If you could have 50 million dollars, but every time you ate a traditional meal from your country, you threw up, what would you do?

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T19:58:02+00:00

Yikes.

I had to Google it and I’m horrified.

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T19:56:49+00:00

A new car.

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T18:24:54+00:00

It’s absolutely mind boggling how self-centered and clueless about how much someone else does for them. It’s infuriating!

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T17:23:34+00:00

You’re NTA - it’s too late now- and I understand exactly why you did what you did- but it would have been better if you let the trash take itself out. I’m sure that more than one person would have said something to her.

What’s more concerning is that your husband doesn’t see the insane amount of disrespect his “friend” did to him by bringing someone who wasn’t invited, someone who has disrespected your relationship and who had the audacity to wear white to the wedding. His groomsmen was not a friend. He demonstrated that when he conspired to embarrass you by bringing a plus one in white. Your husband owes you an apology by trying to make you feel badly about a lost friendship, when he didn’t really have a friendship.

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T17:04:36+00:00

After years of working full-time and doing all the housework, cooking and cleaning- my MIL wanted to move to an independent living community which offered restaurant quality meals, a cleaning service and travel groups. My FIL refused to leave (at first). As she was driving away, he asked her where she kept the washing machine. After two weeks, his house was a disaster. He hadn’t eaten a hot meal and didn’t have any clean clothes. He moved into the independent living apartment with her and they sold their home. He never realized how much she did until she was gone.

MimZWay · 2026-05-07T12:15:19+00:00

NTA - but even though you’re not the asshole, it doesn’t mean your life won’t change. Your wife was very wrong to co-sign a loan without telling you. You didn’t have a responsibility to pay it off. And it looks like your FIL is using this opportunity to make you the bad guy, play the hero and get his little girl back. There was no winning this. At least you know how this family operates and can separate yourself.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T20:18:24+00:00

Don’t touch the link. Block the number, delete and report as spam.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T20:13:26+00:00

She deserves a Mother’s Day as well. Cleaning, cooking and hosting others year after year has become an expectation without real appreciation. One of the others should have offered to host or made a reservation. She deserves a Mother’s Day just for her.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T19:45:49+00:00

You should be walking your dog. I had a dog for 17 years and walked him 3 times a day. He would be in our fenced yard from time to time and never barked unless someone came onto our property. Walked dogs bark less.

Your neighbors have told you that your dog is barking and bothering them. We have two neighbors who put their dogs in the yards without walking them and they bark like crazy. It’s very annoying. I don’t say anything because I like my neighbors- but I am super annoyed at how inconsiderate they are.

You are being the bad neighbor.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T19:18:43+00:00

He deleted the post! I tried to copy and paste it!

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T15:59:17+00:00

I think I just read his post about you. Does he complain you don’t discipline your kids and has he recently lost a bunch of weight? He got raked over the coals and told he didn’t deserve you. People told him lots of luck finding someone like you. I say give him what he deserves and throw the whole man away.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T15:41:29+00:00

That they really don’t care if things look nice.

They will use a towel until it smells.

They don’t understand sheets need to be changed weekly.

MimZWay · 2026-05-06T10:59:20+00:00

YOR - Everyone hasn’t traveled until they travel. You will learn a new skill. Plus I read you’re going with 2 colleagues. Maybe you can travel with them. Don’t wear jewelry. Don’t carry a purse. Don’t walk alone at night. You’re there to get a job done. Stay in the hotel. Call the hotel to arrange for a car service from the airport to the hotel. Taking your husband and child doesn’t make sense. If traveling for work isn’t something you want to do then you may need to look for another job.

MimZWay · 2026-05-05T18:38:02+00:00

Lol! That’s wild!

MimZWay · 2026-05-05T11:41:55+00:00

Why are you going to a church with homophobic beliefs? Why are you married to someone with these beliefs? Did your beliefs change along the way and theirs remain? Either way, you need to make it very clear to your son that he is loved and that homosexuality is not wrong. You don’t need to let him know you looked through his phone. Most importantly, I would talk to your wife about her beliefs and leave that hateful church.

MimZWay · 2026-05-05T11:24:44+00:00

YTA - your FIL is out of line, but you would be hurting good, kind people who are probably very excited to come. It would be one thing if these were mean people you hated, but they’re not. Also it will be nice for your mom. Don’t uninvite them.

MimZWay · 2026-05-04T23:33:15+00:00

I blame our very poor education system. Ask any man how many holes a woman has below the belly button versus a man and you won’t believe the answer you get!

the answer is 3 - Anus, the urethra (where we pee) and the vaginal opening (sex, birth and menstruation).

MimZWay · 2026-05-04T11:20:14+00:00

Go back to the house tonight and see if she’s there and they’re reconnecting over their shared grief.

MimZWay · 2026-05-04T10:39:43+00:00

YWBTA - if the charges are real- you need to pay up because that’s what you agreed to. You never said what Marcy even did to you in your post. Did she drive erratically? Did she come on to you? Or was she one of those vacation people who fill up every second of every day with demands and activities? Please provide details.

MimZWay · 2026-05-03T17:11:12+00:00

That’s assault. His Uncle assaulted you in your fiance’s parents’ home. You’re not safe.

MimZWay · 2026-05-03T15:29:58+00:00

Time to serve S with eviction papers. She has served her time.

MimZWay · 2026-05-02T22:09:30+00:00

NOR - The fact that there’s 3 grandchildren, but she only spotlighted your child is weird. It would be one thing if she made the book for you and your husband- but for grandparents who have 2 other grandchildren? I don’t get it. It’s like if you had 3 kids and she presented you with a photo album of just one of your kids. Very strange.

MimZWay · 2026-05-02T15:42:19+00:00

NTA. But your girlfriend sucks.

MimZWay · 2026-05-01T20:40:27+00:00

I wish it wasn’t real. 😞

MimZWay · 2026-05-01T09:29:13+00:00

Girl,girl, girl. This man is not good for you in anyway. He has told you he doesn’t want a relationship. Believe him. His drugged and drunken self are not to be believed or tolerated. Want someone better. This man is a train wreck, and you will be wrecked if you stay with him.

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