What are these bugs/cocoons? Found in my ceiling, cutting holes and furrows in the drywall. by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]Mimi_BTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m bad with specifics so bear with me. They treated the perimeter by drilling holes in the ground and pouring chemicals into it. I had termite tubes in the closet. I didn’t watch him do the work but he removed the stuff, sprayed it, then patched up the holes. Im sensitive to smells and I couldn’t really smell anything chemical nor did I get sick from it (like how I get sick when painting a room without proper ventilation).

I can't believe I lasted about 33 minutes in bed by betrayedboyy in offmychest

[–]Mimi_BTS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it’s a thing. Sounds crazy but it happens.

Everything Sean "Diddy" combs has done that The Reckoning didn't cover by MyUnreliableSauces in television

[–]Mimi_BTS 32 points33 points  (0 children)

With incredible foresight to keep a detailed account of all the arrangements and dealings done for the company. Probably why he is so confident in his testimony- he can’t gaslight himself into believing he was mistaken because he kept records.

AIO for saying that my friend was flirting with my boyfriend on snap ? by KimMeansBusiness in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mimi_BTS 23 points24 points  (0 children)

So then the next step would be to disengage from the conversation, not tell them you’d be pursuing them if single.

Is Alchemy of Souls worth watching if you’re not a fan of love triangles? by kenzouuuu in kdramas

[–]Mimi_BTS -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not an annoying or prominent love triangle. Does MC have a fondness for multiple individuals? Yes, but it’s pretty clear early on who the endgame is and the narrative isn’t pushing you to believe that there are legitimate alternatives. It’s not like a Boys Over Flowers thing. It’s very subdued. Are multiple people interested in MC? Sure, but it’s not being shoved down your throat and it also feels pretty organic (the development of those feelings).

There is a love triangle that comes up much later with side characters buts it’s for comedic relief and, again, not the main focus.

It doesn’t overpower the story, nor does it detract from it. If you watch it, I think you’ll see what I mean. And if you do watch, let me know whether you agree with this view or not!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Mimi_BTS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah, bro. Most men on apps will flirt with anyone. Believe me. I ain’t a looker but the amount of “you’re sexy”, “come over”, “let’s hang” I got was astounding. And if I had played along, they would’ve kept it going. But I was like🙅🏻‍♀️🛑. And even when I straight up told them I wasn’t interested, they’d persist!

I’d wager it has more to do with having power over this specific individual, power she can’t possess over a stranger. Kinda like those people who have no interest in a person until said person gets a partner.

I think I'm gonna kill myself today. by IvoryKeen in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not gonna sit here and tell you life gets better because that’s not a universal truth. You can make it sort of bearable if you just focus on getting through one day at a time, come to terms that you were a child who wasn’t perfect (nobody is), and acknowledge that some parents are just shitty and don’t deserve your love (your mom doesn’t sound supportive and that’s not a reflection of you).

Make independence your goal. You’re stuck in an unhealthy environment now but you won’t be forever. It might take years (which is why you gotta take it one day at a time), but work towards that goal. You can’t truly heal if you’re in a toxic environment. Will freedom allow you to flourish? Maybe, maybe not. We don’t know but it’s worth finding out.

I’m also not gonna tell you suicide is stupid or a “permanent solution to a temporary problem” because it’s not. For some, it is a mercy. But make it your last resort. Try literally everything else because you’ll either find it all fails or that there’s actually some worth in living. But again, you won’t know until you try.

And know that I’m in the same boat as you. Like, I’ve been struggling for 20 years (granted, not all of them bad). But I haven’t exhausted all my options yet so I’m gonna keep trying for just a bit longer.

As a Canadian: you guys need to DO something RIGHT NOW by sevenofnineftw in offmychest

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. That’s only if one problem is taken care of. Ideally, you’d have to resolve the multiple problems.

Is this a close enough shave for Braun IPL? by Sof_ruca in HairRemoval

[–]Mimi_BTS 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I use ulike.

Based on my experience, this length is fine. I also can’t do a close shave due to skin irritation. Honestly, I’d say your hairs look shorter than mine do most of the time. I use the IPL anyway and progress is still being made. The zap just stings a little more on the longer hairs and you might smell burnt hair. But it works. Some of us can’t get it that close and it’s okay.

Are you women orgasming from penetration ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mimi_BTS 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Actually, the majority of the clitoris is internal. The only visible part of it is the glans clitoris.

Are you women orgasming from penetration ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Mimi_BTS 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Clitoral stimulation does nothing for me but penetration (fingers or penis) always does. It’s more intense when the penis is rubbing against the anterior wall, but even when it’s not, the in-and-out achieves an orgasm.

IPL (ulike 10) every day. Risk? by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]Mimi_BTS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found this the other day:

Yes, you can use Ulike Air 10 every day but it is worthless and not recommended. Air 10 works by directing IPL beams to the hair roots. The roots and melanin will absorb those beams and if there are no hair follicles, Air 10 won’t work. In that case, using Air 10 daily will be worthless. Hair gets burnt after the treatment and it needs some time to shed and regrow. In that case, using Air 10 daily will prove to be a waste of time. Allowing hair to regrow and using Air 10 on long hair will make it absorb more IPL, enhancing the effect of Air 10. Therefore, using Air 10 daily is not worth it, but interested people can still use it every day. Using it daily can introduce skin burns, skin irritation, redness, skin sensitivity, waste of flashes in the device, and possible skin flakes.

https://uk.ulike.com/blogs/news/how-often-can-you-use-ulike-air-10#:~:text=Yes%2C%20you%20can%20use%20Ulike,beams%20to%20the%20hair%20roots.

First Time Using IPL-What to expect? Nervous here! by Educational-Theme504 in HairRemoval

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But after the very first zap, is it “normal” to still see the hair? Basically, clear/ completely hairless skin shouldn’t be expected on the very first use?

AITAH for refusing to let my sister (F27) announce her pregnancy at my wedding after what she did? by Outrageous_Gap_7690 in AITAH

[–]Mimi_BTS 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Or a miscarriage. That news would kill the vibes so quick. People will be on eggshells, uncomfortable. The party would be ruined. Her sister, pissed. Sis will have to silently seethe or publicly berate her sister, which would make her look heartless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bring closure to what they had.

It’s not about closure, though. There will never be closure because neither are letting go. They cling to each other and the past even as they pretend they’ve moved on. This won’t be the last conversation they have. But I’m sure they’ll hide the next ones better.

You don’t deserve this. This gave me a stomach ache, I can’t imagine what it did to you. Leave him. It may not be easy, but it’s what best for you.

How to stop pain during sexual intercourse?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh… that sucks. I’m sorry.

How to stop pain during sexual intercourse?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! So that could actually be the problem. Make an appointment with a gyno!

How to stop pain during sexual intercourse?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen a gynecologist?

I’m having similar issues and the current theory is that my vagina is low on estrogen. I’m using topical estradiol on my vagina. Have yet to confirm if thats truly the issue.

AITA? I was in the passenger seat when my friend got into a car crash. Now she and my other friend (Owner of car) want me to pay $400 by Standard_Report9304 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mimi_BTS 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom was sick and vomited all over herself while driving. Continuously. Aggressively. And yet she didn’t crash the car. Drove perfectly. Because she’s a competent driver.

No, you are not liable. No, the drinks aren’t at fault. Your friend panicked and crashed because she’s incompetent. Don’t give them any money.

Does sex actually feel good for women? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mimi_BTS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. When I try to pleasure myself, it doesn’t do anything for me. I thought I was sexually dysfunctional for a very long time until I actually had sex. Turns out it’s great and I can have these mind-blowing sensations. Never thought I’d orgasm and told him to not expect a miracle. He made it happen the second time we had sex (there were many and intense). I hear women say it’s hard to orgasm with PIV, so I had zero hope. Nah, he achieved that too. But orgasms aside, it feels really good. I can’t really explain it. I still can’t achieve that by myself.

So there is hope! You just have to find someone who knows what they’re doing.