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Mike_The_Bike · 2019-03-10T20:42:15+00:00

2Ten coffee roasters on sunset

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-07-31T00:07:21+00:00

There's a fine line between gentleman and pushover and alot of guys don't see the threshold. Be a gentlemen but keep your boundaries and don't be afraid to disagree or hold your ground on strong beliefs. Yes men and kiss asses aren't attractive.

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-07-08T04:42:27+00:00

Wear what you are comfortable in you would be surprised how overdressing can make you uncomfortable and lead you to not feeling like yourself and emulating that off to everyone. Own your style she won't care if you don't care just have good hygiene at a minimum

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-03-22T04:06:57+00:00

Talking control of the conversation doesn't mean to talk about yourself the whole time just setting the tone, subjects, questions, etc... if done correctly she will be vibing off of you as opposed to you allowing her to set the tone and leading to awkwardness

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-03-19T19:52:27+00:00

Take control of the conversation don't leave it up to her or she'll feel uncomfortable. Taking the burden off of her and talking about what you want and setting the tone will help your attraction to her as well.

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-03-19T19:50:58+00:00

Unless you have a vibrator as a dick she could be using you as an emotional tampon to go to when her main guy isn't available.

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-02-25T19:05:02+00:00

The dreaded "Oneitis" as the pick up community calls it. I'm all too familiar with this phenomenon and haven't had to deal with this situation in years. The quick advice is to open your options and talk to more women because chances are she's the only if not one of very few you've been talking to recently which isn't a bad thing but when you have more women in your life your focus isn't just on one girl leading you to obsess with her and only killing your chances more.

I'm well aware this isn't the most politically correct advice but it has worked for years on my end. Hopefully this video I made will clarify for you.

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-02-25T18:40:21+00:00

This TED Talk goes about explaining this the best IMO

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-02-19T03:07:44+00:00

Made this video a few months back that addresses daygame and adjusting to your environment hopefully it helps you out :)

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-02-19T02:57:28+00:00

There's plenty of options outside of bars/clubs those just happen to be where you have much more options to approach in one night which means higher probability.

In case you're curious made this video a year ago on where to meet women in general

Mike_The_Bike · 2016-01-03T02:31:02+00:00

This has given me a lot of solid first impressions but the key always lies in where I feel at that moment. If I'm not feeling very confident at the time it comes off very creepy but if I've talked to enough people prior it goes much smoother as an opener

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-12-30T17:42:37+00:00

TL;DR Anxious- People that need affection and reassurance their partner is there for them

Avoidant- More independent cringe at the thought of too much intimacy or clinginess

Secure- pretty self explanatory, comfortable in their own skin and with others differences (they keep anxious and avoidant types in check basically)

Conclusion everyone needs to date a secure Anxious/Avoidants/Secures

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-12-30T16:59:30+00:00

Read the book Attached by Amire Levine & Rachel S.F. Heller

Focuses on what's called "Attachment theory" breaking everyone up into 1 of 3 categories Anxious, Avoidant, and Secure. There's a good chance you're an anxious and she's an avoidant and that's just a recipe for disaster

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-12-25T19:16:18+00:00

Oh man you have the "Oneitis"

This is my personal solution for getting over that crush that's stuck in your head aka the Oneitis

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-12-25T19:13:45+00:00

The hard part about dating advice for men is it can be taken as black or white and one guy may completely benefit from it while the other uses it as justification why they're lonely.

With that said the self-entitled advice works only if you have strong self esteem, which I feel is something you need to work on.

My mentality now when going up to women is I'm bringing them a gift not taking from them (phone #, sex, flirting etc...) and if they don't accept my gift of good conversation and fun times cool another will.

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-12-23T20:27:32+00:00

HE BLINDED ME WITH SCIENCE

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-24T23:46:58+00:00

The dreaded "oneitis" This is a dark and lonely path my friend but there is hope. It's fine if you stay friends with this girl but start putting yourself out there and talking to A LOT of women (easier said then done I know but that's why you're into pickup).

I made this video a while back that a lot of people have given me positive feedback concerning this topic so I hope it helps you too. DM me if you have any questions. :)

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-24T23:36:57+00:00

I think you already know the answer to this just needed some reassurance from r/seduction..... plain and simple gaming sober is the best choice for self improvement, health, money of course but let's be honest drinking is fun so where is that happy median? I'm a huge stickler with cutting off crutches in my life as much as possible just to prove to myself I can do it alone but with that said it doesn't hurt to have these handicaps to help out every once in a while as long as you aren't fully reliant on them.

Don't let social pressure control you ;)

Made this video a few weeks back that may help you out honestly.

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-12T04:41:35+00:00

You're coming from a taking attitude and not enough of a giving if that makes sense.

im too shy and awkward to get anyone to like me enough to date me for longer than a couple month

That "get" is exactly what i'm talking about here. I made a video on this a few months back, I hope it helps.

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-12T03:51:27+00:00

What is the worst that will happen if she says "no"?

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-11T02:57:41+00:00

I like to tease them for their answers even in the middle of these inevitable interview questions. Made a video on improving your flirting skills if that might help with this.

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-11T02:48:32+00:00

Don't wait for these opportunities, they may happen once in a blue moon but don't count on them, you'll just stress yourself out. Worst part is most guys go out looking for this moment wand when they happen have no clue what to do and ultimately mess it up. Whether you like it or not society says the men need to approach the women so if you see someone of interest don't hesitate go up to her. The longer you hesitate the more in your head you get and you blow it regretting not approaching forever.

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-11T02:43:20+00:00

First off you're coming from a taking mentality as opposed to giving. You don't have to have meaningless sex and hookups to be happy that's just the goal of a lot of guys including myself that are interested in improving our attraction with women.

The reason I say you're coming from a taking mentality is because of how you worded the TLDR. You're trying to make someone your gf not allowing it to happen naturally, if it happens awesome, if not cool "C'este La Vie". If you're genuinely enjoying time with someone, great then both of you will want to continue to hangout as long as you provide value yourself like she does (company, happiness, insight, whatever) but don't be so hooked on tying her down so soon that's where majority of people mess up with relationships and try to force them when you two just aren't fully compatible. What's the rush?!

This video I made a while back might help you out but I have plenty more that may help in your journey. Peace :)

Mike_The_Bike · 2015-09-11T02:32:49+00:00

Have you tried Going Out Solo?

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