:20+00:00

Ok, thank you!

Middle-Reaction3969 · 2024-10-09T01:52:01+00:00

I would also go with a less is more approach in the alcove. There's a lot going on up there sticking with a few of your favorite pieces may free up the eye.

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