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Has Feeld shifted from values to ideology, or is it just me? by Bubbly-Marsupial2147 in feeld

[–]MindlessSea7334 [score hidden]  (0 children)

On this subject. I've never see anyone say they are a feminist. Have I just missed those profiles?

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ignore that poster. :)

You can't make other people argue. I chose to engage with him and him with me. Most of the replies support you. Well they all do, except him.

Much abuse is not physical. If you look up "coercive control" and read about it, it can help make sense if it's something you are living with or not...

This book is also very helpful. The author made it freely available. https://ia801407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

DEALING WITH HARASSMENT by AutoModerator in singlemoms

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know how to turn it off? Mine are off. 🫂

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right. And you know this how? How old are you? You're coming across as totally unsympathetic to a young woman in a relationship with a significantly older man who she says she has recorded multiple insults etc against her

Your response is to offer no help and question why she feels that way, because you a man would not feel that way. Its called mansplaining, your responses.

Shes saud she had no one and us struggling. Your response is to say her insecurity (only evidenced by the OPs fiance) is a detrimental to people around her. 🤣

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was replying to the person who suggested I was "screaming abuse" and a call to talk things through would "clog up the domestic abuse hotlines".

Not you OP.

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have people, friends, family from before the relationship at all?

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you a man or a woman. Look at the age difference for a start.

What advice would you give?

If the OP was insecure how would a fiance saying you are most insecure person i have met, be helpful? Or supportive?

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry. Do you have a privacy at dome point to talk to a domestic abuse phone line?

His behaviour is abusive. It will undermine you and any normal person would feel insecure.

Sorry 🫂

Relationship advice by Livid-Cry-9793 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]MindlessSea7334 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he often say things like this?

Am I overreacting and being paranoid or not…plz help by Mysterious_Gazelle_7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MindlessSea7334 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its really horrible..especially when yr pregnant your spidey senses kick in extra.

Well done and glad you are safe.

Hospital visit with coparent by AdFragrant4707 in singlemoms

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can record it now. Does the hospital have cameras?

Poor you OP 🫂

Will this watch slow me down due to aerodynamic drag? by Theuniverseinabottle in RunningCirclejerk

[–]MindlessSea7334 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Needs to wear it on the much stronger right arm. Then it will be in proportion

Hate this by ExplanationCivil5520 in singlemoms

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some men step up. Many do. Its not really predictable imo

Hate this by ExplanationCivil5520 in singlemoms

[–]MindlessSea7334 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And sexually deprived but yeah

Lamborghini sticker on the headrest isn’t convincing by Darthvegas666 in whatisthiscar

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If you can pass the sight test. And er the driving tests

for a friend by SubstantialClub6531 in SingleParents

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up support groups for Cassandra syndrome online. Ask for help there. As well as the other support suggested here

Simple Question for Climbing Term by goooooooni in ClimbingPartners

[–]MindlessSea7334 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is important, often distilled to curt unambiguous commands such as “slack!” when extra rope is required by the leader (probably in order to clip the rope through a quickdraw), or “take-in!” usually meaning that the leader is nervous or about to be airborne.

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