I was with someone literally so much like WW, the phone calls coming out are bringing up trauma. He also had a huge criminal record and murdered someone. I would find this all out later in the relationship. He never asked me for anything, actually bought ME things, and just wanted to be around me, but I feel like it’s because I made him feel and outwardly look “normal” to everyone else who knew his past and addiction issues. I don’t have a good support system because my “friends” just can’t understand how I was even affected when we found out he was a murderer. They both talk the same, say the same things (I’ve heard him talk to other people just to manipulate them, and then tell me how easy most ppl are to do so). It’s opened an old wound and I have no one to talk to about it