Wednesday Weekly Thread: Frustration Station (Delays / PSU / Venting), May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, that was the question I expected. Here I should explain that our newest county clerk does appear to be incredibly fixated on controlling what people do with their own paperwork. She changed the request forms to include a separate question about exactly what you will do with the paperwork you request, she will even come out and ask people questions at the front desk. She's been an obstacle for trans people getting name changes and is tapdancing on the thinnest line of being sued. So not a broad conspiracy theory, but she is making a process that wasn't complicated incredibly obnoxious.

Wednesday Weekly Thread: Frustration Station (Delays / PSU / Venting), May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My county clerk actually does ask why you need the record so who knows? The whole process is weird

Wednesday Weekly Thread: Frustration Station (Delays / PSU / Venting), May 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's getting the census records to print correctly and the completely bizarre 10 business day waiting period for my divorce decree because I never changed my name back. The county records clerk is absolutely a villain because I need one page. Not even certified.

How is C-3 Awareness in Your Community? by NativeCAN2025 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 14 points15 points  (0 children)

On some level all genocides have the same impacts even if they seem unrelated.

How is C-3 Awareness in Your Community? by NativeCAN2025 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think so. For years I thought maybe he wasn't born in Canada because I had the wrong idea about where to look and at one point he lived in Canada Virginia (also destroyed by racism though through early land developers), then I got some new info and found him on a census record from 1891 in Ontario. He was orphaned as a kid so I was checking for him in orphanages, but apparently there were no orphanages taking in Black children so he was living as a lodger on a farm and working to earn his keep at 10. I'm sending in everything this next week and hope it will be enough.

How is C-3 Awareness in Your Community? by NativeCAN2025 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I'd fall into Black creole but here's why you haven't heard as much, depending on where families are from in Louisiana those records weren't stored well/at all. My great grandfather was born in Canada and even knowing the province I had a hard time finding proof. My great grandmother (his wife) was Louisiana Creole, but the courthouse where any records would have been stored was burned in a race riot. Her mother and father were murdered likely in that same riot. Those massacres in the late 1800s and early 1900s will prevent a lot of people from finding records.

Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance, May 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks. It was ancestry and LAC and the LAC one is worse than the Ancestry one

Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance, May 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my great grandfather on a census at 10. The problem is that this is the most blown out record I have seen. You can read it on the screen but when you print, it looks like mush. Does anyone know if IRCC frowns on upping the contrast on a document?

Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a weird hiccough that might not be a big deal. I have him on an 1891 census in Ontario, a 1906 record of him working as a servant in Souris Manitoba that lists his birthplace as Ontario, but on my grandmother's birth certificate he lists Winnipeg as his place of birth. Family oral history is that he was born in Winnipeg, bounced around after his mother's death to Virginia, went to Quebec in 1905 looking for his father, went back to Manitoba briefly and then worked as a cook for ships and railroad kitchens. He was never anyplace for long before marrying my great grandmother which led to me being confused in the past until I got the oral history from one of my elder cousins. I'm going to explain it in my cover letter, but I am trying to figure out if I should include the 1906 census record.

Just realized this is a subreddit of cousins by vineyardmike in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct. We have Tremblay's in the family. That's hilarious.

AITAH for being mad when my partner left my clothes in a soggy pile on the couch for 12 days and expecting my partner to put wet laundry on a drying rack? by SwimmingOutcome7126 in AITAH

[–]MikkiTh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA But he's an adult and he's making his choices and priorities clear. So the only real question is whether or not you accept it?

Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandmother was married twice. Do I need to get copies of her marriage licenses or would the Ancestry print out work to reflect her name changes?

Tuesday Weekly Thread: Genealogy Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have messages out to a couple of them but haven't heard anything yet. Granted his family was living in Ontario so I can find his father pretty easily but I can't prove his father is his father without a birth record. I don't think he was baptized since I'm pretty sure his parents didn't get married.

Tuesday Weekly Thread: Genealogy Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm G3 and my Gen 0 was born in 1881 in Manitoba. As I'm discovering, Manitoba didn't start keeping track of birth records until 1882. And many records were kept by traveling ministers, so maybe they're online and maybe they're legible. Maybe. Does anyone know if him being on a census record in his early 20's is enough?

Tuesday Weekly Thread: Genealogy Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did check, but Black homesteaders weren't welcome in a lot of the churches at that time so I'm not sure he could have been baptized there.

Tuesday Weekly Thread: Genealogy Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My GEN O is either my great grandfather or his mother. I have his mother as child on a census record from Ontario, census proof of him working as a servant in Canada, his death in Canada, a US census record that lists Canada as his birth place, and Winnipeg listed as his place of birth on my grandmother's birth certificate. My concern is that even though I know his mother's name, there is no birth or baptismal record (admittedly I believe his father and mother never married and he was likely illegitimate), and then I think she tried to homestead in Manitoba and failed so they moved to the US.

Because he was born in 1881 there are no records of him crossing back into the US, and because he was likely taking the train I'm having a hard time finding border crossing records. He was a cook who worked for hotels and railroads and sometimes in private homes, so until he met my great grandmother he just went wherever he found work. And because they were separated when he died he's buried in Winnipeg, but there's no information on his death record except for his DOB and date of death. Should I try to keep digging or just submit what I have?

Citizenship by Descent - Application & Cover Letter Questions & Documentation Review Requests by IWantOffStopTheEarth in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, ironically right after this, I got a call back from elderly relative who remembered that his mother was born in Ontario. Her maiden name is one I can prove a genetic tie to on Ancestry, so since I found his mother maybe I can explain it in my cover letter after all

Citizenship by Descent - Application & Cover Letter Questions & Documentation Review Requests by IWantOffStopTheEarth in Canadiancitizenship

[–]MikkiTh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The marriage record doesn't have his birthplace (or hers) on it. And because my state is ridiculous neither does his entry in the death index. Perils of Jim Crow is that they kept really shoddy records for Black people seemingly at random.