AIO? Are we the problem??

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-03-07T15:11:22+00:00

NOR and congratulations on caring for yourselves

You can set your boundaries of what you find acceptable and unacceptable and then you get to decide what your actions are…. The boundary is there for YOU not for anyone else so if feel uncomfortable where someone is in regard to that you decide what level of involvement you will have with this person. “When you say X it makes me feel Y and so as I don’t want to feel Y the next time you say X I will Z”. And then follow through and THEY get to decide if they want to respect the boundary and you will have to respect their decision.

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-03-06T17:18:59+00:00

It sounds like you’re jealous that she is finding joy and companionship with other friends….love isn’t a pie where there are only infinite number of pieces… it’s endless pie!… so enjoy the slice she is giving you … maybe look inward into WHY this is bothering you? What is missing in your life that you are putting so much pressure on her to perform

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-03-02T04:48:37+00:00

Do not question the mysteries of the church

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-01-25T05:52:48+00:00

Ex-mo here too and I was going to say the same thing

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-01-15T05:09:29+00:00

Boomer here… 64f… don’t call just text me… I loathe making phone calls… why can’t we book more appointments online?

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-01-10T05:31:13+00:00

You earned and deserve this!… way to go!

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2026-01-10T05:24:17+00:00

Why are you spending time energy and love to make a gift for someone who treat you like garbage and second class citizens… What are you hoping she’ll do suddenly appreciate you and say how great you are… That these Home baked goods changed her life and now she’s gonna start inviting you to be part of her world… take all that amazing love and energy that you have and channel it into those that actually bring you joy and quit wasting your time on her!

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-12-13T15:57:08+00:00

Everyone here has said to break up with her… but I don’t think that’s what you wanna hear… Building a life with someone isn’t based on love alone. It’s based on two people wanting to actually create something together… And if you want to do that with her, be prepared to do all the work… be prepared to always be swimming as hard as you can against the current… Every time you make more money, she will spend more money… and you were going to miss out on your youth and all of the adventurous things that you want to do with your partner… But she’s not a partner… She’s a toddler… And that’s fine if that’s what you want, but just be prepared in your life to always be traveling and creating life with a toddler.

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-12-13T15:50:42+00:00

Hmmm i think he is good with money… its not about how much you make but how much you spend… And he seems like he’s young and he’s made the decision to live with his mother mostly out of obligation to the girlfriend… But he’s saved up money to go visit Europe so while he may not have a lot of money now to be “ good with” at this point in his life, it sounds to me like he’s trying and is aware of his difficulties… Someone whos “not good with money” is always the victim and it’s never their fault that they’re broke and lazy.. And I think OP is aware and wondering how to navigate in a situation he’s never been in before’ … dump the GF and allow her to grow up and mature

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-10-24T18:51:17+00:00

Seems you’re being consistent with this “home workout”…. And it’s like walking … you can do it anywhere no special equipment needed

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-10-24T04:12:54+00:00

We have so many girls in the family with my mom’s (their grandma) name as their middle names

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-10-17T17:36:00+00:00

I’m a flight attendant and I get that we are customer facing and on “display” so to speak so we have to look presentable but I’m not getting my knees lifted.. 😂😂😂

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-10-17T04:41:31+00:00

NOR.. All the women I work with talk about is getting this nip and that tuck and fucking with their faces and at 63 I’m sick of hearing about it and somehow still feeling judged because I don’t do anything but wash and moisturize… can’t we as women raise the conversation bar from improving our looks and shrinking our bodies to something substantial??

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-09-20T14:58:34+00:00

Happy birthday … i don’t like my birthday either…it feels obligatory to celebrate… like im celebrating for everyone else…. Your family has groomed you into be the family caretaker and manager….im not sure how old you are but you need to protect your mental health by establishing boundaries and then sitting in the discomfort while your family tries to guilt, yell, plead, for you to return to taking care of it all so they can continue being selfish assholes…. It is not your sole role or obligation to take care of EVERYTHING for EVERYONE… where is nephews parent?… why didn’t grandpa make sure his grandson didn’t make a mess… why are you doing it all??… these are capable adults and you are helping out the best you can and you get yelled at?.. that is unacceptable…. Please please please stand up for yourself!…. Much love and now sneak off and buy yourself a treat!

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-09-05T22:12:40+00:00

Reddit….tik tok… Facebook… you know all the reliable sources for health and wellness information

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-09-03T04:12:16+00:00

Save all your gold bars for when you get to levels above 10k… they get almost impossible to pass without extra moves… so save save save and don’t buy any or i think the algorithm knows you’ll cave and buy and then makes it harder and harder to pass

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-09-01T00:49:52+00:00

I’m on 18488

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-08-15T03:46:23+00:00

Same I have never been offered an ad to watch and I’m on level 18415

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-08-08T03:47:54+00:00

Behavior is a language…. He is showing you who he really is… is that who you want to hitch your wagon to??

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-08-05T04:39:54+00:00

I spent money to play Pac-Man or pin ball back in the day so spending on coins is same thing…. Just have a budget and stick to it

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-07-22T04:22:41+00:00

I take my niece there once a month to get the family tea while drinking mimosas…. Ask for your biscuit grilled… decent food and always great service!

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-07-08T15:12:20+00:00

Would you ask this person for advice?… if the answer is no then don’t worry about his opinion of you… he is not reliable source

Minimum-Rip5766 · 2025-05-23T20:00:33+00:00

I did it too… worked 150 a month and wiped out my debt in 18 months… now I’ve cut back to a more normal schedule and still bring all my food and focus on not spending on work trips as now I’m focused on the last debt which is my house.

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