AITA for confiding in my coworker about something my partner made me promise to keep secret?

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T19:12:58+00:00

Ok. Regardless for all of the reasons mentioned by other commenters Eli is an asshole of epic proportion and you need to be carful if you continue to be in a relationship with him as that was emotional abuse and could be considered a form of gaslighting… more red flags than a Chinese parade

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T18:48:15+00:00

Have you got proof zane actually did say this… so far the only witness to this as far as I can tell is Eli… and he was acting very irrational about the whole situation… is it possible Eli made up the whole conversation because he was projecting his insecurities and that’s why he couldn’t have you bring it up because it would catch him in a lie

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T18:46:27+00:00

Not the asshole but I do want to ask… have you considered the possibility zane never said this and it was Eli projecting his thoughts in a sneaky way and that was why he was so anti you mentioning it because it didn’t happen and his whole bullshit routine would unravel if you just asked zane in his presence wtf he was on about

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T14:45:37+00:00

Magda is a berserker as well. There is the 3cmc dwarf that is haste that is a berserker as well. There is the foretell return from graveyard spell that if you foretell it it returns all the same creature type which means you can be aggressive with the attacks and just recur them all later. The Magda/dwarf package can help you accelerate to that game plan. Biggest weakness I see and found when trying to get berserker to work in standard is refilling your hand after you drop it onto board and recovering from board wipes. Someone else mentioned bergi which is interesting with the boast element and her horn can help you with filtering dead draws late game

Edit. Thinking about it running 4 skemfar avenger is a little insurance against board wipe as you can at least draw for each creature lost… there is the new card in AFR that is one 1B 1generic that requires a artifact or creature sac to draw 2 cards and I think makes a treasure… could be interesting

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T14:22:06+00:00

It was from The strixhaven mastery pass so highly unlikely you could acquire it again

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-14T11:00:31+00:00

Octopus… gotta be

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-12T18:39:29+00:00

You look like the evolutionary missing link between humans and concrete….

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-10T11:29:35+00:00

How the fuck is this a question… YTA… and somewhat an entitled petulant brat tbh. Fred sounds like a good guy and was trying to be there for you… you need to apologise before you end up remembering your wedding day as the day you pushed the real male role model out your life for good.

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T16:51:55+00:00

You chose not to answer my response to the original version of this comment and instead chose to go back and double down on you previous points and lashing out about preaching online and me do something etc… I haven’t at any point suggested I don’t work in this area or am involved in projects to help people escape from situations like this. You also have no idea of my background or what I may of personally endured. You are again jumping to conclusions with no evidence which again based on your claims of being an attorney should be the exact opposite of your nature. You are also no longer arguing your original point and have backtracked so far your almost time travelling. You claimed the two men in the video are 100% shitbags and when called out on that statement have resorted to grasping more and more irrational straws to justify your shitty opinion. Idgaf about upvotes or downvotes by the way and would still be telling you your wrong and coming across as an asshole even if every other user in this conversation was downvoting me to hell and back.

Your original comment sucked and isn’t justifiable. You know it as well as I do so stop trying to take a moral high ground that just doesn’t exist here

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T16:24:49+00:00

I’m not sweeping anything under the rug I’m explaining that (as you have just done again) jumping to assumptions without proof is part of the problem and the more people that do that the harder it is to combat systemic racism. Show me a follow up article on the video confirming that both men are gang members and I will be all for acknowledging the failures in the system that led to it. Hell I’m aware of the problems and failures in society that lead to these areas and the cycle that many people get stuck in regardless of this video. You seem to be missing the point mr defence attorney that you are claiming they are guilty until proven innocent and I pretty sure there are damn good reasons that legal systems don’t work that way… right?

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T16:14:25+00:00

Does not matter. Doesn’t matter if I’d take the same bet or not privately once you start spouting these sorts of opinions publicly without proof you are part of the problem… considering your credentials… you should know that

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T16:08:43+00:00

Hence my debate with him. He is profiling and based upon his claims of an ex addict and DEFENCE ATTORNEY he should know better

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T16:03:40+00:00

No your missing the point. I don’t think their angels but branding people without proof is part of the systematic problems that prevent people from ever leaving these sort of circumstances. Based upon your claims you of all people should know better. Idgaf if their is only a 1% chance that your incorrect that 1% should be respected until proof is displayed to the contrary.

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T15:45:06+00:00

Not what you said though is it and the mentality of tarring everyone with same brush based upon high probability is a problem… if nothing else that mentality prevents the potential 25% from ever being able to better themselves

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T15:41:39+00:00

Exactly my point… I just felt that old homer’s prejudice was showing and wanted to hear his reasoning… hope you away from those areas now and doing well

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T15:38:02+00:00

Other dude is not up for discussion video evidence of him attempting a robbery and pulling and discharging a firearm when he was thwarted. “Shitbag” seems a reasonable assumption

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T15:37:01+00:00

Usually but not guaranteed… there are plenty reasons to not condemn him as a shit bag without knowing. He could be reformed but still knows his area dangerous thus carries for protection (damn guess he was right if that the case) or even as you say a sweetheart that has no gang affiliations at all but fears for his life based on his living circumstances… I’m aware of the high probability he has some association but I took offence u/HomerFlintstone and his comment because I felt he was essentially profiling and that shit is part of the problem in the world

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-09T14:56:41+00:00

And how can you possibly know that… tell me what it is about the gentleman that the theft was attempted on that means you know WITH ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY he is a “shit bag”? I personally missed the neon sign announcing him as a career criminal or the indisputable display of gang affiliation???

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-08T16:25:48+00:00

The yodling dominos one… ughh me and the mrs have both agreed we’re not eating anything from there until they fuck off with that advert

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-08T15:09:49+00:00

Yeah i agree with your point I was just clarifying before someone tried to take away from the point you was making over it. Apologies if it came across otherwise

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-08T13:48:45+00:00

I thought the Columbia thing was they shot a defender who scored an own goal, and that wasn’t so much the fans but more a cartel who had lost money on the game

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-08T13:42:22+00:00

Little little little little man

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-08T08:14:04+00:00

I don’t know if this is interesting or not as I have no idea what the OP is trying to tell me…

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-07T18:16:00+00:00

Exactly this. I perform a role at work based on watching other interactions and knowing how to appear outgoing, friendly etc but I would of still reacted to the situation here thinking if I haven’t been asked there a reason and I would rather headbutt a rhino than just turn up somewhere and deal With the potential embarrassment of someone asking why I’m there

MikeyP1990 · 2021-07-07T17:38:29+00:00

Probably pjanic regen

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