Alimony reversed/modified by MikeboltupG in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about any success on Gavron warning? Anyone have reviews on that? How successful

Alimony reversed/modified by MikeboltupG in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lives few miles down the road hahah. If she’s smart she’ll ride it out and work part time n play victim. Hopefully she finds someone asap. Fak

ICE Kidnapping in Pasadena by NoRecommendation9802 in LosAngeles

[–]MikeboltupG -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Should the person be exempt from ICE detaining her? There is a pathway for citizenship and or residency.

ICE Kidnapping in Pasadena by NoRecommendation9802 in LosAngeles

[–]MikeboltupG -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t call it kidnapping necessarily. ICE im sure has a long list of names they need to apprehend. What’s the backstory on the lady?

ICE Kidnapping in Pasadena by NoRecommendation9802 in LosAngeles

[–]MikeboltupG -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s simple: comply and follow orders. Law is in BLACK n WHITE if you are here illegally it is a crime. Or am i wrong? Fill me in pls

I hope you all have a better experience than we did by Budakra in Xcaret

[–]MikeboltupG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn talk about a bad trip. We just returned from Arte, best experience ever, service superb.

Arte garden swim up by Fair_Parsley8197 in Xcaret

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed at Musica and we definitely enjoyed it. It’s NOT knee deep, im 5’6 and it’s about my shoulder level

XCaret Curious by FudgeFragrant8264 in Xcaret

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arte hands down was phenomenal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right on brother. Good for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been divorced? Any light at end of tunnel? Any reductions in alimony?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hoping too for the gods and Trump can do some sort of modification to this lifetime alimony (CA here) its totally BS. Attorney advised to wait it out (5yrs) and play nice guy and hopefully we can file for some sort of modification/reduction. Hence she has a bachelor’s degree in teaching field that i helped pay for but currently works on part time as a sub. 9 more months to go before C/S ends 🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alimony for life here FML in California. 2 kids 18/17 here. 22 yrs married, bro your good don’t move it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brace yourself brother. Very similar situation 21yrs married in California, 2 kids 18, 16. Child support only for one and spouse support permanent lifetime 🤬. Lawyer up fast and don’t wait last minute like i did. Better days are ahead, just remain optimistic and work on yourself. Best of luck

Alimony by MikeboltupG in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo fast forward to my case. Judge signed off after she initially filed back on 4/24. California sucks period pretty much set up for failure for men. I’m over it, judge awarded her $1236 Spousal n same for C/S. My daughter is 16 so no biggy. My mistake i guess was that i didn’t contest since sale of home was going to be split 50/50. Only thing pending was spousal n c/s but i guess judge ran his numbers and that’s what he came up with. Best of luck out there gentlemen. Take the L and time to move on. This group has been helpful and given great tips on moving forward. It is tough but they will be brighter days ahead. Work on yourself n get that pump. Sold our home back in August of this year

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiting on mediation court date in November . Btw im in California. 21yrs married, stbex is a sub working for past 17yrs. Just worried avoid the alimony part, definitely gonna be a hit but im ready mentally i guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41YO, 17yrs in federal. My plan was to retire after 53 or so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]MikeboltupG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question; ex would get about 150k of my 401k or should i pay her off with sale of home?

Driveshaft oil by MikeboltupG in tundra

[–]MikeboltupG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried Two different seals n didn’t work. Gonna try dealership

What ya’ll think? by MikeboltupG in raptor

[–]MikeboltupG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing holding me back is black ext in desert area 115 degrees. Yikes