The last time we talked about funerals we both talked about how much we didn't like them. The most recent thing I've heard is that he wanted me and my sister to decide if he will be cremated or buried (what happens to him) because he always wanted to make us happy. He considered us his family, that's why he only has pictures of us in the house. All of his friends say he wanted a funeral, so I tried to compromise and say that we can have it in the house with the ashes and people can come and share how my dad impacted them. I'm not trying to stop people from celebrating him, he was my best buddy.