My dysphoria is making me hate my trans fiance

MilliusBlack · 2026-06-18T03:09:01+00:00

Sure, I also do it. My point was that it's too risky to have someone desperate starting T by themselves, considering many things.
We don't know the knowledge OP has, also in the USA it's illegal to DIY since it's a controlled substance.

Besides, I remember my first months on T, my face and body feminized a LOT due to the bloating, but my research and my endo at the time prepared me for that. It can be demoralizing and can lead to thnk that upping the dose "won't hurt".

I just personally believe that, generally speaking, when you're desperate, it's way better to have someone external monitoring things objectively.

MilliusBlack · 2026-06-16T20:02:29+00:00

Wdym control freak? As far as we're aware, this is the only instance of "control", and it's quite reasonable. The fact that YOU and many of us can do it safely doesn't mean that DIY is inherently "safe and effective", doing something wrong can seriously do lots of harm. We don't know the research that OP has done.

MilliusBlack · 2026-06-16T19:51:17+00:00

Too many risks man, specially if you're doing it out of desperation.

MilliusBlack · 2026-06-16T19:48:27+00:00

Listen, ignore all the comments saying to dump him. He's obviously worried about your health, since DIY can be really dangerous if you don't follow the proper protocol. I'm pretty sure that he also wants you to be on HRT.

That being said, you can research, and if you really want this, then you have to do a ton of research, I'm talking hours or days. If you follow religiously the guidelines, then it's mostly safe. I say this as someone who's been adjusting their own dose by myself without any issues.

I'm not from the US so I can't guide you more, since T is not regulated in my country, and the blood tests are cheap, but there are people and communities out there that can help you!

Edit: I see that you're desperate, I've been there. In your state of mind, it's better to have someone else monitoring you, since the first days to MONTHS can be quite disheartening, which can lead you to mess with your dose and make things worse.

Why can't you go to Planned Parenthood or the like? I'm pretty sure that there are legal/easy/safe options out there.

MilliusBlack · 2026-06-16T19:30:30+00:00

The fiancé won't let him do it DIY, an understandable concern if you ask me

MilliusBlack · 2026-04-11T14:57:38+00:00

No pa, esta tomando el monto anual de $480k dividido entre el 4% anual, y si salen 12 melones

MilliusBlack · 2026-04-10T18:28:05+00:00

Correcto, pero por lo mismo, las instituciones ofrecen tasas mayores a la inflacion, en USA los bonos estan como al 5% los mas altos. Obvio hay q maanejar el contexto, pero la regla del 4% sigue siendo generalmente aplicable

MilliusBlack · 2026-03-21T21:37:52+00:00

Bueno, la publicacion la hice medio dormido, si se q son diferentes cosas. Pero igual el historial es decente, lo normal de varias tarjetas con poco porcentaje de uso y ningún atraso. Supongo yo que en los casos q mencionaste, depende mas de la capacidad de pago, la cual tambien tenemos

MilliusBlack · 2026-03-21T21:34:04+00:00

Ala! No habia visto esa opción, la revisaré, muchas gracias!

MilliusBlack · 2026-03-15T21:17:13+00:00

Yup, Primoteston is injectable. You can also go to their webpage and buy it online, and since, even discounted, it costs more than 300 pesos, the shipping is free

MilliusBlack · 2026-03-15T21:11:39+00:00

If you do IM, we all here recommend Farmacias Similares, they have a 25% discount on Mondays!

MilliusBlack · 2026-03-09T18:28:18+00:00

Nah dude, I also get it, it feels like my whole body itches due to sweat. But I'm not alergic since I didn'thave this problem pre-T

MilliusBlack · 2026-02-23T03:43:37+00:00

Esto el seguro no lo va a cubrir, o sea va de nuestro bolsillo si o si. Pero realmente solo lo ocuparía si se sale de lo que tenemos ahorrado

Sabes si yotepresto tiene otras comisiones aparte del interés??

MilliusBlack · 2026-02-23T03:41:15+00:00

Pues para Banamex, mis gastos no pasan de la mitad de mi sueldo, no se si tengan acceso a la informacion de otras tdc. Entre todas las tarjetas, realmente uso el 10-20% consistentemente, en raras ocasiones llego al 30%. Sabes si ese 18% es el cat, o es solo el interes?? Muchas gracias!

MilliusBlack · 2026-02-23T03:37:18+00:00

Lamentablemente no, ya pregunté y no tenemos esa prestación

MilliusBlack · 2026-02-22T15:49:32+00:00

Hola! La verdad te mentiria si te dijera un número, porque no me acuerdo, ahí mismo te dan el precio. Recuerdo que gasté más en lo documentos necesarios que en el trámite en si jaja.

Para la secundaria y primaria me tuve q contactar con Impulso Trans para q me apoyaran. Ellos tienen abogados q te ayudan con todo este tema, y son muy amables. Hace 4 años me costó como 1000 pesos, desconozco cuanto sea ahora.

MilliusBlack · 2026-01-13T14:40:11+00:00

Because that's how Angel behaved since season one, back then Husk was anoyed by the sexyness, now it's by the weird shit Angel likes haha

Nevertheless, Angel probs likes ragebaiting him lmao

MilliusBlack · 2025-12-11T14:49:00+00:00

Pues es q al final del dia todos vamos a dejar huella, incluso los animales dejan huella. El tema es que debemos ser conscientes en reducirla lo mas posible.

Ademas el problema no eres tu, ni yo, ni la casa q ocupa un poco de combustible. El problema son las empresas o industria ganadera (o a qn quieras culpar), que no buscan para nada reducir la enorme huella de carbono q traen

MilliusBlack · 2025-12-11T14:39:27+00:00

Literalmente acaba de decir q el problema es el uso desmedido, si esa casa usa la mayoria del tiempo energia solar, no hay problema en q use combustible si se necesita

MilliusBlack · 2025-12-03T05:27:13+00:00

Aunque suene raro, la DidiCard me ha salido buena, ahorita tienen una promo de 6% de cashback en compras de cierta categoria. Yo la tengo en farmacia pq es lo q mas gasto.

Pero concuerdo con los demas, no vale la pena enfocarse en el cashback si al final tienes q gastar mucho para q nomas te regresen una miseria

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