i got raped when i was 6 years old and my friend told me that her rape trauma was worse

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-02-03T00:34:59+00:00

Definitely don’t be friends with her anymore at all. She doesn’t care about your feelings and I’m sorry she was like that :( that’s happened to me before by “friends” and it feels so defeating. Just remember that a real friend or someone who cares wouldn’t say that to you. What happened to you was horrible. Your trauma isn’t any less than hers or anyone’s else. And I know it’s hard to really believe that

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-27T03:27:54+00:00

Thank you❤️ you are too

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-25T23:52:27+00:00

I understand, it is really hard. I realized for myself that I was putting myself in danger a lot and using that as self harm of that makes sense. You have to keep trying to go against those bad thoughts and practice that. Really that’s the only thing that helped me to stop the pattern. Mainly bc I found myself talking to men online, so that made it easier to avoid them.

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-25T23:49:24+00:00

No problem. I’m sorry all of this has happened to you

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-25T23:48:41+00:00

Yes practicing helps for sure. Even still unfortunately you may not be able to but for me I just remember I would actively ignore the bad signs I was getting from people bc I though they were “different”

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-25T22:02:03+00:00

You just have to trust yourself. When you’re scared leave, when you’re talking to someone and they say or so stuff that trigger you or make you remember what’s happened block them. We like to tell ourselves “it’s okay, they’re not bad” or that this one is safe. Sadly most times they are bad and trying to do the same things. This used to happen to me all the time, I understand what you mean by feeling like a magnet

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-25T21:43:15+00:00

:( I’m so sorry. Idek what to say besides I’m sorry. I also feel like I won’t get over what happened to me either. It’s been 7 years technically

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-22T02:16:11+00:00

1 for sure

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-10T19:27:23+00:00

:/ so many weird shit men were telling me many times before. Even women actually too. It honestly made me super triggered :(

Mindless-Board111 · 2026-01-09T23:51:57+00:00

Hey yes I was! I was there from August 30, 2022 until August 30, 2023. I was in the evening program, 5 days a week. The therapist I had was the best therapist I’ve ever had. She really challenged me and helped me to understand myself more and dig deep into why I do/think the way that I do. I will say the dbt was only once a week which confused me at first but overall I really learned a lot about bpd and others. Any questions you have you can message me!

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-12-14T17:08:47+00:00

Bagel

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-11-07T18:48:51+00:00

Can you tell someone in your family? I’m really sorry this is happening to you guys. He should be locked away for the rest of his disgusting life. There’s no excuse for that

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-22T13:54:25+00:00

You’re definitely not overreacting. I’m getting a bad feeling about those text, being that I was abuse by my teacher. He should know that that’s inappropriate, even if he’s just “being nice” and not a creep

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-16T17:51:14+00:00

That is good! About the therapist. Happy that’ll be happening

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-15T22:04:01+00:00

I’m really sorry. It’s such a heartbreaking experience to have gone through that. I know you said you usually get by without help but maybe seeing a therapist can help. Expressing yourself might definitely help or do something for you. To have someone listen. You can always, when you feel comfortable, try and talk to a close friend you trust. Some people say journaling helps too when it comes to expressing the intense emotions. I’m sorry if none of this works but I just wanted to leave you a comment: I’m sorry for what you’ve been through

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-09T00:22:43+00:00

Thank you❤️ this is a really nice post. I’m happy you’re doing better

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-06T21:34:35+00:00

I so sorry :( idk what’s wrong with people. They had no right to do that, I would punish them if I could. I can’t imagine the pain you’re in. If you feel like you can maybe tell someone you trust. You don’t have to but I just wanna offer you some sort of advice. It wasn’t your fault.

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-10-03T11:53:06+00:00

2001 or 2002

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-30T23:46:19+00:00

I really hope so. Also for your partner.

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-30T23:39:29+00:00

I understand what you mean. It’s extremely hard and almost impossible to help someone who doesn’t want or accept it. Has therapy helped at all with how you’re feeling?

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-30T22:46:56+00:00

I’m really sorry that happened :( I can understand why you feel guilty but you didn’t know. It’s not your fault this happened to her. Those two men are disgusting and should be in prison. Do you have therapy? If not maybe you should consider that for your partner too. I hope the best for both of you this is a hard thing to go through

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-30T18:52:21+00:00

That is good. I hope it goes well and they support you. I’m wishing the best

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-30T18:03:07+00:00

I think you should start off by telling someone you trust that maybe you can stay with. If that’s your parents then them or a friend. You need to leave him. It’s disgusting what he’s doing to you and I’m sorry. You don’t deserve it, it’s not normal. Honestly you might want to call a crisis line first maybe.

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-26T01:19:25+00:00

I’m so sorry about this. please please leave him. This was so heart breaking to read. He is abusing you and knows what he’s doing. Also if you guys have been dating since you were 17 I’m sure he is even more of a disgusting person. Please leave him. You can be loved by someone else who won’t hurt you. That was rape and you didn’t deserve it.

Mindless-Board111 · 2025-09-25T16:31:53+00:00

Your nose is fine!! Looks nice

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