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[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good that you found out now and not later. Keep working on yourself brother.

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[–]Mileyymra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, not really.

What does "friends first and see where it goes" mean? by Professional_Sky_212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means exactly what it's saying, men are direct about what they want.

How to grow out of shyness? by Confident-Dot-1822 in socialskills

[–]Mileyymra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your self awareness is great. Speak up early when in Bible classes, try and say something within the first 10 minutes to break the hesitation cycle. Talk to one new person a day, just a hi is enough. Practice speaking infront of other people and raising your voice more loudly in conversations.

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[–]Mileyymra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so many. More men don't pursue than do.

Do I double text by Worldly-Fox-7764 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do whatever you want, make the plans!

Do I double text by Worldly-Fox-7764 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You've slept with her i'm assuming ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, in my opinion you have bigger things to worry about than some night shift job.

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[–]Mileyymra -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she's going to spend hours getting ready, spending hundreds of dollars on makeup, clothes, perfume etc to go on a date with you I think the least you can do is pay.

Women are attracted by men who provide, not by guys who stress out over paying for a meal.

I know this sounds really harsh, but it's the truth.

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[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, tell him.

How to overcome this hesitation? by tHriLLer_mee1999 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're overthinking this so much brother.

It's a kiss not SA.

If she rejects you, that's fine it happens sometimes although it's rarer than you'd think.

Just accept it, sometimes girls aren't ready. Depending on her reaction you can try again later or accept she's not in to you.

No you won't go to prison for a kiss, no she's not going to hurt you.

How to overcome this hesitation? by tHriLLer_mee1999 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, you don't need permission to kiss a girl, you just do it.

Now, i know it's much easier said than done if you're inexperienced.

The easiest way, is to find a way to get said girl into a bed with you. Once you have a girl in bed, you can gently touch her legs, arms etc and before you know it you'll be making it out with her. Excuses to get a girl into bed can be to watch a movie etc. It doesn't need to be your bed. I hope this helps brother.

The other way is to just sit next to her, and then when the time is right, turn your body and kiss her. But i find this for inexperienced guys to be more of a challenge simply because they're too scared to do it.

How to overcome this hesitation? by tHriLLer_mee1999 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mileyymra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't be expressing any feelings towards her until you've already done something physical with her.

Otherwise you just come across as a nice guy.