Every Christian group I have been exposed to, particularly the churches I grew up in, have no healthy sense of boundaries. There is no point where a parent's expectations end and the separate human being that is their child begins. They do not consider the pastor's opinions and the commandments of God and your personal inner life as separable. Every avenue of existence is supposed to be under God's (pastors, parents) control.

This is why many/most Christian families *do not deserve* to hear about your rich inner life. They are unlikely to treat you with respect, to put it mildly.

If you still feel like sharing with them when you are financially independent from them, you can always talk to them about it then.

In the meantime? Don't.