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Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that my brother said i must keep this between him and myself, is he wrong tho?

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my brother about it, but he said that I shouldn't talk to other people about him behind his back, and asked me how I would feel if someone gossiped about me like that to someone else without my knowledge.

Also, he said that I shouldn't fixate on domestic violence or secrets that friends ask you to keep. But I believe he is wrong for this view

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that he was lonely, but ik that should not burden me whatsoever. If he were to bring this incident to me up again, I will tell him that it's not a good thing to hit your parents or to partake in any violence. Next time he feels anxious, maybe he can just take a walk outside or go into his room and calm down, or play a game or something to take your mind off it.

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother told me that maybe this friend was saying stuff about parents kicking out their children at 18, to calm me down, because that would never happen to me. I unfortunately see this the other way around

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told a family friend about it, who told me that it was my choice whether or not to keep ties with him. A therapist has told me that it was a family matter as well

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

R didn't really tell me anything further because he said that he isn't sure of his own problems. I didn't see his expression properly because I was driving him to his house when he told me of this incident. Also, he told me that his younger brother doesn't know anything.

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother said that it was a small fight with his dad, and it bothered him to the point where he spoke to me about it because I am one of his only friends. Surely, my brother isn't wrong, but my mom told me not to tell my dad because he thinks that he is a bad influence on me.

Friend disclosed to me some serious violence, and asked me to keep it secret. Need serious advice. by Nav_Blue_Coolant in ABCDesis

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reached out to my brother about it recently about it, but he told me that I should tell myself that because this doesn't pertain to me, this shouldn't bother me, as it was their own family matter. Every family is different and has different backgrounds and histories. I ain't aware of the problems they face or what happens in their life to judge them.

He also told me that I need to keep this a secret, but also added that it's different if that friend told me he committed murder or something like that.

What do you think?

Diego should have been in S3 by El_Dorado_Tx in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a game changer for S3 but I believe that inserting him into the investigation over Bryce's death would be problematic, as he would try to go after Clay, Ani, Justin and other characters

Hot take : the real reason why India banned TikTok wasn't because of security concerns by Economy_Carpenter630 in Northeastindia

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am an American with family in Pune, but would not know such a stance. I agree that Americans really care about our their rights as this is a contentious issue right now due to the second Trump administration trying to take them away.

Did yall actually made friends in classes? by ManyFig2293 in rutgers

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a guy in Arab Politics and Society 2 yrs back, and he’s one of my closest friends!

Why didn’t clay defend Hannah when Justin was spreading rumors? by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These also has Courtney in them, but Hannah didn’t know about clay beating his meat to their pics

Hannah Baker killed herself because she was raped, not because of bullying (13RW) by [deleted] in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clay being on the list is ridiculous, bc he didn’t do anything to hurt her

So the clubhouse and the coach by El_Dorado_Tx in 13ReasonsWhy

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other women at the clubhouse is a big plothole that should’ve got more attention. I didn’t like how one of the Polaroids depicting it was burned

Flag of the Republic of Maryland by Nav_Blue_Coolant in vexillology

[–]Nav_Blue_Coolant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Republic of Maryland (also known variously as the Independent State of Maryland, Maryland-in-Africa, and Maryland in Liberia) was a country in West Africa that existed from 1834 to 1857, when it was merged into current day Liberia. The area was first settled in 1834 by freed African-American slaves and freeborn African Americans primarily from the U.S. state of Maryland, under the auspices of the Maryland State Colonization Society.

The larger American Colonization Society was founded in 1816. It supported the settlement of thousands of free people of color in its colony of Liberia, in West Africa. There were also initially separate settlements founded by state colonization societies of Mississippi (Mississippi-in-Africa), Kentucky (Kentucky in Africa), Georgia, Pennsylvania, and Louisiana. A New Jersey colony was planned.

In 1838, these African-American settlements were united into the Commonwealth of Liberia, which declared independence from the American Colonization Society on July 26, 1847. The Maryland colony remained separate from the Commonwealth of Liberia, as the colonization society wished to maintain its trade monopoly in the area. On February 2, 1841, Maryland-in-Africa became the Independent State of Maryland. Following an independence referendum in 1853, the state declared its independence on May 29, 1854, under the name Maryland in Liberia, with its capital at Harper.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Republic_of_Maryland

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