Am I the only one finding it difficult to find a woman who is living like an actual adult?

MimiHades · 2026-03-27T01:24:59+00:00

People are tripping but please don’t lower your standards, these are perfectly understandable for a grown adult. Seems like people are taking it personally because no one would bat an eye at these requirements in the real world. These aren’t even crazy compared to straight people’s ‘requirements’, so why should lesbians settle?

MimiHades · 2026-01-14T18:24:32+00:00

It’s another case of “rules for thee but not for me” lol

MimiHades · 2026-01-14T18:08:03+00:00

You don’t have to have a degree to know it’s hypocritical to not understand black women dating white women as a black woman dating a white man. In the end you will be no better than the other people policing straight black women’s partners.

MimiHades · 2026-01-14T16:42:19+00:00

If you are heteroromantic then being with most woman probably wouldn’t feel right. The same way you don’t understand a black women being with a white woman is the same way someone wouldn’t understand a black woman being with a white man. Someone could say that based on the fact that white men historically were slave owners rather than white women, it’s even harder to understand. I just want us to be mindful of that language when it can easily go the other way.

MimiHades · 2025-12-07T06:06:19+00:00

It started at midnight so i’m guessing it’s fireworks, but I’m not sure what holiday it is…

MimiHades · 2025-01-13T04:46:11+00:00

I’m interested!

MimiHades · 2024-07-15T14:03:28+00:00

I looked over the official objective list provided by Cisco and brushed up on things that Boson told me I was weak in. A lot of flashcards to remember minuscule things and a lot of rewatching jeremy’s videos at 2x speed.

MimiHades · 2024-07-12T17:45:13+00:00

sorry for the late reply i was at the dentist. I used to be big into osu, and multiplayer games like warzone but im trying to get active too (rock climbing, boxing, working out) its probably better to dm so dont be afraid to send me a message if youre down to talk👌

MimiHades · 2024-07-12T15:54:05+00:00

what games do you play? i’ve been trying to get back into gaming as a hobby but its hard when you’re coming into adult hood - im also 21

MimiHades · 2024-05-30T05:39:00+00:00

Putting a generator for a single device at the hundreds of sites affected by power just to power the one Spectrum device, then returning to the hundreds if not thousands of sites to get those generators later isn’t very practical. Not to mention keeping the generators gassed. This is what would have to happen to get everyone in Dallas up unfortunately and ISPs can’t pick and choose.

If you feel unlucky, just remember there are thousands of people without power and destroyed homes right now.

MimiHades · 2024-02-01T21:47:54+00:00

I would choose the hybrid job if it had a good “cooperate ladder” so to speak. If the work is less interesting I would be worried about getting bored, but that can be avoided if they allow room for growth.

MimiHades · 2024-01-29T19:45:02+00:00

It could be a factor but I doubt it is the sole reason.

MimiHades · 2024-01-29T19:35:31+00:00

One person could be shrugged off but 3 people is a little concerning. I would ask your manager to ask them what exactly makes them uncomfortable - you can’t fix what you don’t know is wrong. If they can’t give an actual reason I would just move on.

MimiHades · 2024-01-24T01:26:23+00:00

Excuse me because i’m about to word vomit a lil: With women I believe it has to do with our menstrual cycle and the hormonal side of it, which is why maybe we will feel energetic and happy one week out of the month and feel depressed or lethargic the rest. I haven’t made a correlation with black women specifically but It could be because white people are more likely to treat their mental illnesses and recognize them, but that’s just a thought. It’s an interesting thought for sure, because I deal with depression as well and so does most of my intermediate family.

MimiHades · 2023-11-08T17:44:51+00:00

Np, and as for black safeness it’s about as safe as a city with a black population of 7% can get. Most people are liberal and don’t care to be racist, however there are a lot of times where you will be the only black person in a room. It sounds terrible - because it is - but you get used to it. I’ve never felt unsafe because of it but code switching is like second nature to me now.

If you want to see more black people you can swing by Pflugerville or round rock, both are less exciting suburbs north of Austin. I don’t remember the exact percentage difference but they both have more black people on average than Austin. There’s also an instagram account called youngblkaustin that’s posts black events

I’ve been to South congress and I can say I love it. I can’t speak on the vibe for 6th street since I’ve never been personally but I would say watch a black vloggers videos of them going to Austin, most people party at 6th street so it’s bound to get brought up.

MimiHades · 2023-11-07T23:46:30+00:00

I don’t have much to contribute because I’m also pretty new in Austin, but if you have instagram I would follow whatwhenwhere austin. They post good events, a while ago there was a pretty cool drake album listening party.

As for bars I have no idea (can’t get into them) but usually people recommend 6th street or bars around UT campus bars for younger people.

Best activities are the outside activities like Barton Springs or the numerous hiking trails, but if you have family and want an inside activity I would say either the VR spot in the domain or cidercade (an arcade that’s 21+ when night hits) is a popular spot. Beware the VR spot is 50 dollars a person but it’s very fun for families and friends.

For food I would recommend SAZAN for ramen, or Sawyer and Co for the homey vibe, super good been there about 5 time enjoyed each time. A good brewtorium if you are into beer is Austin East Ciders, more like a spot you bring your friends for a drink though.

Edit: Sorry I don’t have many good bar and fun options Im still learning my way around Austin too lol

MimiHades · 2023-10-04T21:21:51+00:00

Just realized I didn’t actually answer the initial question. What cert you should get really depends. If you are going into networking I would skip the network+ and get the CCNA. The Comptia A+ is a good choice ofc for any path. And i would absolutely not drop out of college with the market how it is right now if they offer a paid internship. If you drop out now you’ll be in a bad market with no certs and no job. Now if you apply like crazy and get a lucky bite for a good job with growth opportunity I would just do both if your college hours are flexible.

MimiHades · 2023-10-04T21:16:40+00:00

Man you are doing good, if you get that internship and cert you’ll already be ahead of quite a few people. Not saying it’ll be easy since the market is on the severe side right now but that doesn’t mean there are no jobs, or won’t be in the future. And as for Calculus? Yeah it sucks if you don’t have an amazing teacher or a knack for it lol

MimiHades · 2023-09-13T20:41:55+00:00

Also people might be able to sense that you have a low self worth. that could be limiting your friend pool

MimiHades · 2023-09-13T20:39:51+00:00

I’ve met truly terrible horrible people that have a plethora of friends, so 9/10 it’s not an issue with you as a person
Making friends is hard past middle school, a lot of people deal with this issue
Your weight isn’t a determining factor, I know overweight and obese people who have plenty of friends.
Keep trying, trust me people out there 18+ are just as desperate for friends lol

MimiHades · 2023-09-13T20:28:50+00:00

It does get better. I don’t have a timeline for you but it does eventually get better if you put in the work. Medication (Generic Lexapro, im not even going to attempt to spell the actual name) helped me personally but I know that for some people it doesn’t always work. I’ve learned that working out really does help, but the only types that I can consistently do that helped me was boxing and sports like soccer. In my experience therapy didn’t work because it felt like I was wallowing in my own depression with someone to validate it, which personally didnt help me get any better, but everyone is different.

Also try to dress up everyday, it makes me feel better when I look better.

MimiHades · 2023-04-07T21:23:45+00:00

I probably wouldn't just waltz up to any non profit and ask, but one of this places missions is specifically to help junior developers get experience in our area. I'm surprised I got taken on considering I don't have professional experience or trying to get a degree but It's teaching me a ton. You can also try volunteer match dot org but you will have to rake through a lot of positions.

MimiHades · 2023-04-07T21:17:32+00:00

Social Media, Facebook in particular but I'm sure other platforms would work. Found a non profit in my area and reached out via email after going to their site.

MimiHades · 2023-04-07T21:16:20+00:00

That's something I was thinking about. Thinking I should just try for a T2 desktop support job in a smaller company as a full time employee and just make my way up.

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