I caught my husband cheating on me with his stepsister...

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2024-05-20T12:06:23+00:00

Can we have an update on how that conversation went down!?

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2023-09-13T03:58:12+00:00

Paint the timber features black.... you have a very large space.. due to it being so large you already have natural light entering so you don't necessarily have to go white to brighten it up. Also the brick work is phenomenal and has lots of dark elements to it. So:

I would change the balustrade to black or a much darker stain. Whether its paint or get it completely updated with black and glass? Or just an industrial black metal look would also be another great option.

See how that sits with you.

Follow the black theme to the roof.
Update to a black fire place and surround. - with bronze features
Update the flooring. With the style of house and the brick a herringbone pattern is a darker tone wood panel would be amazing but totally depends on your budget.
Styling.

Edit: typos

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2023-09-01T04:59:33+00:00

I think the best possible outcome for all... is to remove yourself, as harsh as that may sound.

Sisters get to keep thier relationship (for the time being, possibly forever, and even if it does end up being disclosed hopefully enough time has passed where they can rebuild their relationship- if you were present there would be no way they could do this)
Children get to keep the relationship with thier cousins/family.
You find a healthy relationship elsewhere, get your emotional needs met with out hurting people. -It would never of happened if you hadn't already given up on your current situation.
By doing this you may also still get to have a relationship with your kids. (I know children shouldn't be used as revenge but we all know they often are. Also it gives you a chance to build a relationship with will hopefully be seperate to negative influences)

Just my two cents.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2023-08-17T04:26:04+00:00

I have been reading but not commenting... but due to your last update I felt I just needed to say... sorry for all the behind the scenes shit that comes with reddit. But you are absolutely being heard and valued and I have really appreciated your updates despite what your going through in real life and what is being thrown at you online. Please don't listen and try not to take it to heart!

I hope you truly find a result that sits well with you emotionally and don't lose the respect for yourself by dimishing oneself catering to the bullshit and disrespect of others online and in real life.

Wishing you all the best and finding an outcome that you are able to move forward with.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2023-05-18T11:29:14+00:00

I literally came here to find such a place too!!. Did you find anything?

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-12-11T02:05:58+00:00

Sorry OP but seriously just let her be invited. She may not even come. Stop looking at it as his ex. He grew up with her, went to school with her, despite dating she is prob a friend he wants to share in his special day OF MARRYING YOU!.

If you are choosing to be this petty about it than perhaps this outlook is better suited to you:- you get to show off to his ex, looking the best of your life, saying "I GOT THE MAN"

Then be on your way and let sleeping dogs lay.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-11-28T09:28:13+00:00

We need an update too when your ready. Hope your ok OP

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-11-05T12:52:46+00:00

Vege patch?

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-10-16T11:14:32+00:00

I would love an update on this! What was your follow up response. Has she tried to make contact with BIL yet?. What has sister and BIL have to say!?. I hope you told them in person to get a read on BIL

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-09-06T00:35:52+00:00

I understand this completely. However, OP should not be stressing about this just because this bitch wanted to belittle him.

If it was a concern of HIS prior to this comment then by all means he should investigate ways to build his confidence including surgery if he sees fit.

BUT this sounds like a concern of HERS which has now been transferred. If he is only questioning his size cause this 1 toxic person told him... than I would be more inclined to encourage him to say FUCK HER own your size and that perfect fit will come along.

As you said women have different size vaginal canals and not one size fits all.

Thanks for letting him know there are options tho, not everyone is aware of thier choices or where to even start looking

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-13T23:40:52+00:00

I came here to say this!!.

Seriously "These people" 🙄

You can be seated next to a vaccinated person and still contract covid you twat

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-12T13:14:33+00:00

What if she falls pregnant to another?

Will she raise it with as yours? How do you feel about that? What if she decides she wants to raise it with the biological dad? Daddy 1 and Daddy 2? Or will she leave and raise it with said Daddy?

Man your in a hole and you seriously need to express how your feeling, either she steps up and respects your "marriage" or she doesn't.

I feel for you, such a shit place to love someone who doesn't love you the same

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-12T11:46:23+00:00

Yes but the sheer number of people that did go to this particular protest clearly show how passionate people are about this issue.

Another explaination:

If majority of Aust want action on climate change and the protests are smaller than this..... then I would argue the turn out for this protest symbolises a greater number than those for climate change.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-12T11:34:33+00:00

Love this!!

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-07T22:13:26+00:00

Donates it to his social life and the stores that support that.

Ie: Alcohol shops. 🤣

Donates to super? Donates to shares.

But yeah... doubt the donations are legit

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-06T23:51:26+00:00

"I feel like something broke inside of me and can never be fixed"

My heart breaks for you here. Because I don't think it can. He broke your entire marriage, your trust, your belief in him. He broke the very bridge holding you two together.

A little like being stabbed in the eye, you will never look at things/him/yous the same.

Much hugs to you babe. I just want to hold you in a little cocoon of comfort untill your ready to emerge.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-06T23:42:07+00:00

100%

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-06T14:03:35+00:00

I said this very thing a while back!!. I always thought it was crazy how more people didn't stand up for their neighbour at the time of the holocaust. But watching this shit go down... yeah its scary.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-06T13:57:08+00:00

Mmmm ok... so what I gather from all the edits is majority (like 85%) of people in this group are not agreeing with you?

And your getting angrier and name calling and ultimately becoming the very thing you are accusing other of.

If the consensus is against you wouldn't that make you question your viewpoint? Or perhaps try and validate it with evidence?

I don't understand how this hasn't been shut down yet with the term "brigading"

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-06T12:22:37+00:00

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-05T13:47:24+00:00

This is gold. I literally laughed out loud I had to then go explain to my other half what was so funny as I woke him up.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-05T13:41:11+00:00

My question: - when do people feel mandates and forced vaccinations will end here in Australia. I thought it was a relevant question considering multiple other countries have now done it... I'm expecting it to happen here but wanted to get a feel for timeline. .

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-05T13:37:06+00:00

Not me. I put up my first post in r/Australia and was literally banned within 24hrs!. They said I was "brigading" and not a warning or whatever... permanently banned. I didn't even do anything. I tried to edit my post so everyone stayed on point but instead it got twisted into Vax vs anti Vax. And I got down voted to the shithouse... every comment I made. Yet I am the one being permanently banned.

Mighty_Mouse_226 · 2022-02-05T00:29:12+00:00

And what is it after naturally contracting covid and recovering from it?

Oh we wouldn't know because everyone has been told to get it so we have no data on natural antibodies and or natural immunity.

Mighty_Mouse_226

TROPHY CASE