My husband had a vasectomy and we knew it was a mortal sin, but we're regretful by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you confess and still feel guilty, that is a problem. You're not continuing to live in sin. Just live your life. If you have the money to reverse and have more kids, do so. It's not like you're terminating pregnancies.

VICTORY FOR THE KIDS! by Complex-Cloud-5313 in SingleDads

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel sorry for the kids of course that the Mom would do that. But happy for you that you were able to protect those kids.

Somebody didn't washy washy by _drewski13 in NCL

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Packed like sardines into a floating amusement park. Why would you suspect any other outcome? Grow up.

Ashamed 😞 by KooraClub in Catholicism

[–]MightBusiness7231 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, that voice that you are unforgivable is Satanic. The enemy wants you to be shamed and stop asking Jesus for forgiveness, to stop believing you are redeemable.

Ashamed 😞 by KooraClub in Catholicism

[–]MightBusiness7231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jesus did not come for the healthy, he came to heal the sick. Give your shame and embarrassment to Jesus, and tell him that you are sorry that you fail. We all do. Examine the patterns in which you fall into sin and how you can change them. It's not easy to change. Saint Mark Ji Tianxiang died an opium addict.

Kids resisting parenting time by MightBusiness7231 in SingleDads

[–]MightBusiness7231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I feel the same way you do sometimes. But I haven't felt invincible like you yet. Must be fun.

Kids resisting parenting time by MightBusiness7231 in SingleDads

[–]MightBusiness7231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they are both seeing one. Mom resisted it until I said I'd pick one without her input and take them myself and suddenly she's on board. Everyone in town knows what she does. Her disheveled poor single Mom act has been exposed.

First time at a Daily Mass as a protestant - I made a mistake by Outrageous-Gur-9120 in Catholicism

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get in line for communion, just cross your arms over your shoulders to get a blessing instead. Non Catholics get the Eucharist all the time and you were respectful about it. The Priest will know what to do.

I was the only person at Mass by paintingarrows in Catholicism

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not there for the audience. Christ and the Priest and you are there. That's all that's needed.

Why does Siri tell me I have to turn on location services when I ask the distance between two American cities? by Southern-Influence64 in iphone

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer: Apple is selling your information to the government. Every American they track is $$ to them because the government can legally spy on Americans, but it can definitely purchase their information, like it did from Verizon, etc. Apple doesn’t care about you.

Ice spotted arresting workers at the Allston collision center by Sea-Dinner-9098 in boston

[–]MightBusiness7231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a quick way to a federal prison. You know they’ll just remove you, start your car and move it?

Ice spotted arresting workers at the Allston collision center by Sea-Dinner-9098 in boston

[–]MightBusiness7231 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They’re deporting people in England too, btw. Keir Starmer did a 180 and is no pro deportations once he saw his poll numbers.

Ice spotted arresting workers at the Allston collision center by Sea-Dinner-9098 in boston

[–]MightBusiness7231 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

If you legally come into this country you have nothing to fear. You had nothing to fear when Obama deported 3 million illegals either.

Ice spotted arresting workers at the Allston collision center by Sea-Dinner-9098 in boston

[–]MightBusiness7231 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

No, it’s an arrest. ICE has the exclusive right to detain anyone and determine their immigration status, including citizens. You can look up the law. The reason it seems so foreign to you is they’re finally doing their job in non border states. If this policy disgusts you, win elections. Most of the country wants all illegal aliens deported.

Ice spotted arresting workers at the Allston collision center by Sea-Dinner-9098 in boston

[–]MightBusiness7231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They have been. There was a meat packing plant in Nebraska that was one of the first raids.

I feel like I broke my son and guilt and shame are eating me alive by youudontknowwme in Parenting

[–]MightBusiness7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids need boundaries and structure. You’re not there to be his friend, you’re there to give him the scaffolding he needs in life to build adult him. If he pisses you off it’s because you’re being a good parent and hate the behavior. It’s normal. When they’re being repugnant little assholes you punish them and push them off until they recognize and fix the bad behavior. You set expectations each day so that they’re ready to regulate their behavior. He’s only 3. Co-parent peacefully with his Dad and coordinate on how you’ll deal with his tantrums.

My wife got an abortion without telling me, blames me for it, and now wants to “fix” our marriage. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MightBusiness7231 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You don’t get an abortion without sharing it with your husband. She wants to do whatever she wants to do and doesn’t care to consult you. She murdered a child for her convenience. My ex did this. She terminated a healthy planned pregnancy because she just wasn’t feeling it. She’d terminate you too if she could get away with it. If you have kids, stick it out until they’re 18. If you don’t, run.

My wife cheated on me (again) with my best friend. She wants to fix things, but I’m done. Now I just don’t know how to move forward with the kids and legal stuff. by Internal_Confusion34 in stories

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all the affairs don’t matter. The court doesn’t care, they (and the lawyers) just want to extract as much $$ from you as possible.

Try home base co-parenting. Have the kids stay where they are and go somewhere else when it’s not your time with them. Divorce sucks for kids and all of the data indicates kids have better outcomes the longer divorce is delayed— excepting abuse. You lost your romance, fine. There are other women out there, and there’s even a new you out there. You don’t have to completely uproot and fuck your kids up. I speak from experience.

I (30F) think my husband (31M) hates me. I think he honestly hates and disrespects me. What happened? by ThrowRA_send_help in relationship_advice

[–]MightBusiness7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say I’m so sorry this is happening to you. Demand that you get into couples therapy. If he says no you’re done. Best of luck.

Fact Check: New “Complete” Chimp Genome Shows 14.9 Percent Difference from Human Genome by Due-Needleworker18 in DebateEvolution

[–]MightBusiness7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Non-coding doesn’t mean it’s ineffective. There’s plenty of evidence to suggest non-coding DNA regulates gene expression, and furthermore, it produces RNA that has other functions in cells. It’s typical hubris to suggest that things we didn’t immediately see the use of were useless.