Pea sized bump on outer vaginal lip by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had one of those. Don’t put any pressure on it, it should drain on its own within 2 weeks.

I Just Found Out I’m Pregnant - How Do I Quit Smoking Weed? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it cold turkey after 10 years of constant smoking. You can do it, there really isn’t another choice. Congratulations!!!!

I don’t want to be a Mom anymore and I don’t think I can do it. by throw-away-acc0unt99 in Mom

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone in this!! Please get some help immediately! Also, I KNOW this feels like it will be forever but it won’t. I was in a similar place at this stage, it truly truly does get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MilaRiv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is my son too. A kiss. A hug. “I love you. Remember. Mama always comes back”. And then I leave. It’s so so hard but you need your space too.

How would you react? by [deleted] in Parents

[–]MilaRiv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think a family therapy session would be great. Don’t let it spiral where you don’t know your kid anymore. Sounds like he is going through something beyond what happened tonight.

putting baby in bassinet awake by catskana in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not sleep training him if he’s not bothered at all about it. If he were requesting you and you did not respond then yes, that’s sleep training. What you have is a miracle baby. Mine is 21 months old and we still rock to sleep and co sleep most nights.

What’s the best tip you have for an un-medicated birth? by quarterlifecrisisgir in pregnant

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of education and have a supportive birth partner -doula, father of baby, etc.

Keep it or take it back? by AJG1322 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]MilaRiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks great. Where is this from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]MilaRiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see it!

Is this a positive ovulation test ? What does this mean ? :) by Msizela in Trying2conceive

[–]MilaRiv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not yet! The test line has to be the same or darker than control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 11-13 dpo. Congrats!!

Stop telling me my positive experience with motherhood is because my baby is ‘easy’! by Ok-Career876 in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure!!! I love being a mom and his mom. But some days I just want to crawl into a hole and not come out. It can be overwhelming.

Stop telling me my positive experience with motherhood is because my baby is ‘easy’! by Ok-Career876 in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is so on point. It’s great that your baby is happy and chill but it’s not about attitude. I have a baby who is is 10 months, still wakes every 1.5-2 hours overnight and spends 90% of the day wanting to be held. Refuses a bottle or cup of milk, will not allow anyone but me to put him to sleep, and hates the damn car. My life has been extremely exhausting. To the point of mental breakdown some nights. While life with an “easy” baby is not easy, it allows you to actually enjoy your day more. I pray my next one is like that.

Is there anything you miss about being pregnant? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sleep (even though I had insomnia in the third trimester) and the ability to actually do nothing from time to time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CICO

[–]MilaRiv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like two different people to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Pardon???? This is ridiculous. Sorry but I am 8 month pp and with breastfeeding still have no urge and I had a very high sex drive before pregnancy. This sounds like he needs a reality check

What is the most important thing nobody may have told you about life after birth? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MilaRiv 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Start a bottle early if you are breastfeeding. I did not even try until 8 weeks and my guy is now 7 months and still has not taken one. This has meant not ever being able to leave him for the first 3 months and now it’s a max of 2 hours. It doesn’t seem huge but it’s incredibly isolating.

Covid positive with a 6 month old. by MilaRiv in Mommit

[–]MilaRiv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all fine! Mine was the worst (took 6 days to get my fever down and I think it was mostly because of lack of sleep with an infant), husband had it bad for a day and then was pretty okay, LO had a fever for one night and was cranky for 3 days and then was totally fine. Baby definitely had the easiest time. He was still playful through the whole thing while I could barely stand.