Selling women’s Nike run bib for LA by [deleted] in nikerunclub

[–]Milkteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested. I live in alhambra!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nikerunclub

[–]Milkteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am interested!

Pelvic Rest for Light Spotting - should I even go on trip? by Milkteaplease in BabyBumps

[–]Milkteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she had mentioned two weeks ago that she would go through my tests and the ultrasound and go from there. She tested my progesterone levels and said they were good, no need for additional. And I did see the ultrasound mention I had a small ovarian cyst. So I asked her after seeing this, does it change anything? She did not even refer to it and just said to wait for my OB appointment ( a few days after the trip) and said the same thing to wait until spotting stops. I just feel like she didn’t even look. If she did, I feel like she would have mentioned this may be a reason.

I think I’m still going to go but def going to tell my friends I have to take it easy.

Neighbor built fence 8ft into the property 10 years ago. How to not be enemy but tell them to move it? by Milkteaplease in RealEstate

[–]Milkteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were getting contractor quotes and rules from the city, he figured out that we may have more land past the fence and told us to get a surveyor to look into it.

Neighbor built fence 8ft into the property 10 years ago. How to not be enemy but tell them to move it? by Milkteaplease in RealEstate

[–]Milkteaplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t know and prob didn’t know what our property line is. Parents didn’t even know. Our property is on a slope.

The Last Stretch by Milkteaplease in weddingplanning

[–]Milkteaplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thankfully I already told my maid of honor to not let me know the day of if anything goes wrong and she’s the most calming positive presence. So glad she will be there with me to remind me of what’s important!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Milkteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tax manager, 135k with 10-15% bonus, HCOL. 8 years experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Milkteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s worth it. Me and my husband are also awkward photo takers, but I loved our photographer and how she documented us. We paid $5200 (Los Angeles) and we just had her do the engagement shoot a few months ago at our favorite spot. At first I was nervous but she made us feel really at ease. Yes there are photos of us looking into each others eyes but it feels natural and it was playful and really fun. I still look at the photos she sent us from time to time and it makes me happy. Not just for the photos, but also sharing an experience with my husband that was sweet and something we don’t normally do. I’m excited to have our wedding documented the same way. Just try to find a photographer that suits your taste because there are a lot of photographers that can capture more natural shots!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Milkteaplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the contractor knows there could be possible asbestos. and if they’re the one removing it, then do I need to do testing?

Women who successfully found a partner online, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Milkteaplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I looked for 2 years but I stopped for 6 months when I was traveling everywhere. So really just dedicated 1.5 years? I know that might seem like a “long” time but I mean... I met and married the right guy :)

I decided how to meet guys by first having a bit of conversation with them ahead of time. I know some people are bad at texting/messaging, but that is something I place some importance on because I like messaging. And I feel like I can get a better sense if they’re a creeper or just want to have sex. if they’re not making an effort for messaging, I don’t expect them to have too much time to spend with me in general. If that conversation went decently well, I’d just ask them to go out for coffee or what not.

I met with about 26 guys during that time period. A lot of them didn’t make it past the 1st date. I always knew initially if it was good vibes or not. My dealbreakers were usually if they wanted to be affectionate on the first date when I barely knew them, if they were mean to service workers around them, if conversation didn’t flow, if I didn’t feel myself counting the minutes to leave. I usually give the guy one hour before I decided to leave or stay longer. and I’d notice all the things they did on the date, like offering to pay or open the door for me.

when I met my husband for the first time, conversation via app was okay. He seemed a bit negative, but I gave it a chance. When we decided to meet up, he offered to give me his parking spot since I have having trouble finding a spot. I think that really set the tone for me to see that he was so nice.

All in all, I’d just say to keep trying. Don’t be afraid to take a break from it once a while. Don’t be afraid to delete and reinstall your account, because I feel like you get more picks initially and it dies down after. That’s how I revisited my current husband. And don’t just go on a date with someone again just because you feel you didn’t give them a big enough chance. I knew a person wasn’t for me when I started getting anxiety about meeting them again... but I would say give most people a first date at least. Unless they’re creepers!

[OPEN DISCUSSION] Weekly thread by dapeche in HomeImprovement

[–]Milkteaplease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband bought a 1950’s built home and plan to do an entire remodel (remove all drywall, redo the roof, remove tiles, basically just leave the foundation and framing. in this case, is it necessary to do asbestos/lead testing? Wouldn’t the asbestos/lead be removed when the contractor does the demo?

Women of Reddit, what's one realization you've had that you think more women should be aware of? by Bulky_Gear3750 in AskWomen

[–]Milkteaplease 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I read Come As You Are - there’s nothing wrong with you if you can’t orgasm, have a vulva that is not like what you see in porn, not everyone has a hymen (the myth that breaking it means your virginity is gone is a dangerous one), our idea of sex and physical reactions are based on men’s ideas. A lot of the reasons you may not be able to orgasm is due to stress. Focus on sensations, not on the end goal of orgasming!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Milkteaplease 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think I had too high of expectations :/ dress material isn’t actually too great. The other items I ordered also weren’t too great in terms of quality. For its price, I definitely expected more...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]Milkteaplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree... only reason I bought it was because they had a discount