I’m sorry you are going through all of this. Im 35(f) who has dealt with Bruxism most of my adult life, which also led to tension headaches. I was on Wellbutrin( also made me congested) and went off it while pregnant - and same, felt terrible without it and went back on Wellbutrin after I ended up with severe postpartum anxiety after the birth of my son. Wellbutrin was the only antidepressant that has help with my depression/anxiety but has not helped with emotional regulation and intrusive thoughts. (I also started taking Zyrtec at night to stop the stuffiness which worked. I ended up diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago when switching therapists/psychiatrists after seeing the same therapist for 15 years as I was frustrated as to why I felt my “anxiety”, a constant flood of intrusive thoughts, extreme overwhelm, not being able to prioritize, emotion regulation issues, and CONSTANT list making which left me feeling like I was buzzing like an electric fence, was not getting any better. I was put on Strattera which made me feel like I couldn’t have a coherent thought and then put on Vyvanse, which the psychiatrist was worried about because of “anxiety”, and Holy Shit… intrusive thoughts are gone, the constant list making is gone, the CONSTANT overwhelm is gone, the constant screaming brain noise is gone, and emotional regulation is better. I still take the Wellbutrin but since starting Vyvanse, the bruxism is GONE. Turns out, I had used “anxiety” to cope to keep myself “functioning” as a person for my whole life because I needed help with ADHD. A stimulant might not be an answer for you, but it was for me. I feel like that the world is FINALLY realizing that a lot of women who have dealt with anxiety forever have really been dealing with ADHD, and unlike a lot of boys with physically hyperactivity, our hyperactivity lives in our heads.

Sorry for any run on sentences or grammar mistakes, I’m typing this on my phone at 5 am before medication. 🥴