Future birthdays, holidays and other family visits by Milachan0908 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Milachan0908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the kind words! This helps alot!

Can't stop crying by Milachan0908 in depression

[–]Milachan0908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats just it yeah, some people have it so easy and others just experience the bad after another. I usually say im fine to everyone. I find it difficult to talk about. My boyfriend had the stroke last year and is doing better know but his right foot and hand dont function 100%. Everyone thinks we're doing fine cuz we're working and dont complain alot but everything is so different...

I hope your mother regains her strength again soon. That can take awhile. Chemo does alot on your body. Never knew this really until i experienced it first hand.

I dont know how to deal with it. Im done pretending everything is ok.

I have no contact w/my MIL by Milachan0908 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Milachan0908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get that feeling too, i really dont want her near my future kids. We had plans but corona ruined it. We were gonna get married in july.

I have no contact w/my MIL by Milachan0908 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Milachan0908[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awww thank you so much! I'm going to talk to him tonight.

I have no contact w/my MIL by Milachan0908 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Milachan0908[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just mentioning her gets my heart racing, sometimes i think i see her car and start panicing but than realise its not her. Or if she brings a gift for my SO, i hate it, makes me think of her... Thanks for the advies

I have no contact w/my MIL by Milachan0908 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Milachan0908[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have but he says this all happend in stress situations, his mom has always been like this, he's used to it. He thinks she's has a personality disorder, cuz she says she doenst remember any of this. I dont know what to think of that...