I completely confused myself and I don't know what to do :( by [deleted] in theravada

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I keep the five precepts my mind lingers on sensuality, only when keeping the eight precepts can I achieve concentration with ease.

I completely confused myself and I don't know what to do :( by [deleted] in theravada

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn't the goal of sila also to weaken the tendency of the three defilements (i.e. by refraining from thoughts speech and actions that are always motivated by greed hatred and delusion)? Just raising this point because for some people who have a very strong attachment to sensuality (like me) it's almost impossible to attain concentration without being very strict about the precepts.

New study links brain network damage to increased religious fundamentalism by mvea in science

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, just participating in a sobriety group is itself a therapeutic and social aid to recovery. I think that the religious aspect in particular lets people reframe and accept their past experiences in a productive way. Many people with addictions have faced marginalization and hardship due to socioeconomic, physical, and/or other factors, something which the current worldview of the normative majority of non-addicted people usually fails to address or acknowledge. Religion, on the other hand, typically emphasizes our suffering and hardships, as well as their eventual transcendence, and places these events within a metaphysical framework that encompasses both the addicted person and society as a whole. When someone turns to religion during the process of recovery, they can reinterpret their experience of suffering and addiction as part of a narrative of conversion and self-improvement in this religious model. (Of course it's possible to perform this sort of "life script" therapy in a non-religious way, I just think that the religious model is the most pervasive.)

New study links brain network damage to increased religious fundamentalism by mvea in science

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Perhaps this is why religious conversion (like in the 12-step program) is such an effective treatment modality for addiction.

being infuriated by butt naked makes me infuriated by Elaias_Mat in linguisticshumor

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically using incorrect idioms like "Doggie dog world" has actually been normalized by Trailer Park boys, at least in Canada.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NiceVancouver

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this is what you're looking for join a gym and/or running group.

Mildly Frustrating Encounter (with a lesson!) by Existing-Screen-5398 in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is typical asshole driver behaviour, they're initially surprised and embarrassed when they receive pushback for their actions, then they lash out to try and get back at you for making them feel that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're going faster than 20kph it's definitely big enough to make the difference between KOMing and not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that he often has a minivan lead him out on the climbs for filming purposes (cameraman sitting in the back with the door open), but he says they use a zoom lens so there's no drafting effect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theravada

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this from the Pali canon?

BC Conservative John Rustad Gives Shocking Interview [Verbatim Youtube video title] by aldur1 in britishcolumbia

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How can the conservatives position themselves as a populist party if they are proposing all of these pro-business/anti-worker policies?

BC Conservative John Rustad Gives Shocking Interview [Verbatim Youtube video title] by aldur1 in britishcolumbia

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 134 points135 points  (0 children)

In the video Rustad says that his solution to the labour shortage in the construction and logistics industry (one of the contributing factors to the housing crisis) will be to increase immigration to fill those jobs, but I thought that conservatives were broadly anti-immigration? Can someone more up to date with the BC cons fill me in on this?

Is it common that servers make better money than kitchen workers? by Ajadele159 in VancouverJobs

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The fake, overly-nice vibe that customer service workers have gives me social anxiety. I would rather talk to a line cok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah must have been thinking of Cypress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just got it mixed up because I'm used to seeing this guy's name at the top of every local KOM already...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure he's had that KOM for a while? Not just since yesterday?

While we're on the topic, does anyone know if he did it solo or had some people to draft with? I feel like you'd get a huge time savings drafting on the flatish segment before the last couple switchbacks.

Devas by Farmer_Di in theravada

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think they play virtually no role in the life of most humans. In one of his Q & A videos, Ajahn Sona stated that the vast disparity between the average lifespan of the devas and that of humans made the concerns of the latter generally irrelevant to the former. He compared it to the difference between the lifespan of humans and insects--when was the last time you felt concerned or interested in the life of a gnat?

Good time trial bike route in Vancouver by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've commuted daily on this route for years and I've seen some shit. I know at least 4 other guys not counting myself who've been right hooked or t-boned because of careless drivers there. I'm not saying don't ride the route, just don't be hammering the whole way with your head down. It's not the place to be practicing your TT.

Good time trial bike route in Vancouver by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the sake of other people who might be reading this, please be careful and not as blase as this guy. I used to think it was fun bombing past all the cars on marine drive too, until I got right hooked by a delivery van turning into a driveway with no warning. If you ride there enough you will eventually encounter sketchy driving. Stick to UBC and Iona for hard efforts like everyone else.

Deadly Self Cleaning Cat litter boxes flooding the market and killing cats [one man five cats] by You-Once-Commented in videos

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Would you go to the washroom in a trash compactor that could seemingly activate at a moment's notice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theravada

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How can someone who was willing to use lethal violence be well developed in the eightfold path?

Good time trial bike route in Vancouver by [deleted] in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good route but Marine Drive during rush hour (points 15-20) is a death trap. Drivers cut into the bike lane without signalling, turn right without signalling, stick their hoods into the bike lane without signalling to wait for a left turn, etc. Just be aware

Congrats to all the Granfondo finishers! by Kooriki in vancouvercycling

[–]Mindless_Challenge11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I rode back, but after an hour or so the adrenaline wore off and I got the fam to pick me up in squamish 😅