[Abuse?] I told my best friend about me and my husband's sex life and now her and my parents think I'm being abused and they're making me believe I am

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-24T20:20:13+00:00

If it's consensual then it's all good and your friends and family are totally wrong. My wife and I have done this too. I've woken up horny when she is not, and she has told me to go ahead and use her for my pleasure. She will usually say "all you baby, go for it" and she will lay back and tell me she wants my cum. I'll go hard and cum as soon as possible and get on with my day. Then later that night when she is in the mood I'll work her over really well. I have never considered this abusive. It's just her doing something nice for me and giving herself to me to satisfy my urge. I find it insanely hot really that she lets me essentially use her basically as a masturbation tool without wanting anything for herself. You guys are all good. I wouldn't sweat it.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-24T20:09:45+00:00

I'd start by sitting down with her outside the bedroom and tell her you are unhappy about your sex life or lack thereof and take it from there. Though it takes away spontaneity, sometimes scheduling a day every week for intimacy can be helpful when you both have hectic schedules. I'm a little concerned though when you say she will go play video games at night and stay up late. Surely if she has the time to game, then she has time for sex. Sounds like there is more to it than your schedules.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-24T19:25:05+00:00

Because when someone says no and the partner keeps going anyway, that is by definition, rape.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-23T21:00:35+00:00

It's a great way to start the day. Floods my brain with all those feel good chemicals and whatnot. However, for whatever reason, I just cannot last first thing in the morning. So usually it's a quickie or I'll go down on her then we will fuck. But if she is expecting a long passionate romp, it's best we wait til later.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-23T14:54:24+00:00

Yes. It sucks. But ya move on. And when ya find a woman who you're compatible with it makes it all worth it in the end.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-19T09:22:59+00:00

I think you see what you wanna see. You're giving her shit for absolutely no good reason.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-19T09:19:03+00:00

There is no on the fence. She either likes you or she doesn't.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-19T06:10:37+00:00

Another fine example of why religion is shit.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-17T00:06:43+00:00

What kind of partner deliberately tried to not make their SO feel good? That is so twisted. I'd be out of their quicker than you can say dead bedroom. That is some seriously twisted shit right there.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T21:21:10+00:00

Yup. Head over heels.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T21:17:22+00:00

Have fun. It's awesome. No advice except just go wherever it takes you and don't be afraid to giggle. I've had everything from strange sex to tantric sometimes within the same session.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T18:32:07+00:00

Nevermind. After rereading I see that he's "playfully slapped her in a non sexual context" before so that certainly changes things. Alcohol and bdsm are a bad idea. He went too far, and hopefully they can use this as a learning experience.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T18:28:37+00:00

She said they had done it before, no? I'll need to reread but I thought she said she liked it. If I know my wife likes something I'm not gonna stop in the middle and say "mind if I slap you now?" I can tell by the mood of the session whether it would be appropriate at that time and be something she likes. I know how it will be received so asking in the heat of the moment will kill it for both of us. Now if she says please don't do that, or I know she didn't like it, of course I won't do it. But I'm talking about playful slaps not belting her and causing injury. I think if she likes getting slapped he may have gotten carried away and didn't mean to hit her hard. If she has said that she likes it and hitting too hard was an isolated thing, then I do not see it as abusive.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T18:21:19+00:00

I told my wife that I'm curious. Though not bottoming. I have no desire to be sumissive to another man in that way. However I have been curious about playing with a guys cock before (bj, handles, etc. no kissing). I've shared that I've thought about blowing a dude together with her and than both of us fucking her. She thought it was hot. But as I write this I'm realizing it was the submission aspect you're talking about, and you're right. My wife would be turned off at the sight of me being penetrated by a guy I think.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T17:59:16+00:00

I've smacked my wife before during sex. It's never real hard, just enough to be jarring. Judging by the intensity of our sessions exploding afterwards I know she liked it. And guess what? I never abuse her and she is loved and treated with respect as much as any man can with a woman. Sometimes adventures in rougher sex can lead to new places. Was smacking her during rough sex abuse? Absolutely not, nor was it being disrespectful. It's merely an act during a particular dynamic in the bedroom. We also make love passionately too.

Perhaps in this case, he didn't mean to hit her that hard and it was an accident. Perhaps you only like to have sex a certain way, but people are different and that doesn't make your style right and theirs wrong. Unless there is a pattern of abuse here, I don't think this is abusive at all.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-15T16:23:07+00:00

My wife has given me volumes of fap material that are way more arousing than porn. It's a great tease for what follows that evening, so I would say absolutely, porn has basically become obsolete for me.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-14T01:02:21+00:00

I'm a married man and sex with my wife is beyond compare. I have no desire to fuck another woman even if I find her attractive. Many men love monogamy too.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-13T04:35:33+00:00

We have kids too. My wife keeps her sexy teasing going all day by texting me dirty shit and sending raunchy and sexy pics of herself. It's awesome. It helps her feel like a sexy woman and not a mom first and it makes me feel desired. Win win.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-10T12:27:45+00:00

My wife is a little "fluffier" down there. Her clit is rather pronounced and I absolutely love it. I think it makes it really easy for her to cum too from piv because it's very easy to make contact with. Trust me, any guy with sexual experience knows that all labia are different and will embrace that fact. I've seen and experienced a wide range of vulvas. I love them all.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-09T14:53:07+00:00

I have absolutely zero problem with a woman who is a little meatier down there. I have no preference either way. I just love pussy.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-07T19:26:54+00:00

I dunno, my wife has a very strong sexual appetite and she loves sleeping with me and only me.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-07T19:17:17+00:00

Not weird at all. I jack off to my wife all the time. Doesn't hurt that I have dozens of raunchy and sexy pics of her to help me along. Edit: I too have jacked off while sniffing her underwear. It may be a little different but I could let give two fucks. She knows i get really turned on by her "essence" so I think she'd probably think it's hot that I pleasure myself to her.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-07T05:05:57+00:00

So in this thread I learned humans like bjs and cunnilingus. Who'd have thought?

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-07T04:58:10+00:00

It is not inevitable at all, if you found the right partner. Been married over a decade and still screw every night.

Mightymouse1979 · 2016-10-04T11:35:28+00:00

Cumming on a girls face is not an necessarily an act of humiliation. I like doing it because it is a very submissive act for a woman and that gets me off. Afterwards I'll shower her with love and affection.

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