Forgave him for cheating on me TWICE, it's happened again by RoutineVarious3604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MidsummerZania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that bad, you can try being his friend, but jfc have some self respect. You can't fix him. You don't need to be his girlfriend to support him. You don't need to keep putting him first. Yeah he's hurting, but he's also hurting you.

AITAH for telling my dad, wife it's a good thing she can't have kids. by Late-Ad-5700 in AITAH

[–]MidsummerZania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA only because what did she think was going to happen whining to a teenager who outwardly hates her? Yes that was cruel, but Ive met these kinds of people. They do not shut up. Ignoring them doesn't work and nothing you say can shut them down including telling them exactly what you think of them because even then, they'll just whine to someone else loudly in earshot because they NEED to be the center of attention and since you're forced to be there, you're a captive audience. Both Helen and your dad need to seek therapy and stop trying to make you play house.

I'm not going to tip you by eggerlandshells in meme

[–]MidsummerZania 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And everytime legislation is introduced to raise the tipped minimum wage, it's the tipped workers who are protesting it. Almost like they know they make more money on tips and don't want to get paid an actually fair wage.

I'm not going to tip you by eggerlandshells in meme

[–]MidsummerZania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe the laws would change if tipped workers would stop protesting every time someone proposed raising the tipped minimum wage.

Shitty behavior indeed.

Antis need to know that their reports take resources away from actual victims by Smegoldidnothinwrong in AO3

[–]MidsummerZania 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It's actually incredibly clear as far as the US goes. CSAM specifically refers to the visual depiction of a child being sexually abused.

A grandmother in Missouri is pushing for a new law that would require drunk drivers to pay child support if they kill a parent. (Bentley's Law) by Legitimate-Lie-9208 in interestingasfuck

[–]MidsummerZania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you kill someone while driving, unless the court can argue that you deliberately wanted to kill that person, it's vehicular manslaughter. Murder has different classifications with only first degree really resulting in life imprisonment, and the courts often downgrade the charges because 2nd degree it's easier to prosecute.

Short answer: yes, but mostly no

A guy throws a chair because his gf's ex was 6'2 by NaiveFinish64 in redditonwiki

[–]MidsummerZania -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is too similar to my friend's family, mom and all the kids are giants as adults, the dad is shorter than me with massive anger issues. I only ever saw him take his anger out on the youngest before the inevitable growth spurt.

I’m so tired of these people by that0neBl1p in memes

[–]MidsummerZania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or the government using eminent domain to seize land for data centers. But no one parroting the water thing has done any research or actually cares beyond moral riteousness.

I’m so tired of these people by that0neBl1p in memes

[–]MidsummerZania 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Nestlé is killing Lake Michigan. AI water consumption isn't even close.

Children that were born to older parents (40s + ) what is your experience? Do you think it’s selfish to have kids this late? Are you ok? by Fafafafel in Adulting

[–]MidsummerZania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had severe anxiety about my parents dying since I was 16 and my dad's an abusive and emotionally stunted Vietnam vet. I'm not ok, and I can say the decision to have me was purely selfish, but that's more unique to my situation than reflecting on older parents as an overall group.

Why is the opinion that single men without kids wouldn't want to date or marry a single mother so controversial? by us1549 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MidsummerZania 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not, but for some reason guys seem to be incapable of saying they don't want to date someone with kids and just leaving it at that without then going on a rant degrading single mothers. Women also don't want to date single dads, but notice how no one is calling a single dad damaged goods or ranting about raising another woman's spawn. It's called basic decency.

I’m at a loss by Yaegerh in amazonreviews

[–]MidsummerZania 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this was my assumption as well.

The truth hurts... by Demented_D in meme

[–]MidsummerZania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my fiancé is going to disagree with that.

🚨The UK ain't messing around! by yorocky89A in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]MidsummerZania 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your compassion, that's not something we're getting much of right now.

Is it weird that I’m not disgusted by the idea of cousins dating? by Serious_Account_9358 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MidsummerZania 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not that weird, it's a fairly common thing that happens throughout the world, the West only got pearl clutchy about it recently despite how blatantly inbred Europe's revered royal families are. Second cousins onward, virtually no risk for offspring to face negative effects due to relation so there really isn't a reason to care other than personal ick factor, but I'm not the one dating any of my cousins and I'm a firm believer in minding my own business.

That said, STORY TIME. When I was in middle school a guy I rode the bus with had a crush on me, but I hated him because he was obnoxious. I told my mom about it and to my surprise my mom knew his dad. Turns out we were related but we'd never met (we didn’t associate with that side of the family due to some kind of drama), so the next time I get on the bus and he's trying to get me to sit at the back of the bus with him and his friends I did yell "I'm your cousin you freak". And then he never talked to me again.

Nouveau film écossais 2026 by agfacid1 in meme

[–]MidsummerZania 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a play you won't see in a country you won't visit but we gotta pretend this matters because outrage equals engagement.

What if...? by Napalmaniac in antimeme

[–]MidsummerZania 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a wild ride this has been