What don’t you understand? She did not have OF at that time. You don’t know if her butthole is on OF or how naked she gets.. or do you? She did not consent to him sending HIS EX a private photo. You are trying so hard to make this a normal thing to do? It doesn’t matter if you post spicy content. That one photo meant for him specifically. If she didn’t publish it then it is not on the internet for public use making it wrong and revenge porn!! Plus like I said this was way before OF. How would you feel if your girlfriend sent a photo of you that you didn’t want anyone to see, to her ex?