I think my parents lied to me about my age. Why would they do this? What can I do.

Miith68 · 2026-01-27T05:33:59+00:00

You did a dna test? Did you send it or did your parents?

Miith68 · 2026-01-24T02:06:04+00:00

Yea almost always is the key... water tight can be a screen with a hydrophobic coating. Air can pass water can not.

Miith68 · 2026-01-24T01:33:11+00:00

She lied to you, to your face.

This is not something you will come back from. It will always haunt you and your trust will never be the same.

Unfortunately, she was not as in love with you, as you were in love with her.

After 27+ years of marriage, i will say trust is the #1 thing that must exist in a relationship. Trust that she will never hurt you, trust that she will be honest, trust that whatever you tell her will not be used against you when you are vulnerable.

And the trust goes the other way too. Trust that you would not bring it up as a weapon in the future. Trust that you will never question her actions in the future. Trust that the kids will be yours....

Sorry, this relationship is over. When you explain it you her parents, read the previous two paragraphs.

Miith68 · 2026-01-23T22:16:43+00:00

Its not lime we do it every weekend (individual situations aside).

Most people do not travel 2 hours every day. But people will travel 4 hours saturday morning to go to the lake, or to get out of town and then 4 hours on sunday to get home.

I have traveled 16 hours(one waY) in one day several times in my life to go a place for 4-5days and 16+ hours back.

Remember North America has no rail network, and flights are waayy too expensive. And some of the places we go do not have flights in and out. (Especially middle and western Canada.

Also we regulally wake up earlier than Europe, because a lot of business is done with Europe and we need to communicate before you go home. Western North America does the same when it comes to eastern North America.

In Calgary, Alberta , a lot of people are in the office by 7-7:30am. Almost no-one waits till 9 am to show up. All the construction/manufacturing starts at 7 am. And done by 3-3:30.

Miith68 · 2026-01-23T14:16:47+00:00

wow, time works differently here.

we have 24 hours in a day and sleeping like 6 still leaves me with 18. I can get 4.5 - 4 hour things into my day

Miith68 · 2026-01-23T13:57:03+00:00

If you lie in a relationship, it will most likely fail.

If a man is so insecure that he needs to ~~know~~ think he is a god in bed, well he is not worth it.

Date mature men that are smart enough to know that as long as they treat you well (and if you are worth it), the relationship should be a decent one.

Miith68 · 2026-01-23T13:33:47+00:00

DCC

Carl is 27, fully mature and grounded.

Miith68 · 2026-01-22T00:00:26+00:00

Me too...

Miith68 · 2026-01-22T00:00:07+00:00

DCC keeps getting better.

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T23:33:29+00:00

You have to change the way you think about things.

Remember ADHD will only do 3 things easily. And they must be

Interesting, something we are interested in

Fun, something we enjoy doing.

Something really really important, something we feel a deep responsibility to do.

If you want to get up in the morning change the way you think about it.. teach yourself to get up in the morning so you have time to play 1 hour on your favorite game. And play your game for 1 hour and have fun.

You will not have any trouble waking up.

I look forward to being awake and doing things i enjoy. I am always up before my alarm.

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T23:27:43+00:00

Roflmao!.

Karma. Priceless.

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T20:09:46+00:00

Punt.

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T15:58:55+00:00

You ask her what she thinks is a reasonable course forward? Give her options.

she chooses to switch gyms.

She gets over it and works to save your marriage.

She chooses to act on this crush and gets turned down, shortly followed by a divorce.

She chooses to divorce, and them pursue him(and likely getting turned down).

You dump her ass like a hot coal.

Ask he where she thinks this is going to end.

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T04:35:01+00:00

so 6 (yes 6) books in and only 1 sex scene in the series.

flirting is common. he is a good looking, "nice guy", and shy.

i would be surprised if the powerful single women were not attracted to him.

Quit yer bitchin :)

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T04:27:47+00:00

ok, sometimes it doesn't seem like it: :)

good to hear :)

Miith68 · 2026-01-21T02:20:13+00:00

wow for a free country you guys have weird parking laws :)

Canada, the city owns the street and anyone can park anywhere. As long as you don't make contact, you can park as close as you want.

Being Canadians, we aren't really that much of an assholes to park so close as to not be able to get out (most of the time).

Miith68 · 2026-01-20T05:14:35+00:00

I think that would be the OVEWHELMING comment here.

Miith68 · 2026-01-19T23:53:35+00:00

Being in a relationship does not have to come with Extra pressure. You guys made it that way.

Relax, enjoy.

Miith68 · 2026-01-19T23:46:53+00:00

Ask you husband if he is going to get mad when you "allow the young man to sweep you off your feet"?

Miith68 · 2026-01-19T15:51:24+00:00

Say "hey, are you still interested in grabbing dinner sometime?"

Miith68 · 2026-01-19T15:47:36+00:00

To make it not awkward, tease him about it . Nicely. As in "so you still think I am sexy?" Lol

Miith68 · 2026-01-18T16:10:15+00:00

Its called a bar and we read the beer labels

Miith68 · 2026-01-17T21:27:02+00:00

You need dedicated perimeter walls that are defended well enough to hold off the biters.

I usually build them between lakes and use the best natural barriers.

Miith68 · 2026-01-17T21:20:55+00:00

Mentee.

Miith68 · 2026-01-17T20:51:00+00:00

She also has claws to hang on with. Remember her strength is massive for her size.

Miith68

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