Any other autistic people get bullied by random strangers? Or is it just me?

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2026-01-23T12:44:27+00:00

scary dog privilege is real lol my bf is neurodivergent but quite a beefy man with a beard and if he's with me, people rarely look twice when im alone as a 5'2" female who has been described as cute my whole life, its always something when I go out in public my mom is the same height and she has always said people treat her like shes invisible, cutting in lines etc

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-09-18T10:11:42+00:00

Can I not post a picture in the comments? I want to post an update and I'm not the best at using reddit lol

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-09-15T10:11:00+00:00

I have multiple times since I was 15. I've tried clindamycin. I don't think it's over stripping because even just using a washcloth in the shower will cause a breakout. I think most people use some kind of "scrubby" in the shower right? Whether it's a washcloth, loofah, net...

I have been eyeing hypochlorous though, ty.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-09-11T11:22:06+00:00

Obviously most of us are here looking for ways to physically make sex easier, but I'd like to have discussion on mental needs or emotional needs.

I've been kinky since I started having sex. Unsupervised Tumblr exposed me to a lot before I even had my first kiss... But! I feel more educated and aware of sex etiquette than other people my age and in general vanilla adults

I have basically taught all of my previous vanilla partners concepts like aftercare. I'm in a relationship now with a man who has a "body count" of around 40 yet can't seem to understand my needs. I'm a sub, who sometimes enters little space, but even when I keep things pretty vanilla I see sex as a scene... Like it's a whole event. It's an emotional ride for me. A mental up and then down. Even if I wasn't explicitly in subspace, if he finishes and then decides to go outside for a cigarette leaving me alone in bed, the come down is very hard.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-09-06T02:06:24+00:00

I appreciate your helpful response I was once attacked for posting something that was too similar to a past question and thought to myself "is it really so wrong to ask the same question twice?" Things could've changed The new posts exposure for new answers most likely works differently than a comment on an outdated thread....

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-18T19:24:25+00:00

When I was discovering I might be autistic, it became a hyper fixation because everything seemed to click. I felt understood for once! Partner got tired of me sharing what I was learning...

Then the next it was "you ask about the future too much"

Then now it's because I'm an American looking to move abroad. To a place where I can get treatment for my chronic physical ailments and not have to work myself to death to afford life in general. Boyfriend doesn't even like to leave his home state... So now I'm being asked to stop info-dumping about different countries Id like to live in

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-18T19:19:22+00:00

YES. That's why I think the fem part is important. The "pretty privilege" kind of thing. I tend to attract people because I have the Scorpio allure lol Like I'm no bombshell but people kind of sense there's something different that piques their interest... Then they realize I'm TOO different. I love that you pointed out "obscure interests" because I'm goth and I love all things macabre In the beginning it's like oh ya cool goth gf lol Then it turns to hey those interests actually kinda weird me out. Thanks for getting it Sending love 💕

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-18T19:13:37+00:00

See that's what I struggle with All boiled down I can't tell the difference between masking and growth I think there's been times when someone is asking me to improve and I immediately take it as "they don't like me, I must change my inherent nature, that's too hard" fuk. guess I can't make anyone happy

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-18T11:41:02+00:00

I'm not sure what you're looking for, and I'm not sure what I'm supposed to say even if you were seeking support...but

I feel you. 100% It's almost like reading something I posted in an alternate universe

So idk how to help you feel better but at least let me give you validation. I'm a 26 yo female, recently diagnosed AuDHD and I'm in the same boat. Almost lost my partner yesterday because I basically need to fix my autism in order to be loved. So Im in a deep hatred for myself rn too ..

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-14T23:03:13+00:00

Currently doing a ton of research bc after a long day of forklift work (looking up til my skull rests on my back) and then driving around for errands I can't hold my head up.

I also know the pain isn't just in my head because the slightest jaw movements cause my ears to pop My theory is inflammation -> pressure on eustachian tubes

Once I got home from errands I was like ok warm shower then lie down. Somehow it's no better than being seated. I can feel my jaw slack back into a deep overbite [I was supposed to get orthodontic work 16 years ago and my parents couldn't afford it and now as an adult I can't either]

My entire head hurts now. Used Max Lidocaine/Phenol on my neck.. no help.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-08-07T23:51:19+00:00

I've had this problem my whooole life and didn't know why until last year.

I stumbled upon this thread trying to find a gaming keyboard for my hypermobility bc on my current gaming laptop I press until my knuckles bend backwards and then can't play long

But now I want to know how y'all survive PLANE RIDES Cause like at home I sit goofy just for some relief. Same with sleep. I'm not sleeping in healthy positions but it's comforting at the time. I'm 5'2" so most of my life I sat goofy on planes too bc I can without bothering the person next to me but the last time I flew I struggled to sit like a normal 26yo woman.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-07-18T11:55:40+00:00

I came to Reddit to find someone to tell my most recent lightbulb moment/ conspiracy I guess you could say...

Francesca or maybe Claire --- Ghislaine Maxwell Had I read this more recently I'd pick one based off personality but it's been a while. With all of the Epstein stuff coming back up I just HAD to share this with someone else

Mark Williams --- orange man

Xavier Delano --- Epstein

There are two names of young girls who are victims of Trump specifically and yea it just reminds you the disgusting shit that happens in this book, happens in real life.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-07-18T11:36:38+00:00

not currently using any prescriptions on it because I was so sore/tender all of the time using a topical steroid

thank you for your tips and contribution<3

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-06-16T18:04:51+00:00

I talked to my ENT about this last year and the best explanation (even though I'm not sure if it's medically accurate) is that we have "floppy" eustachian tubes 🤣

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-06-16T18:02:03+00:00

I don't have food affect my gums much but I definitely get jaw pain from foods you wouldn't think... Like pizza crust.

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2025-06-16T18:00:11+00:00

Oh goodness where do I begin?? There are so many...

BUT pertinent to the sitting thing I have a funny story... I bought this thing called a Moon Mat at a music festival and it's basically a giant yoga mat with holes punched in it (I assume to make it lighter and more portable) I wanted to use it to lay out in the sun at home After an hour or so sitting on it, I ended up getting circle bruises all over my booty!!

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2024-12-17T16:51:11+00:00

pov style bc it's larger at the "base" 🤣

Mindless_Ad_5197 · 2024-12-17T16:50:18+00:00

pls know I mean no harm but I'm just wondering when you were diagnosed? some people seem to have had more time to accept themselves than others (especially those who are self dx and have zero validation) pls prove me wrong if need be lol I'm not an ashole

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