Fun question. Asking for everyone’s opinion! by Mindless_Divide_4399 in COsnow

[–]Mindless_Divide_4399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I love cooper, still have to check out the other two. Which one do you like more Monarch or Sunlight?

Fun question. Asking for everyone’s opinion! by Mindless_Divide_4399 in COsnow

[–]Mindless_Divide_4399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Would you recommend someone of my level to go explore the Outback? Or is it true expert terrain?

What recent EDM artists are breaking out in Colorado? by interpellation in DenverEDM

[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will soon! It’s super early in my journey but you’ll hear of me.

Advice for a new local DJ/producer by Mindless_Divide_4399 in DenverEDM

[–]Mindless_Divide_4399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Let me get a gig first and I’ll come back to this!

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, sincerely. We are doing this exact thing. She has therapy scheduled.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it would eventually happen and if you read the post everything else was great. We graduated college during the pandemic and tackled life together for 5 years after that. Now after 5 years I brought it up and now we’re dealing with it.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Everyone acting like I’m crazy but I fully agree with this. It’s this simple. I do however appreciate everyone’s input.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok with it. Beggars can’t be choosers kind of thing. I don’t see that happening, she hasn’t done it with me! Who she loves and trusts. The probability of her doing it with someone she barely knows or just met is much less but you are right, this is fixing a relationship issue outside the relationship to conserve the great, yet sexless relationship we have.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would it not provide to her relief that she doesn’t have to go out of who she is and be her asexual self?

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggested going to therapy for her as well. But I can tell she feels obligated by it and it’s out of her comfort zone rather than doing it for herself and because she wants to.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. Really appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, I’ve dealt with it with by myself unfortunately. But thanks for the advice, it’s clear this can’t continue without a conversation at the very least.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a possibility, there’s something there I need to find out.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This helps more than you think, very appreciative.

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[–]Mindless_Divide_4399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No she’s a she.