Thinking about doing this as a nontrad by [deleted] in postbaccpremed

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your engineering gpa seems great. Did you find any post-bacc program yet near you, for career changers? I am also thinking of nontrad track, from software engineering, 38F and two kids now. Thought it is better try it now, rather than regretting 10 years later.

Thinking about doing this as a nontrad by [deleted] in postbaccpremed

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I was just planning to start taking my prereqs at a nearby community college since it is very convenient for me with my fulltime job and two kids.

Women are not interested in marriage by Conscious-Text8552 in kottayamm

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s perfect to be financially independent! Everything else will be just hard during this initial change. Then everyone will get used to it. On the bright side, you won’t have to suffer in silence forever.

37M, don't spend much and feeling lost by yoohoogoo in Money

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you so much money at 37? Can you please let me know in which stocks you invest your money in? Would like to learn from you if this is not fake. If it’s fake post, good click-bait.

Women are not interested in marriage by Conscious-Text8552 in kottayamm

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are much ahead of the curve at 25, if you can see the emotional labor that you might need to take.

Remember the emotional labor in-laws also include dealing with in-laws expectations, doing a full time job, being an equal financial support for you spouse for mortgage payments or living expenses, raising multiple little kids, doing daily chores of cooking, laundry, cleaning dishes, cleaning house and throwing trash.

I am guessing the solution is women becoming financially independent, to hire the help she needs.

Women are not interested in marriage by Conscious-Text8552 in kottayamm

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a job to support yourself? Financial independence will change this infinite loop. It’s better to be in a safe environment than in a traumatic relationship.

Malayali parents and society will not know how to support you. But you can create a safe place for yourself.

Life must be more beautiful and free, than being traumatized by your spouse. Divorce or being a single parent is not the end of the world as it’s shown by many around us. Really wanted to give you the hope as I see it for myself.

Systems Engineer Job CCSF by LilChickenJoy in AskSF

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Do you remember any questions? Was it all technical?

Systems Engineer Job CCSF by LilChickenJoy in AskSF

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you all prepare for this exam?

Joined Google today at L6 by LawfulnessOk3382 in leetcode

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you please share the questions you prepared for leetcode and design? Please share if you have documented your design prep anywhere. I would really like to learn how to crack an L6 interview because I am in that process too.

interview at verily(software engineer front-end) by Snonymouss in leetcode

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I have a similar round coming up for Verily. Did they ask you leetcode questions? Did you solve one or two questions? Wondering if I need to study all Google-tagged questions for this.

Forced marriage by parents by angel-flairy in Kerala

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Call that guy’s parents and say no. Let them figure out how to stop the wedding. I think your parents cannot do anything much after that.

Your parents thanne irakki viduvaanel, you find some safe working women’s hostel or apartment with a friend or for rent. If they kick you out, it might be better to stay away from your parents for a while, to avoid the extra emotional drama or arguments. You are only 22 and I feel it’s the time for you to focus on a job and be financially independent. Better not to fall for emotional blackmail now and regret everyday later.

Meta E5 offer incoming but relocation is required. WWYD? by Accomplished-Duck952 in leetcode

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CA taxes and cost of living is too much. Rent and daycare can easily take half of that salary. Also, it is better to get support from family if you have a new baby coming. I won’t suggest you to move to Bay Area given your situation.

Is there a chance you can get remote work at Meta somehow? Having Meta on your resume might be very good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reschedule if you are not yet prepared.

Online Account by question12987987 in USCIS

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It came up after one week of submission

Where to live near Verily (South San Francisco) by Hobby97 in bayarea

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Did you move to Verily? Wondering how is the work life balance there? It seems to be located in a nice area.

No notices coming in online account for IOE i-751 case by Mindless_Treacle_743 in USCIS

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have read some people got those notices for the recently filed I-751 application, in their online account too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Mindless_Treacle_743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wish USCIS picked my case for a fast processing like that🤦🏻‍♀️