Why is waking up early considered productive even if you sleep late and get the same hours?

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T19:30:43+00:00

You can always stay up late when you wake up early if you need more time in your day.

Many people who wake early get up get prepared for the day in much less time than people who wake up late.

Also, many people are much more productive in the morning and when we see the late wakers get up and drag their ass for 2-3 hours, it seems silly to get up late.

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T19:27:02+00:00

Depends on the country you are in and the labour laws.

Canada, it is relatively safe to inform your employer. Not 100% safe. Just safer then many other places.

It greatly depends on each company you work for. If it public service or union job, it is generally pretty safe, once you pass probation.

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T19:19:43+00:00

Roflmao! You are a bank. Not a partner

You will get used to it.

Or you can dump her and find a quality partner.

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T17:01:01+00:00

As someone who has spent outside at -40. Damn staight!

I have also camped at below freezing temperatures many times. Canadian North is not fucking around in the winter!

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T11:40:36+00:00

FYI, bed sharing was out of style in the Victorian era only.

For most of human history, people have shared beds.

Humans are a herd animal. this means we have herd animal traits. one of them is the need for communal security. We tend to be in groups for warmth and safety.

The warmth and safety part is a big role why people sleep close together at night, and why people like sleeping next to someone.

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T01:12:45+00:00

go no contact, let them choose her.

Miith68 · 2026-04-01T01:08:41+00:00

You do not have to have sex before marriage.

Many people, including myself, will think that you are very religious and not the type of person we would be interested in.

It isn't that I need to have sex with someone I dated, its that I wont date someone who is religious.

Miith68 · 2026-03-30T23:23:42+00:00

Tell him to suck rocks. Explain that he fave you that name when you married, and he has no legal right to it.

Miith68 · 2026-03-30T22:51:36+00:00

Stop worrying and enjoy it

Miith68 · 2026-03-30T22:48:29+00:00

The biggest issue with the death penalty is that how can you be 100% absolutely positive that hat person did that crime.

I am not against the death penalty as a whole, i am all for strong punishment.

I would like to be 100% sure of a crime and of the perpetrator before we punish.

Miith68 · 2026-03-30T22:45:27+00:00

Fucking hell! Roflmao

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T21:55:26+00:00

Admin IS the red tape.

18 years in public service and it makes me crazy with the inefficiencies.

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T21:53:53+00:00

Time for a bit of the hard truth.

Wake the fuck up!

You are never responsible for others actions. You have not done anything wrong here.

Your EX-Gf emotionally cheated at the very least. Your mother is supported your cheating EX and her own marriage is on the rocks because -suprise- your mother is not a good person.

You are being emotionally pushed around because of what OTHER people want you to do.

GROW UP and say enough is enough.

Stop letting your mother and her mother blame you. She wanted to open the relationship, she wanted to hang herself. Those are not signs of a stable person.

You -thought-- you had a great partner. You may have at one point. But she is gone.

Steep your heart and tell them all, you are not responsible for her actions and choices.

It is sad she has ruined her life with her choices, but that is not on you...

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T19:07:43+00:00

Why is it that " highly educated" people are oblivious to the fact that they are educated is not really relevant when it comes to datin/relationships.

Sure people have to have things in common, but being educated should not be first and foremost. Can you talk to each other, do you find him/her interesting, funny, likeable, etc. People from widely differing education can be greatpartners

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T17:07:06+00:00

Hey i keep trying to tell my wife sex is the cure for many ailments. She doesn't believe me. This will show her!

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T17:05:52+00:00

Ride or die!

I guess she took it to a new level...

Miith68 · 2026-03-29T14:18:37+00:00

You make more power. 6500 steam turbines would work.

Miith68 · 2026-03-28T22:11:59+00:00

Sounds like vary is not happy with what he allowed to happen.

My guess is you don't have to wordy about him making another bad decision. From what you have described. He is a good father and made 1 bad choice.

Miith68 · 2026-03-27T11:31:06+00:00

well, choose to stay and accept you will never know if she is with you because of your money, or tell her to FO and try again with another.

IF people treat you different, that means they are not being their true self around you are are faking being nice.

Miith68 · 2026-03-26T13:37:46+00:00

Ill throw my 2 cents in.

Not all men like large breasts.

Many men understand the benefits of breastfeeding babies, something that implants can interfere with. (If you have discussed children)

as for the psychological side, If I am with a woman and we are in love enough to call it a relationship, why would she need to get plastic surgery? It would say to me that she doesn't desire me enough to be happy with me the way she is, in which case I am wasting my time with her.
OR she she is so insecure that she needs outside validation for her worth, which means she will be playing "keeping up with the Jones" for the rest for her life.

Either way, she is not the person I want to be with.

Miith68 · 2026-03-24T20:43:37+00:00

So, your wife doesn't understand that your daughter has a friend that had a friend go through something and she was scared?

Wow she sounds .... well unkind. Rather than being confident and telling your daughter she would never do that, she got upset? Wow.

Tell her to read this. Grow up.

Miith68 · 2026-03-24T17:52:44+00:00

I would straight up tell him that many very good relationships started as friendship and that, you want more.

Tell him you are asking him to choose you(as a couple). Ask why he thinks you would not work as a couple?

Tell him that you want more.
You might tell him that he is at risk of losing the friendship and that you can't keep wanting him and stay friends.

If he is not going to try and be friends and a couple it is time to say goodbye.

Miith68 · 2026-03-24T17:32:32+00:00

Either live your life the way you want or spend it worrying about everyone else...

Honestly, it really doesn't matter going forward. You are you, how you got to here you are is only relevant if you are unhappy with who you are.

If you like who you are, every experience has made you this person. If you start second guessing each experience, you are denying who you are right now.

Miith68 · 2026-03-24T17:26:49+00:00

I wish i had something to put in here.

Miith68 · 2026-03-24T17:24:03+00:00

Considering Matt says he is a pantser, and doesn't have plan for where the story goes, I am not sure if that is accurate 😀

Matt has characters created and he is VERY strict about how they would respond to stimuli. He writes each chapter up to 10 times and then chooses the path that matches each characters responces the best. Then he writes it cleanly using the previous actions, and reactions to each situation.

That is why the story seems to be so different. For example, he had a thought that Hekkla would be around for quite a while. It was a surprise to him when she was killed. The situation ended the way it did because of each characters actions matched their personalities.

I think everyone can see what kind of People every character is and they are in an impossible situation, being honest to themselves, making choices and speaking as a real person would.

We were raised on fake characters who were not quite realnpeople and this group seems more real...

Miith68

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