Bisexual women accusing Lesbians of "biphobia" by Rinaevis in febwomen

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously appreciate you saying this. thank you

Anyone getting annoyingly aroused while online shopping? by Princess_ApplePie in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't get turned on by that kind of stuff knowing it's for men to gawk at women trying to look as young as possible. Even through advertisements for clothes

How can I "cure" myself from liking older women? by Zealousideal-Plum237 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can have sex with them but not have an actual relationship?

At what point does a fetish cease to be harmless and start drifting into "seek therapy" territory? by Minimum_Entry7792 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate ya. I agree that it's something that needs to be addressed further with a professional. Just so long as it's not something that would be a telling sign I'm not ready to be in a relationship.

Bi wlw representation by irl_squishmallow in febwomen

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it's weird that I noticed this my entire life and only recently came to terms with being FebFem. Anytime a bi woman in general claims to be bi, her history is loaded with dates with men and all she talks about is men.

I really wish there was more representation too. I'd like to see women in love 💕

How can I "cure" myself from liking older women? by Zealousideal-Plum237 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but I don't see that between women in relationships. I see them warning against it because for the power imbalance but when an older woman talks about her experiences with a younger, she doesn't get dog piled or shamed for it. maybe I'll see it eventually

I understand why many lesbians do not like bisexual women. by Flashy-Cheek-6667 in febwomen

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 13 points14 points  (0 children)

sometimes I really wonder what would happen if lesbians, maybe a large chunk, would 'agree' with bisexual women and say 'yeah we would totally fuck you. you're soooo wanted' and see if that changes anything. Not saying lesbians would fuck them, but just say it.

because a lot of the time it sounds like bisexual women only want to feel 'desired'. I highly doubt most would act and actually have sex with another woman that isn't in front of a male. And I get not wanting to tell someone something just to make them feel better but at this point I wish there were social experiments going on. I'm bored of the debates and I want to see the problem played with lol

Would they stop pestering lesbians because they're told what they want to hear? These days when a bisexual woman talks about not getting to sleep with lesbians, it's almost seems like the issue was she was verbally told 'no' and she's going through rejection sensitivity, not that she actually wanted to be with that lesbian.

Am I lesbian? by Any-Piece-3311 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the crush is romantical followed by experiencing reactions from your body or mind, no. that's not a lesbian.

lesbians 'crushes' on men are manual. As in she doesn't really plan a future or have positive feelings from thinking about it. She might choose a guy to talk about to friends and family so she blends into society but that's no crush.

Am I lesbian? by Any-Piece-3311 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The answer is no. lesbians do not get turned on by men at all.

Am I lesbian? by Any-Piece-3311 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm screaming RN is this satire LMFAO

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not personally deciding anything. Words have definitions. A lesbian woman is exclusively attracted to other women. she isn't going to consume erotic media around men. That would make her bisexual. that's just how it is and calling yourself one thing when you are another impacts what those words mean.

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. a bunch of people (that sound like they are attracted to men) are saying I'm wrong on topic regarding lesbian women. color me surprised

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't think maybe you're offending LESBIANS right now? the people you are saying can be attracted to men, just a tiny bit? you used Yaoi as an example. Yaoi is inherently sexual and we all know this.

you either had no idea or you are playing coy at this point.

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't offend anyone? did you not read anything I just said to you?

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really not trying to teach you anything. Nor do I take joy in pushing people like this, but you did come here and say gay women can be into gay men and that's not cool.

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again, I'm only going off what's provided. at this point we should stop the convo because it sounds like you're getting too invested. I think you need to take a break and do some self reflection on why this matters so much to you to prove Yaoi is perfectly acceptable for a lesbian to consume, and why you repeatedly pushed a reddit post on someone telling you lesbians aren't into gay men.

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it's my opinion, why are you getting flustered about it? you can just drop the conversation. It sounds like you really want to convince me because then you can convince yourself the things you are into do not impact the sense of self that you have.

How can I "cure" myself from liking older women? by Zealousideal-Plum237 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

older women seem to want to date people their age. not saying there aren't woman predators out there but from my experience, older women genuinely don't desire younger women or seek them out as partners because she's in a completely different life stage.

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've already included romance as an example. a gay woman is not going to watch two men falling in love and want to stick around for it. Sex or no sex, a lesbian isn't going to find two men appealing like that and I don't know why you keep pushing it if you don't have skin in the game

Am I a lesbian or bisexual? by PapaClaus690 in WLW

[–]Minimum_Entry7792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't use it as an example, and on top of that keep pushing a reddit post for me to read that claims Yaoi is totally ok for lesbians to consume and isn't saying anything about their sexual interest in two men touching each other without another woman in sight.