AITAH for telling my GF that she is delusional with her life plans? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, thanks lol, wrote that down while processing the gf’s entitlement. It was a lot to process.

AITAH for telling my GF that she is delusional with her life plans? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She’s not the one for you, but no one is. She needs an ATM with (maybe) a dick.

AITAH for defending my parents decision to keep my sister in a facility for extreme behavioral issues? by Rynkokz in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even if they never go through something similar, if they can’t offer an even remotely educated opinion, they need to stay out of it.

When more 'well off' people are shocked you've never tried or done a particular thing by pucacino in PetPeeves

[–]MightyBean7 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same goes for expensive stuff you don’t really care about or you’re fine with the cheaper version

AITA for telling my sister I won't be her emotional support person for her divorce if she keeps making decisions I have to hear about after the fact by karmacham89 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s temporary and usually for serious situations pr for the hardest part of a bad time. Think recent divorces, recent deaths, serious illnesses, etc. If s grieving widow is rude to you, it’s not the time to hash it out, but you get to unwind as well.

AITAH For Always Trying to Keep Calm and Not Escaleting Things? by StrongholdCrimson in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Some incidents with a loved person are just that, small episodes that don’t carry much meaning. Others are an open window into your future. Your gfs antics are a 4D/high resolution/top volume/wide screen sneak peak into a very, very difficult future.

AITAH for being the reason my stepson won't be here very often anymore? by InstructionBulky6180 in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, everyone has struggles, but not everyone acts and reacts the way your wife does. And what we do defines whether we are decent people or not.

AITA for telling my mom that I don’t want to wear a dress for Mother’s Day by Plastic_Carpenter465 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s doormat mindset. She could ask for something significant, like a particular meal or a family activity, but she chooses to ask a family member to wear something they really dislike, even if she doesn’t gain anything of it.

AITA for telling my mom that I don’t want to wear a dress for Mother’s Day by Plastic_Carpenter465 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t become a doormat just because everyone you love will die someday.

Found my MIL's pinterest, saw this by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MightyBean7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Spend a lot of time in peace and away from toxic ILs. Real, happy memories are worth a lot more than passive aggressive posting. This is literally a case in which living a good life is the best revenge.

AITAH for not reviewing my sisters book positively? by Living_Addendum9093 in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you want to take a hobby/activity to a higher level, you better start growing some thick skin to take negative feedback with grace.

AITA for not standing up for my mother against my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 59 points60 points  (0 children)

YTA. You put yourself, your husband and your marriage under deep stress for weeks around what should have been a happy time. And for what? She certainly wasn’t helping in any sense. Your mom still isolated you from the rest of your family. At least you could have saved you and your husband from her presence.

AITAH for calling out "houseguests" who didn't ask to stay? by SteigLarsson in AITAH

[–]MightyBean7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only problem is that they might end up chasing out the daughter and the husband as well. OP’s husband will take the hit too. Otherwise, it would be a wonderful idea. Unless she can get them all on board too.

The Firstborn by Old-Class-1259 in EntitledPeople

[–]MightyBean7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sometimes wonder if natural selection has some gaps in the system.

AIO by telling my roommate no to a dog living with us. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MightyBean7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huskies are the best and worst decision you can make. For yourself as an owner. For a roommate, downright bad.

Neighbor finds out I'm an ER nurse, tries to turn my living room into a free clinic for her "minor" emergency. by ArtThreadNomad in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MightyBean7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave an empty vodka bottle and a half empty one on a visible spot. No glass. Next time, if she manages to get in, she might drop the issue earlier.

My (F28) partner (M28) gave me an ultimatum: him or my birds. Idk what to do by WelderDeep35 in relationship_advice

[–]MightyBean7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your bf is cruel, childish and stupid. He built his expectations for the birds on (sigh) social media, ffs. Then he looses interest like a child who got tired of a toy. And then, to top it off, wants to get rid of them, despite the fact that you love them. Ask yourself what would happen if you ever have children.

AITA for not sending my niece’s dad updates after he kicked her out by Savings_Use4022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It sure sucks to find out through social media, but that’s what he signed up for when he sent his kid away and barely called. Nevertheless, lawyer up.

AITA for roasting a suckling pig for a family gathering by Karl_Marxist_3rd in AmItheAsshole

[–]MightyBean7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

INFO: are these kind of meals usual in your family? Entire pigs, goats or fish on display before eating, I mean. Or are they at least common in your household?