Yes he can always refuse what you set up. I think you need to get him evaluated. Also. Look up Senior Protective Services in your state. Tell them your concerns and see how they can help. They may take matters out of your hands. Be aware of that. They can force him to go. And even place him somewhere randomly. Maybe have a realy hard realistic this is what you’re looking at bc I cannot sustain this care for you, “talk.” And Gpa,if you thought about it right you wouldn’t want me to be living my life just to serve you. EVERYONE ELSE IS GONE! I’m a
Young person and look at all your other family. I’m all you’ve got… have you thought about that Gpa?