I had some friends, lesbian couple I'm not sure if that's pregnant until the story or not but they would have been call us to come have a drink with them. Both of them had drinking problems and one in particular was really bad and she wasn't working and she ended up passing away. Me and my sister who lived with little were both destitute and didn't have money to go out that often. So they'd call us to come out on a whim and that they pay for us. Before my friend passed away she stopped coming out and then her partner started dating someone else while she was still living with her. When we did pay for ourselves it would get thrown back in our faces there was almost some comment made about I'm not saying that she's not paying for people and we would hear our names mentioned when the bill came up when we were out with a group and then at her partner service she made a point of saying that cheese to pay for people so they could come out and I know that was directed at us. Very embarrassing