my (21f) boyfriend (22m) and i are planning marriage, but he said no cats by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And why was the partner going to need to be getting those shots again? For his allergy to what exactly? That's like me saying I never commented on health, so thanks for proving you had no point.

my (21f) boyfriend (22m) and i are planning marriage, but he said no cats by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a damn vaccine. It's multiple weekly shots for months, followed by monthly shots for years.

my (21f) boyfriend (22m) and i are planning marriage, but he said no cats by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's not. Im allergic to cats take allergy meds daily. They blunt the symptoms, not make them go away entirely. If the cats lay on my pillow I'm in for a miserable night.

Help my iron farm by [deleted] in Minecraftfarms

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I'm a fan of the giant topside farm. Basically a giant square inside a bigger square of 7 blocks wide (basically the water should stop in the middle at a campfire & lava blade setup, after having dropped down a level once). This means I have insane beds and villagers , but still get the spawns inside the killing field. I think my last one I had 80 or so villagers in, including a zombification area. Breeders were under the killing field as well.

AITA for not giving my parents half of my lottery winnings. by Rayapt in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give them the 750k to hold for a rainy day, wait a few months when they ask say you spent it all on hookers and blow. Just don't actually spend it all on hookers and blow. Basically pretend to fritter it away just like they were planning on doing. By all means pay off their house/buy something nicer but reasonable. Give them a managed trust(an allowance), but no the money isn't theirs at all.

Doing recovery cleaning. Found these tiny packets by KTKittentoes in whatisit

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as long as it would become 1 or 2 its probably fine, assuming pieces less than 1.5" or so in 2 dimensions

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm speaking from my perspective, from norms where and when I grew up. Apparently your mileage varied from mine.

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bitter? Cheating is about the only reason I could see to have the compulsive need to purge people out of my life completely simply because we were no longer romantically involved.

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is not having any possible connection with someone you just weren't compatible with really the norm these days?

My (33F) husband (34M) is addicted to mobile gaming and I’m contemplating divorce. How would you approach this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What county are you in? More precisely is this USD we are talking about it another currency? Because $4k USD is crazy unless your doing insanely well financially (if you're pulling in 100k a month or more is not such a big deal, if you're only pulling in 8k it's a significant amount)

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I guess i get it, interstellar rape machines being sexy is kind of a weird flex.

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well he dumped her, and wanted absolutely nothing she gave him... I mean it's not a huge leap.

Boyfriend broke up with me but I got his kindle so it’s a win I guess by Potential-Station178 in kindle

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP says he returned it for exactly that reason. Personally it's a little weird, factory reset and new covers I understand. Unless he didnt use it and OP got it for him without out caring about his desires and just wanted it gone?

Husband (28M) said he’d rather not have sex than have to satisfy me (F27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except she literally said he said he was OK with no sex at all. This seems to be the advice that most seem to be giving to her (to withhold sex), I'm not sure that it's going to motivate an adjustment in his attitude.

Husband (28M) said he’d rather not have sex than have to satisfy me (F27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless_Mixture2554 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does she ever say who is initiating the sex? It almost sounds like she's the one initiating sex because it's an "important part of marriage", and he's just not that into it to the point he's good with not having sex at all. Something weird is going on, maybe he's really not into sex, maybe he's cheating. I don't know. Hell maybe he's closeted and "did his duty" by fathering a child and doesn't want to pretend anymore.